Dab tsi ua rau peb Hmoob tsis muaj kev cia siab rau tej kev
"adoption"? Tsis hais cov khub niam txiv uas tsis muaj menyuam los
xij, cov uas ntshaw muaj tub los xij sawvdaws pheej tsis xav consider
adoption as an option li. Ib txhia mas sim x tau ib niag tsev ntxhais,
ib txhia ces cia li mus tso taw los yuav niam yau puv zej puv zos saib
puas muaj. Are we simply too seflish and/or shallow?

Peace,
Hnub Kaj

On Aug 4, 10:35 am, hnub...@gmail.com wrote:

Hmong proverb: "tus qaib ntsuag ces tau ncej puab, tus tub ntsuag ces
tau yeeb cuab," not even the one that carries your own blood can be
trusted. how would you trust someone that is not your own blood?
Mhong people are like bonds, unlike the west, who won't care whoever
one had raised...even without the bonding between the child and the
parents.

Born2beMhong

Is it selfish to want to have children of ones own? Is shallow not to
want to adopt?

All beings, by nature, want to propagate. Without such desire, you
would not want to live at this moment. Without such desire, you would
not get up in the morning, you would not feed yourself, you would not
put make up on, you would not try to advance yourself, etc., etc.

Not having such a desire, one would truly be shallow.

Do you adopt? Why not? Why ask others to it if you do not yourself
do? Even if you adopt, why should other's do it? People live for a
reason and if your reason will suffice then why do others exist?
There is a reason beyond which shallow and selfish individuals fail to
understand.

NTB + vimhlub os, neb xyaum hais lus kom mos me ntsis thiab maj. hais
tob tob li neb hais, hais paj lug li neb hais, ib pliag tus pog laus
no dov toj nawb. luag tus laus noog lawm, pab qhia miv miv rau thiab
qhia los maj mam qhia luag txoj kev tem toob thiaj li tsis ua rau luag
tej ntshav siab siab nawb mog.

Hnub Kaj,

Leej tib neeg txoj kev xav tsis zoo tib yam. Yeej muaj ntau tus Hmoob
adopt me nyuam lawm. Yeej muaj ntau tus siab zoo es raug tso taws los
yeej muaj lawm. Yeej muaj ntau tus ntshai tsis kam adopt. Nyias muaj
nyias qhov reasons thiab kev xav. Yog li txhob tu siab rau Hmoob tag
nrho. Yog yuav tu siab rau Hmoob tag nrho tsis yog cai lawm. Yuav
hais tias Hmoob qia no tsis yog lus lawm.

Txawjvamyias

Hello dearest Zhen,
Oh, my...long time no see. Good to know you are well too. May all
that you wished upon me come back to you ten folds.

Peace Always,
Hnub Kaj

All,
kuv to taub sawvdaws qhov hais tias nyias muaj nyais kev xav los mas
tiam sis in general nej tsis pom hais tias peb kev xav nqaim zog lawm
mus rau sab adoption no thiab los? Ua li B2B hais ntawd, peb tseem
muaj lo lug hais tias "tu qaib ntsuag ces tau ncej puab, tu tub ntsuag
ces tau yeeb ncuab" no thiab ned.

Hais txog tub ntsuag mas tseem muaj ib tug piav rau kuv tias nws niam
nws txiv tuag thaum nws tseem yau es nws tus muam thiab tijlaug tu nws
hlob xwb. Lawv nrog kwvtij nyob tiam sis lawv cov nyuag menyuam...

ov.. im...

kekekeke

On Aug 7, 2:53 pm, hnub...@gmail.com wrote:

HK,

Cov lus koj hais no yeej muaj tseeb tiam sis tsis yog txhua tus. Kuv
kuj yog me nyuam ntsuag thaum me los lawm. Kuv yeej pom kawg tiam sis
tsis pom qab tu siab rau leej twg vim luag yeej muaj luag cov yuav tau
pub rau noj rau hauv thiab. Peb Hmoob tus txom nyem yeej txom nyem
tiag-g. Luag yeej muaj tsis txaus yuav hlub yus ntxiv. Muaj qee tus
yeej phem tiag-g thiab tiam sis pom qab tu siab rau lawv.

Yog hais tias tsis pom tej no ces yeej tsis paub mob siab ua neej.
Yog muab xav txog rau peb tej me nyuam ces yeej xav kom sawv daws tau
taug peb tej kev es lawv thiaj muaj siab npaj ua neej. Ntau tus yug
los tau lub neej muaj niam hlub muaj txiv phlws, tsis pub yoo tshaib
hnav ntuag mas cov no yeej tsis pom hais tias txoj muaj kev zoo no
muaj nqis npaum li cas.

Nyob li FP Bill Clinton nws yog me nyuam ntsuag xwb. Nws twb tsis
paub nws txiv yog leej twg. Thaum kawg nws yob peb ib tug Thawj Tswj
Ntawm lub teb muaj koob tshaj.

Phoojywg Hnubkaj,
Hmoob yeej ib txwm adopt me nyuam hos! Ntshe koj tseem tsis tau ntsib
xwb pob? Tabsis tsawg tsawg tus Hmoob thiaj li kam nws tus menyuam rau
luag adopt xwb. Yeeb vim li no, cov me nyuam uas Hmoob adopt feem ntau
yog me nyuam txawv haiv xws li, Nplog, Pubthawj, Co thiab lwm yam.

Hos hais txog qhov yug tau tej niag tsev ntxhais seb puas tau tub
ntawv ces yog xav tau noob xwb. Yog yus adopt ib tug me nyuam los ua
noob no nws kuj tsis yog yus roj yus ntshav lawm! Hos cov uas yug tau
tej niag tsev tub seb paus tau ntxhais los xav xav kom tau ib tug los
saib ua dab muag thiab xwb nad. Yog yuav adopt xwb ces kuj tsis thas
yuav ntxiv lawm!

HL