Cov yawg, yog koj pojniam los yog koj tus txiv lam cia li tuag no yam
uas "relief" rau koj tshaj yog dabtsi?

Rau kuv mas yog her nagging, big mouth, money spending, and control.
These will be a great relief for me!

On Jul 17, 9:43 am, ktha...@yahoo.com wrote:

kath......

ua cas poj niam tuag tseem zoo siab thiab laud? ruam tas tas thiab
kawg kiag li lawm os koj na. please rate yourself among the
followings: Poj niam tuag txawm yog nyuaj siab #1 ntag sad.........

100 Death of a spouse
73 Divorce
36 Change to different line of work
37 Death of a close friend
65 Marital separation (or separation from any major intimate
relationship)
63 Jail term
63 Death of...

Yog koj relief thaum koj pojniam tuag ces maim khua tias nws twb tuag
ntev heev lawm os mog tiam sis tsis tau faus xwb. Hos nws los ntshai
twb muab koj ua funeral tag lawm thiab los tsis paub laud. Cov
relationship li no ces xob nyob ua ke zoo dua nyab tsam luag pheej
tsis txawj tuag es yus laj laj tos thiab pheej tsis tau relief li ces
yus txawm pab speed up her death thiab ov.

Here's a small trick for you to test and see if you still love your
wife: Hold her hands and ask her to look straight into your eyes.
When she does, you look into her eyes as well and just hold it for 1
minute. Her eyes will start sending you messages and suddenly your
mind is bombarded with gush of happy memories. If you don't
experience this sensation, you are in trouble but don't lose heart.
This just mean, you need to work on your relationship or you both will
start drifting apart. By the way, the more you do this excercise, the
better your relationship will be. Lam hais xwb yog tsis haum leej twg
siab no los txhob bite my head off, OK?

Peace,
HK

ktha-- there has been a living proof. twb muaj ib tug yawg hmoob nyob
st. paul dai tuag vim nws poj niam tuag lawm. kuv cov niam ntxawm
tham rau kuv hais tias tus txiv neej no nws ua hauj lwm nrog lawv.
thaum nws tus poj niam tsis tau tuag mas nws thiab nws niag poj niam
niaj hnub sib ceg. tej hnub mas nws niag poj niam tseem hu xov tooj
tuaj nrog nws sib ceg sib ceg tom company thiab. txog caij lawb kam
mas nws yeej tsis xav mus tsev li vim nws ntxub nws niag poj niam
heev, ntxub npaum li ntxub dab ntxaug ntag no. thaum nws niag poj
niam mob mob mus pw nram hospital, nws yeej tsis quav ntsej mus saib
mus xyuas li. tab sis tom qab nws niag poj niam tuag tas. nws niaj
hnub seem nco nws poj niam thiab nws niaj hnub tuaj qua tom companyj.
nws hais tias nws nco nco nws poj niam es nws kam...

Me kwv ntxawg, yog muaj li koj hais tiag ces tsis yog nws nco nws
pojniam nawb. Yog nws nco nkawd txoj kev sib ceg xwb os. Qhov nws
tuaj ntawd mas yog nws maj mus nrog nws niag mebthaub sib ceg tom dab
teb xwb. Yog twb tsis sib hlub es ua cas ho tseem sib nco mav? Tsis
muaj.

Yog tsis li ntawd ces nws lam mus quaj li ntawd saib cov pojniam tom
company puas lam los muab nws puag thiab comfort nws xwb. Nws kuj
muaj tswvyim zoo thiab ov... tabsis lub tswvyim ntawd tsis work ne,
nws thiaj mus dai tuag lawd. Dai tuag vim nws chim rau nws lub
tswvyim ruam uas ua tsis tau haujlwm rau nws ntawd xwb.

Thanks, Hnubkaj, for that therapy. I will do that to my 69 x-girl
friend when I come up to meneejxaustas.. hihihihihiihihih.... j/k...

ms

MS,
It's supposed to be used with your wife not your x girl friend. I
know you may feel akward and/or embarassed about doing this with your
wife but you really should try it. You will be nicely surprised by
her reaction and your own sensation. Let me know the outcomes,
seriously.

Peace,
HK

I would say the thought of the death of a loving and caring husband or
wife is not a very welcome one for a lot of loving couple.

However, in some case if when you married to you husband or wife and
you realize your promised to be together till death apart and later
turn out to be a goal that you set it for yourself then I guess you
can go ahead and celebrate it with pride when you finally achieve it..
-[This is a joke by the way]

thaub K

tos koj tsis muaj pojniam thiab koj pojniam tuag ntxov-v los tsis vim nws
big mouth, nagging. yog vim nws dhuav koj rhaus lawm es thiaj xav mus
thawj uas duas tus tshiab tsuag-g thiaj taus tus tshiab tsis zoo lis koj
nes.

Nhubkaj,

you must not been reading my post for Kthao about "Yuav niam yau".
because of the weak men side, it does not matter how hard his life is
in the marriage situation--he would stick to it and be relief after
her death and that that is about right for KThao....LOL...j/k!

hmmmmmmm....wonder if Nhubkaj can give me a lesson in real life to see
if it does work....LOL....j/k! There is no way it will work by just
hold her handas ask her or to look her straight into her eyes. where
had you been living nhubkaj...are you living proof in the grandma's
age....LOL? don't bother to tell that to these Lycee people because
they are ages...their wives won't want to be hold on the hand in look
into the eyes asking that kind of question. their wives will give
them a triple smile and sending them to hell.....LOL! what you were
saying is about little kids nowadays that are playing Niamtais
Yawmtxiv, and does not know a thing....smile!

perhaps you are not grandma to understand what those older generation
lived their life and living proof in the darkness....don't you know
that they don't even want to let the light on...hahhahahahah LOL!...

that is the very reason why KThao would be such relief....