Once upon a time, there was this girl who had four boyfriends.
She loved the 4th boyfriend the most and adorned him with rich robes
and treated him to the finest of delicacies. She gave him nothing but
the best. She also loved the 3rd boyfriend very much and was always
showing him off to neighboring kingdoms. However, she feared that one
day he would leave her for another. She also loved her 2nd boyfriend.
He was her confidant and was always kind, considerate and patient with
her. Whenever this girl faced a problem, she could confide in him, and
he would help her get through the difficult times.
The girls' 1st boyfriend was a very loyal partner and had made great
contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom. However, she did
not love the first boyfriend. Although he loved her deeply, she hardly
took notice of him.

One day, the girl fell ill and she knew her time was short. She
thought of her luxurious life and wondered, 'I now have four boyfri!
ends with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone.' Thus, she asked the
4th boyfriend. 'I loved you the most, endowed you with the finest
clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will
you follow me and keep me company?' 'No way!', replied the 4th
boyfriend, and he walked away without another word. His answer cut
like a sharp knife right into her heart.

The sad girl then asked the 3rd boyfriend, 'I loved you all my life.
Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company? 'No!',
replied the 3rd boyfriend. 'Life is too good! When you die, I'm going
to marry someone else!' Her heart sank and turned cold.

She then asked the 2nd boyfriend, 'I have always turned to you for
help and you've always been there for me. When I die, will you follow
me and keep me company?' 'I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time',
replied the 2nd boyfriend. 'At the very most, I can only walk with you
to your grave.' His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and
the girl was devastated.

Then a voice called out: 'I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter
where you go.' The girl looked up, and there was her 1st boyfriend. He
was very skinny as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect. Greatly
grieved, the girl said, 'I should have taken much better care of you
when I had the chance!'

In truth, you have 4 boyfriends in your lives:
Your 4th boyfriend is your BODY. No matter how much time and effort
you lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you die.
Your 3rd boyfriend is your Possessions, Status and Wealth. When you
die, it will all go to others.
Your 2nd boyfriend is your Family and Friends. No matter how much they
have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up to
the grave.
And your 1st boyfriend is your SOUL. Often neglected in pursuit of
wealth, power and pleasures of the world. However, your Soul is the
only thing that will follow you where ever you go. Cultivate,
strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of you that
will follow you beyond this life and continue with! you throughout
Eternity. Being happy doesn't mean everything's perfect. It means
you've decided to see beyond the imperfections.