TV..

yeej yog li koj hais....peb yog moob tibyam..temsis ib leeg ua txawv
ib qho...vim li no, ua li kuv hais rau vimhlub sub, cov laus thiaj
tsim tau ib cov niag lus tshoob kos tias (for hmong weddings only)/.

1. tsi yog tuaj sim zeb sim taws
2. tuaj xeeb neej xeeb tsav tiag tiag
3. muaj yeej cuab swb cuab...or muaj lau muaj maum...meaning ib tus
ua, ib tus caum kom rooj tshoob mus taus xwb....

le kuv pom mas...yog ua tau vauv ua tau 3 qhov no lawm mas.....yeej
tsi muaj teebmeem li....for me, what tus mejkoob ua mas...nws tsi nav
thwm 3 npe lus no li lawm....vim li cas kuv hais li no? txawm yog tib
co moob ib tebchaw xw blos...ib leeg tseem ua ib qho thiab....vim li
no, tus txum mej (when necesarry) yauv tau coj tus sad nraud tiag tiag
li...tus sad nraud yuav tsum yooog tus hauv tsev (or the bride's
fmaily) tiag tiag li.

yog tsi ua li no ces, kev tshoob kos yeej mus tsi tau regardless of
how good a person is....kvu tias kuv tsi ok ces tsi ok xwb....tsi k k
what anyone said...i say no...and i mean no....qhov no siv puas tau?
ua li kuv hais no, yog siv tau ces, tsi tag ua tshoob...who likes to
drink until they vomit? who wants to pay money for a new family
member? who wants to waste time in a wedding when one coudl go on a
vacation? yeej tsi muaj leejtwg xav ua tej no.....temsis "lam" li
lawm xwb....if its up to me to decide what should be done and what
should not be done during a hmong wedding ces, kuv ham tsi xav ua
"hmong tshiab's style" thiab xwb....."you can' tforce me to do
that...i didn't want to come...they made me come..."

yaweh