Yog hnav thab ham ces yus muaj xab ub xab no lo yus lub me hauv siab
txaij pes zees, yog tsis hnav ces yus yog niag menyuam thab ham xwb no
nad (thav ham xab 2 VS. thab ham phaj 2...hehehehe). Koj sim ntsia
saib meb cov hnav thab ham tuaj ntawd mas tib cov uas yog xov ib rau
saud xwb laid. Tsis tag li mas yuav luag txhua tus mas muaj nyuag
liam kab ham, liam dim tuag, liam ub liam no ntau x heev li nad ces
yog koj hnav xib veeb xwb ces tsis muaj chaw dai li ne. Li cas los
kav liam thiab los mas nawb, twb laus x lawm es tej no yog ua si xwb
kom hnub/xyoo luv xwb os mog. Yog koj mus tsis taus tom ntej los sis
tsis muaj hope rau future ces koj tsuas kawg live in the past xwb.
Tej no yog ib qho kho siab kho ntsws xwb (mental health). Koj muab
xam hais tias zoo li cov boy scout xwb no ces it' is a OK.

I have a funny story to share on the subject - ib tug nais thab ham
xab ob hais rau Meskas tias nws ua rog tau 10 xyoo nrog VP. Yawm
Meskas nug tias nws tsawg xyoo, nws tias 50 xyoo lawm. Yawm Meskas
xav x ib ntsiv ces nws txawm hais tias "Wow! You were only 8 when you
joined VP!!!" Yawm thaub Hmoob daj tag ces nws keb tias "50 not my
age. Me older real life. Me right year is 60" Yawm Meskas tseem
hais ntxiv tias " Man, you really look great and young for a 60 year
old man. How do you do it?". Kuv mas xav luag thiab ho txaj muag pab
yawm thuab no kawg. Qhov lesson learned ces yog peb cov koon haum
pheej yuav ua tej gathering li no ntxiv pem suab mas lawv yuav tsum
muaj training thiab pab lawv cov members calculate and kho lawv cov
story kom very credible. Yog yus yuav dag yuav khav los yuav tsum ua
kom nkag kis tsis li ntawd ces yus xum hais tias "I no English" xwb
zoo dua. Xob misunderstand kuv nawb, tus xav dag los yeej meem dag
tiam sis dag kom nkag kis luag thiaj tsis paub tias yus ruam.

Peace,
HK