Cov phoojywg,

Thaum muaj ib lub party twg mas peb hmoob yeej nyiam muaj lasvoos. Ib
txhia nyias kuj lasvoos nrog nyias tus txiv los yog tus pojniam xwb.
Ib txhia kuj nyiam mus thov luag tus pojniam mus nrog nws lasvoos.

Nej cov txivneej - yog ib tug txivneej los thov nej pojniam mus
lasvoos nrog nws, nej puas kam thiab. Yog kam, ib chim neb mus tsev
neb puas sib tham txog qhov nkawd mus lasvoos? Puas chim? Puas muaj
npas ham thiab?

Kuv nug li no vim tsis ntev tas los no peb ib co phoojywg mus ib lub
party ces txawm muaj ib tug txivneej los thov kuv ib tug phoojywg
pojniam mus nrog nws lasvoos. Nws tus txiv kuj tsis hais dab tsi
thiab tabsis tom qab ntawd ces nws txawm pheej chim rau nws pojniam
hais tias yeej yog nws pojniam nyiam tus txivneej tod lawm xwb mas
nkawd thiaj li mus lasvoos ua ke li ntawd.

Nej puas tau muaj experience txog zaj no thiab?

Tsis muaj teebmeem txog zaj koj hais no kiag!

Nkauj Hmoob Lis,

That's just the way it is. When you go out to dance, other man will
come and ask for your wife to have a dance with him. If you don't
want that to happen, you should stay home. It depends too, on how
they dance. If they just walk and dance like the old Lao style, then
it's ok, they didn't touch one another. But if they dance like the
new style these days, they will have to touch each other. Many men
went to the party for that purpose, to hold some body's wife's waist
or hands.

No, I don't get jealous and angry when my wife dance with someone
else. I do that too, so why should both be angry at one another?
Like I said, if you don't want that to happen then just dance with
your wife at home. Well, that also depends on how pretty your wife
is. If she's pretty, then many men would want to dance with her but
if she's not too pretty then don't worry about it.

You need to tell your friends to stay home from now on and don't go to
the party any more if her husband is not too happy.

Phoojywg Qub.

tug viv ncaug,

peb cov quas puj mas tsi muaj teeb meem dlaab tsi tab sis cov quas
yawg yeej muaj nawb, vim puab khib peb dlua. kuv tub ntsib dlua lug
lawm. kuv tug quas yawg wb moog ib lub party kws yog noj tshoob...

Phoojywgzoo2..

Es koj lub mojzaam zoo nkauj dlua ces koj tub phubthaub txhaj
preoccupied le ntawd txug koj xwb los mas. Nwg txawm chim sab mivntsiv
los ua zoo has rua nwg ces tau lawm. Le caag los yuav tsum yog koj coj
cai hab leem cai es tsi txhob moog noj mov cov zog xwb ces tau lawm.
Raws le kuv ntsuag koj cov lug mas ntxim zoo le koj muaj ntsis tu cev
zoo hab pleeg tsawv es koj tug phubthaub txhaj preoccupied ua luaj xwb
os, puas yog?

Kev moog party lawm mas taab txawm luas pej kum haiv los kuj muaj tej
mej has sau toj nuav. Nwg nyob ntawm lub social situation ntawd xwb.
Yog has tas muaj party tshoob kug los lwm yaam tseem ceeb mas kev kuv
yuav moog thov lwm tug le quaspuj nrug kuv laasvoos yuav tsum yog tug
kuv fwm nwg kuv txhaj le ua. Yog kuv nyam luas tug quaspuj es kuv ca
le moog thov nrug kuv laasvoos mas kuv ho tsi yeem ua le ntawd.
Morally ua le ntawd tub txhum kuv txuj kev ntseeg lawm.

kuv hais rau nej cov quas puj-- txoj kev mus club, party, mus lavoos
heev heev tsis zoo nawb. yog 2 hlis, 3 hlis mam mus ib zaug thiab mus
tej lub special occassions such as wedding, graduation tej no xwb yeej
mus tau kawg. tab sis yog mus club xwb ces yuav tsis zoo nawb. nej
mus ntau ces muaj tej zaum lwm tus txiv neej los thov nej mus lavoos
ces nws ho ua nws rab yaj phom tshum raug yus ces yus ci li muaj siab
rau nws. yus rov los txog tsev ces pheej xav txog qhov niag ntawd
lawm ntag no nawb. ua mus ua tuaj ces yus txawm xav nrog nws sib siv
lawm thiab ntag. qhov nej pheej ua ua npauv suav sib xa nrog lwm tus
txiv neej ces vim yog yus pheej niaj hnub niaj hmo xav txog nws thiab
nws qhov niag ntawd ces thiaj npau suav sib xa nrog nws nyob nruab dab
ntub ntag, tab sis tsis yog yus tsis tsum ces tsis ntev nws yuav tsis
yog nruab dab ntub lawm xwb. nws yuav yog tiag tiag lawm. peb cov
laus no peb twb muaj experience los lawm peb thiaj tham tau li no.
piv txwm tias yus mus tom tsev txias es yog yus mus pom ib niag tuag
luj luj phem phem ces ib chim yus los pw ces txawm npau suav pom thiab
ntag vim yus pheej xav txog niag ntawd. kev ua npau suav sib xa los
yeej ib yam li thiab. yog yus mus club es muaj ib tug txiv neej zoo
nraug ntxiag los coj yus mus dance es nws ua nws rab yaj phom tawv
tawv chwv kiag yus puab tais/ceg lawm ntag ces yus los txog tsev ces ...