Cov Nus & Viv Ncaus,
Thov nej nrog kuv xav thiab tawm kuas khiv khua heem rau zaj no seb
nej xav le cas. Lub weekend tag no kuv mus in lub ntees tuag es tau
ntsib thiab nrog 3 tug niam yau tham pem. For some reasons, although
I did not say anyhting about their realtionships/marriages, they feel
that I need to understand their positions and reasonnings. Here's
what they have to say:

1. All 3 of them claimed to be very young and innocent and were lured
into being niam yau by 3 much older guys who have more brain and
power. Yus nyuam qhuav hlob xwb yus tsis paub dab tsi li. Nws nim
hlub x yus thiab yuav presents thiab paj ntoos pub yus tsis tseg.
Ntsib yus los hais lus qab zib yam nkaus li hauv tej movie xwb. Yug
los luaj li twb tsis tau muaj ib tug twg hais zoo thiab nyiam yus
npaum ntawd. Thaum kawg yus thiaj li tham nws thiab yuav nws.

Hnub aw,

cas tsis tham kuv nad, kuv tseem yog ib tug nraug drab es ua li cas es
nej pheej yuav mus txeeb luag txiv li ntawm! Tug kav tug thiaj ua
neej sov siab os!

On Apr 22, 7:09 am, hnub...@gmail.com wrote:

pog hnubkaj a

LOL@Noobxaum Nhubkaj....

tham mus tham los zoo li koj yog npawg lawm thiab....smiles!

"Welcome to America, these ladies had choices, and they have free will
to choose whether they want to stay or go, as no one is holding gun on
their heads to stay in the position that they lived."

niam loj los yog niam yau, tsi muaj leej twg yuav mojthej nqagkab tuav
rawv lawv cajnpab es sij lawv nyob...nyob rau lub teb chaw no lawm,
yog nws tsi nyiam nws tus kheej thiab ntshaws nws tus kheej ces tsi
muaj leej twg yuav los yuam tau nws li.

yog li no, tsi sim nyog peb tham txog luag lwm leej lwm tus li no lawm
aws--yog peb tsi muaj txoj cai los tsim kho dua ib txoj cai tshiab
aws. li kuv ib txwm hais dhau los lawm aws. "do we want someone else
infringe onto our own free choice, rights and liberty? the answer is
NO." since we dont even want other to come into our lives or infringe
our free choice, rights and liberty. why do we need to bother others'
own free will as well.

i sincerely hope that my Noobxaum Nhubkaj would understand this, and
we should not be visiting this issue again......LOL!

Born2beMhong

Cwjmem & Kwv,
Neb missed kuv qhov points lawm os ob yawm thaub e... Cov niam yau no
lawv xav xav kom lwm tus pojniam paub lawv cov hej phoom es lawv thiaj
piav rau kuv mloog vim kuv tsis yog lawv qhab nab naw. Kuv tsis nrhiav
txiv os mog. Yus twb muaj yus ib tug thaub lawm es ua cas yus thiaj
yuav nrhiav nas lawv. Kuv niag thaub los yeej tsis nrhiav niam yau li
thiab os vim wb yeej txaus siab rau wb lub neej lawm ne (knock on
wood). I'm trying to understand the Hmong psychie here. That's all
folks!

Hnub Kaj

On Apr 22, 10:09 am, hnub...@gmail.com wrote:

On Apr 22, 9:09 am, hnub...@gmail.com wrote:

Nya Ai Born,

Big :) to you, not mad and LOL...

I sense hostility, annoyance and irritation over the subject.
Hummm...a little bit overly-sensitive too - very interesting. Now, I
really wonder why that is...

Kuv nyeem cov ntawv no, Hnub tsis yog pojniam tabsis yog txivneej.
Don't be fooled by his style of writing. Ntshai twb yog nws xav tuaj
muab nej cov meb thaub cav kas ntag los mas lawv.

Nyob zoo Hnubkaj,

Zoo sab, koj coj ib zaaj rhab hab qaub peb tsoom txivneej lub sab tuaj
thaam rua peb suav dlawg txawg (ntsuag) los sis luj pub koj noog. Raws
le koj cov lug hab raws le kuv ntsib dlua lug, mas kuv pum le nuav:

1. vim quaspuj lub sab yeej muas hab nyam lug qaabzib, ces tsoom nraug
laug kws muaj zoo laajfaab tswvyim txhaj le haub/ntxag tau. Thaus puab
lub cev nkaujxwb (virginity) puag hab raug siv ua rua puab qaug nyam
tug thaub laug lawd ces puab kawg yuav tsum moog ua thaub laug namyau
xwb. They have been victimized and manipulated by their lovers
psychologically and sexually.

2. Cov txivneej kws yuav namyau ib txha mas yog vim nam hlub yeej tsi
compatible rua puab lub life hab puab txuj kev ntshaw puab txhaj le
yuav nam yau. Muaj tej tug quaspuj (wives) mas tub nkeeg dhlau, has
npaum twg los yeej hloov tsi tau. Muaj tej tug quaspuj mas tsi paub
taab, paub cai ces xaav kuas ua tau phim tug txiv los taab haaj ua
ncauj puam suab khawv, ceg tuag quas zawv huv tsev xwb. Muaj tej tug
quaspuj mas txaaj muag dhlau, tsi yeem tawm rooj nrug tug txiv moog ua
qhua hlo le. Muaj tej tug quaspuj mas ho sexually active dhlau ces
taag zug moog yos ncauj saab nraa le hab.