Up on the hills and mountain tops in a land not too distant, there
lived a good man whose back bent double with age and toil due to labor
and emotional distress. At last, he grew very tired and hopeless of
life that he became very sick and was bed ridden. As he laid in bed,
he cried out in his heart and mind to the God of Death - "I cannot
bear this life any longer. I wish Death would come and take me away."
No longer than the last word of his dying wish was murmured, Death
appeared in a grisly skeleton and said to him: "What would you like me
to do, friend Mortal? I heard you call my name?"
"Please, Sir," the middle-age man replied. "Would you kindly help me
to lift my illness and hard labor from my shoulder? Now that I see
you, I do not want to die."
As human, we would often be sorry if our wishes were gratified. Most
men may wish for death but they still do not want to die. Tej zaum,
neeg tsis pom dej dag ces siab tsis nqig xwb. Tej nqe lus li nov,
txhiaj tau lawm mus ib seem, tiamsis yog yuav txhais kuj muaj li ob,
peb seem thiab. Txawm li ntawd los qhov tseeb, yog thaum ib tug tib
neeg muaj mob loj heev (incurable cancer) thiab seev ke tuag (suicidal
thoughts) vim ntawd noj ntawd haus tas lawm ces txawm leejtwg cheem
los yeej yuav tsis tau. Tabsis yog nws ntawd nyiaj keeb puaj txwm,
ntawd noj, ntawd haus tseem tshuav thiab yog nws kho siab es lam seev
xwb ces Tub Tuag raws nws mas nws tseem ntshai tshaj li ntshai dab.
Yog nws ntseeg kevcai dab-qhuas li Poj Hmoob rhawv kab, Yawm Hmoob
rhawv kev tseg, Shamanism, ces ntoj neeb (spiritual healing) nthuav
yaig (herbal healing) thov Siv Yig li hwjhuaj los kho me ntsis xwb
yeej yuav zoo. Yog ntseeg kevcai dabqhuas li Poj Mab rhawv tuaj, Yawm
Mab rhawv tawm, Bhuddism, Christianity, Muslim, Hindu, etc. ces mus
ntoj mus thuv kom Xibhwb pab ua plig rau.
On Aug 26, 12:44Â am, zhen
googlemail.com> wrote:> dr. pao thiab nej cov txwj laus,
>
> kuv xav thov nej cov dr thiab txwj laus pab nrog kuv xav seb yuav ua
> li cas. kuv muaj ib tug txiv ntxawm, nws tsis xav ua neej nyob lawm.
> nws tsuas tso pa rau kuv thiab kuv txiv wb xwb. kuv yog niag qhaub poj
> niam xwb los nws tseem hais rau kuv hnov thiab, vim tias kuv yog nws
> tus xam phaj ees kiv mus hospital. nws muaj ib tug mob, cancer, tej
> zaum nws yuav zoo kuj tau. nws mob cancer rau lub prostate; lawv hais
> tias yog nws phais ces good chance nws yuav ciaj thiab.
>
> tiam si, nws tu tu siab kawg kiag li. tam sim no, peb twb sib koom ua
> neeb cuab rau nws lawm thiab. tiam si, tseem tsis tau zoo pauj thiab
> ua kev zoo siab rau nws. qhov nws tu tu siab, vim nws cov me nyuam
> tsis hlub nws (raws li nws hais). nws nem qhuav yog 60 xyoo xwb. nws
> hais, 'ab, kuv ces, tuag los kav liam. kuv tej tub tej ntxhais yeej
> tsis hlub kuv li. lawv tsis tsim txiaj. kuv hu lawv tuaj pab los lawv
> tsis tuaj. kuv thov me me noj xwb los tsis pom leej twg nqa dab tsi
> tuaj. yog kuv nyob, nyob ua dab tsi? tej zaum txog kuv caij, tej zaum
> kuv ntaub ntawv tag lawm tiag.' nws hais mas, qhov kuv xav xwb, nyob
> hauv nws lub siab, nws yeej tsis nyiam hais tej lus no, tiam si, hos
> tu siab dhau hwv lawm, thiaj li lam tau lam hais lawm xwb.
>
> thaum zoo li no lawm, nej cov dr thiab txwj laus xav tias puas yuav
> muaj ib txoj kev pab ntxiv lawm? yog pab raws li western medicine,
> yuav pab li cas? tej yam zoo li no, peb hmoob yeej tau ntsib lawm,
> tiam si, qhov no, yog kuv thawj zaug xwb, kuv tsis pom qab xav tsis
> pom qab pab nws. ntau tus neeg kuv pab txhais lus rau, txawm lawv lub
> neej zoo thiab phem los, yog muaj ib tug mob, lawv yeej tsis xav mus
> kiag li. tiam si, this case is very difficult not only because of his
> current state of mind but also nws txheeb kuv dhau hwv lawm.
>
> qhov kuv xav xwb, raws li kuv paub western medicine perspective, thaum
> ib tug neej xav tuag tsis xav ua neej lawm, qhov no yog thwm tias nws
> puas hlwb lawm (psychologically ill). qhov no puas yog? tej yam zoo li
> no, raws li western medicine perspective, lawv yeej kom coj mus kho
> hlwb. the problem is, the patient (if he is indeed mentally/
> psychologically ill, i don't know, i bet he would be diagnosed as
> such, however) doesn't want to get better. yog coj kiag mus rau thaj
> maum los kuj zoo li yus niam cia li yuav yuam nws, cuag li yus niam
> cia li quab yuam. yog tso tseg, cas yus lub siab niam yuav tsis kheev
> kiag li thiab.
>
> tus txiv ntxawm no nws kuj coj tau zoo kawg. tiam si, kuj tsis paub
> vim li cas nws lub neej ho zoo li no. ua li nws quaj quaj, "cuag li
> lub ntuj niam tsis muaj qhov muag. kuv txoj niag hmoo phem no, cia kom
> tag rau tiam neej no txhob pub nrog kuv mus saum ntuj tom neej tom
> ntej." peb xeem vaj los kuj xav tsis tag li thiab. tsuas yog nws tib
> tse neeg thiaj li tsis muaj me nyuam tiav ntawv siab. tiam si, nws
> hais lus thiab nws lub tswv yim mas peb xeem vaj kuj nyiam thiab tos
> kawg. yog yuav muab hais tiag, nws yeej yog ib tug tsaws 4 tsaws ntug.
> i think this is a case of, "yus hais tau lawv cov, tiam si, yus ho
> hais tsis tau yus cov."
>
> peb yeej ntuas ntuas rau lawm thiab. tiam si, ib tug neeg ntse npaum
> no, xyov peb ntuas nws puas yuav yuav. lam hais lub ncauj kom sov siab
> xwb.
>
> kuv tseem hluas heev. kuv kuj tsis paub hmoob lub neej (culture) kom
> txhij kom txaus. peb lub neej hmoob no, yog thaum twg zoo li no lawm,
> muaj kev pab li cas?
