> Tserwayia M. Thao,
> Since you already have a mean to inform the public, you should start a
> campaign to raise money for the headstones. You will never get a
> concensus if you ask for people's opinions.  There are times when you
> must go ahead and act even if you are alone at first.  If you are
> right, people will follow you.  And I can assure you that this is the
> right thing to do.  My only question is - can this be done without the
> parents approval.  Sounds like the mom had at least inquired about the
> headstones so she would grant permission if the dad can't be found.
>
> Hnub kaj