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Re: Elderly Abuse & Neglect in the Hmong Community         

Group: soc.culture.hmong · Group Profile
Author: hnubkaj
Date: Sep 10, 2008 08:42

Suavdaws aw,
Zoo siab tias tseem muaj cov tub uas txawj xav thiab paub hlub cov
laus. Nov yog hais rau cov uas lawv xav tias lawv tsis muaj peev xwm
hlub tau cov laus vim pojniam phem dhau los vim yog peb nyob Meskas
teb chaws es pojniam muaj power dhau hwv lawm.

Cov uas hlub tsis tau los hlub tsis taus cov laus - Ua cas yus hlub
tsis taus yus niam thiab txiv uas yug thiab tu yus puag thaud tseem
liab x qab los es yus haj tseem liam tias tim pojniam phem no naj?
Yog nej truly believe/convince tias teeb meem Hmoob tshwm sim ntawm
pojniam txoj kev vam meej no tiag x mas kuv feel sorry for you.

It's time for men to own up to their failure as a man, son and
husband! Face it, your inability to love and protect your own parents
ARE YOUR OWN DAMN FAULTS! Did your wife tie your hands and put a
khife to your adam apple when you give $, food and clothings to your
parents? NO! the most a jealous wife/nyab would say is "why you
spent so much $ on your parents and not me or my parents?". The worst/
most terrible wife/nyab would say "if you give them money and food, I
will divorce you". For these few words/threats from a wife/nyab, you
as their son decided to abandon your responsibilities towards your
parents!!! What kind of man are you? Yog koj yog ib tug tub thiab ib
tug txiv uas ZOO ces koj yeej paub thiab muaj peev xwm hlub kom tau
sawvdaws sib npaug raws nyias position hauv family. Twb vim yog koj
tus kheej tsis muaj peev xwm ua tau ib tug huam nab hauv koj tsev neeg
es sawvdaws thiab ntxhov quav niab npaum li ntawd. Noog kom tseeb x
nawb - kev "ua taus txiv" tsis yog hais ib los ncaws ib taws ov mog.
Kev ua taus txiv yog hlub taus sawvdaws, pha yus tsev neeg ua lub neej
kom muaj hom phiaj thiab vam meej, yus paub kev noj qab haus huv ntawm
yus tsev neeg txua leej tus laus txog tus mos liab etc..etc..etc.. You
must be someone everyone in your family can look up to and know that
they can count on you being there when they need you. I want to
conclude with this - if you love/respect your parents, your wife/
husband and kids will too. If you love your wife/husband, your
parents too will love him/her.

B2B,
You will forever be a thorn on my side. Unfortunately, you and I will
never get to share a nursing home because koj yuav tau tuaj ua "txiv
dab laug tua nyuj" rau kuv ntau xyoo ua ntej lawm koj mam qualify mus
nursing home os mog.

Peace,
HK
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