To all....

Let me try to asnwer the question to the fullest, so that nej thiaj
paub ONE of the main reason, if not the main reason. Keep in mind
that between a man/woman, everything does come down to sex/love..or
whatever you call it. Without it, a relationship will not work. For
those who says sex has nothing to do with it, cov no yog dag
xwb....muab tus qau txiav hlo..muab lub pim xaws kiag lawm....the
other partner will not have the relationship to begin with. So it is
clearly visible that there must be sex between a man/woman for a
strong relationship between the two.

Lets take this "sex" between the two to a newer, clearer level. When
i was in my younger days, a friend and I picked up a girl (a hmong
girl) at a bar, and took her to an isolated place. I was about
29...and she was about 22 or so...and after taking turns for about 3
hours (and very tired), we brought her back to Sabaidee in Sacramento
cuz that was where she wanted to go. When we reached Sabaidee at
about midnight, we also ran into about 7 of our friends who were out
having fun. They too, wanted to take her out back to the same
isolated place. So again, all nine of us, along with her, went back
to the same place. At about 4am in the morning, all the guys
(including myself) were all tired. We jsut wanted to come home. On
the way home, I made a joke (more like a question) on whose dick was
the biggest...of course, she laughed and didn't tell me. I then went
ahead and asked her whether she was satisfied and whether we were any
"good"......and her answer was...

"Nej ces...9 leeg twb tsi npaum li 3 tus 17 years old guys last
night..." Need not ask why older women are after younger men. The
fact of the matter is...some women lub "yees qau" yeej loj dua other
women tiag. In addition, most men sexually "peaked" at about 25...and
most women peak at about 35. Peb cov txiv neej going after younger
women, ces xav tau ntsej muag, xav tau tus yau...probably to show
everyone that "yes...I still got it..." Old women going after younger
men ces...probably to show that "yes...he is still very strong..the
way i like it.."

Speaking truthfully, tamsim no...i would say only 30%% guys over 30
will go for the 2nd time right after the first. and maybe 1%% will go
for the 3rd time after the first. Temsis nej nug cov pojniam above 30
meb...lawd yuav tias "that's it???" or "more more.."

I hope this asnwser the question

yaweh