> Nhubkaj...and Zhen,
>
> i agree with you to certain extend, except that in this case, it was
> involved with the husband himself...and the system was willing to put
> the husband and his wife on the financial burden of the family to be
> drained, such that this is his own legally marriage wife. the only
> thing we wanted you to understand is that when it involved with
> husband and wife, the system should have ease the tension, instead of
> not only ruining their marriage, but their financial--such that there
> is no remedy of the cost from the public system on how much they had
> gone through (humiliation, times, and money).
>
> Born2beMhong