Kuv ib tug nephew 35 xyoos muaj pojniam thiab 2 tug menyuam tib sis
lawm. Tam sis no nws cia li tsis xav nrog pab naim tub ua neej ua ke
li lawm xwb. Peb nug tias yog tim dab tsi es swvdaws ho pab kho pab
ntuas. Nws hais tias yeej tsis tim dab tsi li. Nws pojniam los yeej
tsis tau ua txhaum dab tsi li tiam sis nws cia li tsis muaj qhov xav
nrog pab niam tub no ua neej ua ke lawm xwb. Nws hais tias nws cia li
"stop loving" nws pojniam xwb. Luag hais lus zoo thiab ua zoo npaum
cas los tus tsis muaj "feeling and desire to be intimate with her
anymore". Tus nyab los yeej confirm tias peb niag nephew no kuj tsis
tau muaj hluas nkauj thiab tab sis nws cia li pib pw xas loo ces ntev
zuj zus ces nws cia li teeb nws ib lub txaj hauv qab daus pw lawm
xwb. Hauj lwm los nws cia li tsis xav mus ua, menyaum los nws tsis
xav nrog tu li, tus nyab hais lus los nws lam teb kom txhob txhaum
xwb. Tus nyab tseem hais ntxiv tias, yus chim heev yus thab nrog sib
ceg los nws twb tsis teb kom yus tau sib ceg li. Tam sis no ces nyuag
nephew no hais rau peb cov laus tias nws yuav nrauj pojniam vim nws
tsis muaj lub siab hlub taus tus pojniam lawm no. Tus nyab mas quaj
kawg kiag tiam sis aib no yeej tsis nti li. Peb kuj khuv xim tus nyab
no thiab vim nws yeej muaj laj kam zoo, txawj tu me tub me nyaum huv
si, paub kev cai thiab muaj kev haum xeeb zoo nrog tsev neeg. Nkawv ...

HK e, yus yog moob leeg ces hais lus moob leeg xwb thiaj li meej ma...
ua cas yuav lam hais lus sib xyaw li no. Be yourself.

Kuv xav tias xyov puas muaj li koj hais no. Tej zaum koj laj laj nyob
es koj lam sau kom sawv daws tau nyeem ua si xwb. Yog ho muaj tiag
mas kuv ntshai tsam koj tus nephew no lam "gay" lawm xwb lau, yog hais
tias nyob nyob es nws cia li tsis kam nrog pojniam pw lawm na. Yog
twb tsis kam mus counseling lawm thiab ces, yeej yog nws muaj npas ham
txivneej lawm xwb tiag vim nws ntshai neeg yuav paub ne.

Sokdi na!

Hnub,

Not everyone can be rescued. Sometimes, it's best to let what will be
-- be. Delaying the pain will make it worst for everyone involved.
Muab saib los ces, nej niag nephew ntawd:

1. He is suffering from depression or some sort of mental illness.
If he refuses help, then really, no one can help him. Only he can
help himself. Leave him to sort through his problems. It may take a
while for him to do that.

2. He is gay. Seriously. I have been in the sexual health field for
most of my life and that's the "coming out" issue that some married
gay individuals faced. The reason he doesn't have any hluas nkauj is
because he is not attracted to women. He originally thought marriage
will make him "normal", but it eventually "killed" him because he
realizes that marriage can never make him be what he "naturally" is
not.

3. He is on drug. He may be on some kind of depressant which makes
him depressed and have no motivation to partake in life.

HK e, ntshe yog tim koj tus newphew no pom nws pojniam tuaj tuaj
internet li koj. nws thiaj li tusiab thiab tsi xav yuav ler, vim nws
xav tias ntshe tuaj tuaj internet, tsam twb mus ua internet tag ler.

niamhlua Maiv Hlub

HK e, ntshe yog tim koj tus newphew no pom nws pojniam tuaj tuaj
internet li koj. nws thiaj li tusiab thiab tsi xav yuav ler, vim nws
xav tias ntshe tuaj tuaj internet, tsam twb mus ua internet tag ler.

niamhlua Maiv Hlub

On Aug 28, 10:12 am, hnub...@gmail.com wrote:

On Aug 28, 5:08 pm, Moobsib gmail.com> wrote:

Cov Yawg/Pog,

Nej sawv daws yeej hais yog lawm thiab. Tiamsis.....kuv xav tias
ntshe aib Nephew ntawd tau MES lawm pob? Cov zoo li no ces kawg yuav
nyob tsis ntev lawm laiv. Yog muaj li hais tiag ces kawg tuam txhob
hlau thiaj li yuav los kho tau lawm xwb os.

Yog tsis muaj li ntawd ces kawg qhov pom poj niam tej lub hem hem neeg
es thiaj li poob plig lawm xwb. hahahaha

On Aug 28, 9:39 pm, tshajplaws hotmail.com> wrote:

On Aug 28, 9:39 pm, tshajplaws hotmail.com> wrote: