> To all....
>
> Let me try to asnwer the question to the fullest, so that nej thiaj
> paub ONE of the main reason, if not the main reason. Keep in mind
> that between a man/woman, everything does come down to sex/love..or
> whatever you call it. Without it, a relationship will not work. For
> those who says sex has nothing to do with it, cov no yog dag
> xwb....muab tus qau txiav hlo..muab lub pim xaws kiag lawm....the
> other partner will not have the relationship to begin with. So it is
> clearly visible that there must be sex between a man/woman for a
> strong relationship between the two.
>
> Lets take this "sex" between the two to a newer, clearer level. When
> i was in my younger days, a friend and I picked up a girl (a hmong
> girl) at a bar, and took her to an isolated place. I was about
> 29...and she was about 22 or so...and after taking turns for about 3
> hours (and very tired), we brought her back to Sabaidee in Sacramento
> cuz that was where she wanted to go. When we reached Sabaidee at
> about midnight, we also ran into about 7 of our friends who were out
> having fun. They too, wanted to take her out back to the same
> isolated place. So again, all nine of us, along with her, went back
> to the same place. At about 4am in the morning, all the guys
> (including myself) were all tired. We jsut wanted to come home. On
> the way home, I made a joke (more like a question) on whose dick was
> the biggest...of course, she laughed and didn't tell me. I then went
> ahead and asked her whether she was satisfied and whether we were any
> "good"......and her answer was...
>
> "Nej ces...9 leeg twb tsi npaum li 3 tus 17 years old guys last
> night..." Need not ask why older women are after younger men. The
> fact of the matter is...some women lub "yees qau" yeej loj dua other
> women tiag. In addition, most men sexually "peaked" at about 25...and
> most women peak at about 35. Peb cov txiv neej going after younger
> women, ces xav tau ntsej muag, xav tau tus
yau...probably to show
> everyone that "yes...I still got it..." Old women going after younger
> men
ces...probably to show that "yes...he is still very strong..the
> way i like it.."
>
> Speaking truthfully, tamsim no...i would say only 30%% guys over 30
> will go for the 2nd time right after the first. and maybe 1%% will go
> for the 3rd time after the first. Temsis nej nug cov pojniam above 30
> meb...lawd yuav tias "that's it???" or "more more.."
>
> I hope this asnwser the question
>
> yaweh