Nim no kev sij nrauj sawv daws tsuas taw tes nram courthouse lawm
xwb. Yog li thaum sib yuav peb puas tsi nyog ua kev cai Hmmob lawm?

Peace,
Hnub Kaj

NK..

lately....your questions are getting weirder and weirder...are you
working on a paper or seomething?

to asnwer your question, tus "liam" ces kiam kom liam mus...tus uas
tseem saib taus txoj kev li kev cai ces nws ua nws yam...temsis hais
txog kev "txim nyog" ces...everything we do...yeej yog tsim nyog es
peb thiaj ua.

yaweh

On Aug 4, 10:24 am, hnub...@gmail.com wrote:

yuav hais li koj los yeej yog lus kawg kiag, yuav luag tagnrho cov
neeg sibnraug ces yeej kawg mus rau hauv court lawm xwb. yus niam yus
txiv thiab tej neej tej tsav ces yog lam yog cuav lawm xwb--cov...

Again, each existence has its own reason.

Puas tsim nyog ua ke cai Hmoob lawm? Truly, you have blinded yourself
by shutting out yourself to other alternatives. Jesus said, "give to
God what is God's and give to Czesar what what is Czesar's".

Yog sib yuav raws li kev cai Hmoob xwb ces sib nrauj ntawm Hmoob xwb
los yeej tau lawm. Vim cov tam sim no sib yuav raws li kev cai
"courthouse" ces thiaj li yuav tau mus sib nrauj daws li kevcai
"courthouse" thiab. What you submit to has power over you. If you
did not have a marriage license, you do not need the courthouse to
official declare your marriage over. Give to the court what's due the
court and give to Hmong kev cai, what's due Hmoob kev cai. Both have
their own legitimacy and neither should be consider irrelevant.

On Aug 4, 10:24 am, hnub...@gmail.com wrote:

Kuv muaj ib cov tub thiab yog leej twg tus ntxhais caum kuv cov tub
mas kuv tsi tuaj ua tshoob nawb. Kuv cia thaum ob tug npaj tau rooj
hmov cais ob tug mam cawm peb tuaj koom noj hmov xwb hos yuav kom kuv
tuaj hais tshoob li hmoob pheej ua mas kuv tsi tuaj os. Qhov kuv tsi
tuaj mas vim li hais court system yog tus control every thing for me
as father have no say when their family not getting well. Yog leej
twg tus ntxhais caum kuv tus tub thiab xav kom kuv tuaj ua tshoob mas
nws yuav get bad luck and disappoint. Let us change and follow the
system of the land.

On Aug 4, 10:24 am, hnub...@gmail.com wrote:

Tus me tub hluas los yog ntxhais hluas no hais yog lawm
laiv!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, nej cov paubtab yuav tau nyeem thiab rov xav txog
tus no cov lus nawb!!!!!!!!

pebhmoobruam,

There are couple ways that we could do to mess it up or better it.
You see, if you are Hmong then you need to bind with Hmong custom and
follow it. If you considered yourself as American then do the
American way. One thing that I would like to assure you is that if
you are not afraid of being shame and lose face then anything is
possible, however, as many of SCHers are moving two steps forward and
one step back is that we could not get rid of these customs.

Perhaps you should disclose yourself publicly so whoever doesn't want
you to be their yawgcua should considered to give a very expensive
advice to their daughters now...hahahah

kuamemiab

My cousin just divorced a year ago and he and his ex-wife just paid
about $500.00 to the court. They did not seek a lawyer due to the
higher lawyer's fee.

He is currently living with his Hmong-fiancee in Arkansas without
marrying her. The downry is too high and the rate of divorce is
increasing so they dicided not to get marry.

On Aug 4, 11:07 pm, kuamemiab asia.com> wrote:

Kuamemiab

Nej sawvdaws kuj los yog muab tau ntau lub tswv yim thiab kev xav lawm
tiam sis cia kuv ho muab ib qho scenerio no rau nej nrog xyuas saib
seb nej ho xav li cas ntxiv thiab:

Thaum yus tus ntxhais yuav txiv mas yus hu kwv tij tuaj nrog quas, yog
tsis hu ces lawv tsis kam tuaj nrog yus noj tshoob. Tsis tag li hov
mas lawv tseem cem thiab foom yus ntxiv thiab. Thaum hu kwvtij...