> Yog yuav ua qhov yooj yim xwb ces thaum paub tseeb tias siav tu lawm
> tiag tiag no ces yuav ua li cas los yeej tau.  Tus tuag ntawd yeej
> tsis paub, tsis hnov, tsis pom li lawm.  Qhov tib neeg ua no yog ua
> rau cov ciaj xwb, yeej tsis yog ua rau cov tuag kiag li.  Taw kev los
> yeej yog ua qhia rau cov ciaj xwb kom cov cia xav tias thaum tuag lawm
> los tseem muaj kev mus no xwb.  Tus tuag lawv ces yeej tsis hnov, tsis
> paub, tsis pom li lawm.  Yog tus tuag lawm tseem hnov taw kev thiab
> ces nws kuj tsis tau tuag los mas.  Kev cai "church" los ib yam
> nkaus.  Tsuas yog ua kom cov tseem nyob muaj chaw tu moo nkaus xwb os.
>
> Yog vim li cas thiaj li yuav tsum muab ua kom luv me ntsis mas?  Vim
> tsis muaj sij hawm puas yog?  Maj mus ua dabtsi nas?  Haujlwm ces
> txawm ua txog hnub tuag los yeej tsis tas li.  Nrog cov xyom cuab nyob
> me ntsis kom lawv siab qig me ntsis tsis tau los?  Txawm leejtwg tsis
> nrog xyom cuab nyob los lawv yeej tsis yuav li nes.  Ho nrog lawv nyob
> los lawv sis nqa tes ua tsaug xwb.
>
> Qhov teebmeem ntawm Hmoob tej kev cai tsis yog vim Hmoob ua tsis yog
> lawm tabsis vim cov tib neeg li koj thiab li KUV no tsis nkag siab zoo
> tias yog vim li cas thiaj li ua li ntawd no xwb.  What people do not
> understand, they most often blindly reject.
>
> The other problem is that most people nowadays like to compare and
> contrast the different rituals among different religions/practices.
> They frequently like to think that one way is superior to another or
> that one practice must be right and another must be wrong.  It is like
> saying an apple is wrong because it is not an orange.
>
> If cost is your concern, pre-funeral arrangement, as you already had
> may give your relatives peace of mind when your day comes.