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Elderly Abuse & Neglect in the Hmong Community         


Author: hnubkaj
Date: Sep 8, 2008 14:13

Peb feem coob mas peb yeej khav thiab qhuas tias peb cov Hmoob mas
thiaj txawj hlub thiab nav thwm peb cov laus. Peb tuaj nyob tau 33
xyoos rau Meskas teb, ntau yam txawv kuj tshwm sim tuaj rau peb Hmoob
lub neej lawm thiab. Yog li thiaj xav nug sawvdaws tias, sawvdaws
puas pom kev abuse los sis neglect hauv peb lub community thiab? Nov
yog hais txog kev abuse/neglect los ntawm nws tsev neeg los puas sov
txheeb ze nws ntag. Abuse/neglect txog dab tsi thiab yuav txog level
twg, nej thiaj yuav kam interefere los puas report rau authorities?

Peace,
Hnub Kaj
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Re: Elderly Abuse & Neglect in the Hmong Community         


Author: Tony
Date: Sep 9, 2008 06:25

On Sep 8, 5:13 pm, hnub...@gmail.com wrote:
Abuse/neglect txog dab tsi thiab yuav txog level
> twg, nej thiaj yuav kam interefere los puas report rau authorities?

Thaus koj xaav txug qhov kod ces yog koj muab tug hluas lub neej txu
hab koj muab tug laug pov moog ua tsuv zaub lawm.

Qhov zoo yog sojntsuag saib yog lecaag txug tug hluas lub neej es paab
txhawb nwg lub zug kuas nwg hlub taug tej laug. Dlhau ntawd, koj ho
moog saibseb qhovtwg yuav zoo rua tug laug. Luj ob tog kuas hum es
koj txhajle tsi txu tug hluas lub neej hab tsi muab tug laug pov moog
ua tsuv qub.
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Author: kwvtij
Date: Sep 9, 2008 06:32

On Sep 8, 4:13 pm, hnub...@gmail.com wrote:
> Peb feem coob mas peb yeej khav thiab qhuas tias peb cov Hmoob mas
> thiaj txawj hlub thiab nav thwm peb cov laus.  

hais txog qhov hlub cov laus mas tam sim no peb ib txia tseem cia peb
tej niam tej txiv nrog peb nyob ho feem coob kuj coj mus nyob tsev
laus lawm, no yog ib qhov zoo kawg. tab sis tsis ntev tom ntej no peb
cov me nyuam mas lawv twb tsis coj peb mus nyob tsev laus lawm thiab
ov. lawv tseem yuav qev peb mus nrauj zoo rau tim qhov tsuas lawm xwb
ov. qhov no ces tsis ntaus kuam los yeej pom dab lawm.
>Nov
> yog hais txog kev abuse/neglect los ntawm nws tsev neeg los puas sov
> txheeb ze nws ntag.  Abuse/neglect txog dab tsi thiab yuav txog level
> twg, nej thiaj yuav kam interefere los puas report rau authorities?
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Author: hnubkaj
Date: Sep 9, 2008 07:12

Tony,

Let me give you this story: A 70 yr old mom lived with her son's
family. She receives SSI and a little bit of food assistance. The
son controls the money (legally) citing she's vulnerable etc. and
she's...
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Author: Tony
Date: Sep 9, 2008 08:18

On Sep 9, 10:12 am, hnub...@gmail.com wrote:
> Now the question is who do you want to protect?  The son or the mom?

Yuavtau paab ob leeg.

Tug tub muaj teebmeem huas leej nam nraug teebmeem.
Tug tub yuavtau dlaws nwg qhov teebmeem es tsi txhob ca leej nam ntsib
teebmeem. Leejtwg txhajle yuav qha tau qhovntawd rua nwg?

Leej nam uv taag los uv dlua, tabsis yuav tau has lugnruag saibseb
leej tub puas yuav raag.

Yuavtau paab obleeg, ruaqhov tsuv tum tuabneeg ces tsuv yeej tsi xaiv
tug tub losyog leejnam. Nwg zoo has xwb sis zoo ua. Tamsis obtug
yuavtau noog ib tug txwjlaug paubtaab (qaabhau) tej kev qha hab ntuag.

Tsuv yeej pum has tas tug tub phem hwv, muab nwg tum noj kag. Dlhau
ntawd, tsuv yeej tum leej nam tuab yaam nkaus. Le ntawd, kuv txhajle
has tas, paab ob leeg.
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Author: Born2beHmong
Date: Sep 9, 2008 08:26

Nhubkaj,

definitely, to protest the mom...except that who is going to help us
doing her funeral when the time comes? unless, she must come to Yob
and my church, so we can directly her spirit to proper place.

as you can see that not all mhong people are as loving as they had
claimed. one must know that money and love play no favor in man
kind. it's sad to hear such a story, but it does exit in every
community.

Born
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Author: xtou55
Date: Sep 9, 2008 10:46

On Sep 9, 11:26 am, Born2beHmong yahoo.com> wrote:
> Nhubkaj,
>
> definitely, to protest the mom...except that who is going to help us
> doing her funeral when the time comes? unless, she must come to Yob
> and my church, so we can directly her spirit to proper place.
>
> as you can see that not all mhong people are as loving as they had
> claimed.  one must know that money and love play no favor in man
> kind.  it's sad to hear such a story, but it does exit in every
> community.
>
> Born

Poj yaig, tsam nos nej los txog qhov topic nos lawm it was one of the
headeach tshaj plaws. Kuv pom los ntau heev lawm, yog cov yus paub zoo
zoo lawm ntag. Kuv tsis nkag siab tias yog abuse los yog abandon...
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Author: vimhlub
Date: Sep 9, 2008 12:11

xto,

God said, "If you cannot even love those whom you can see, then how
can you love me whom you cannot see?"

Many people who go to church claim to love God, but actually, they
merely love themselves. So, "it would be easier for a camel to jump
through the eye of a needle than it would be for those people to get
to Heaven."

It's unfortunate that many of our elderly are stuck in the hope that
their children will take care of them in old age. Because of such
hope, many placed themselves in positions to be abused and neglected.
It doesn't have to be that way forever. Soon, Hmong will have senior
homes that are tailored specifically to meet Hmong elderly needs.
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Author: Born2beHmong
Date: Sep 9, 2008 14:05

On Sep 9, 2:11 pm, vimhlub gmail.com> wrote:
> xto,
>
> God said, "If you cannot even love those whom you can see, then how
> can you love me whom you cannot see?"
>
> Many people who go to church claim to love God, but actually, they
> merely love themselves.  So, "it would be easier for a camel to jump
> through the eye of a needle than it would be for those people to get
> to Heaven."
>
> It's unfortunate that many of our elderly are stuck in the hope that
> their children will take care of them in old age.  Because of such
> hope, many placed themselves in positions to be abused and neglected.
> It doesn't have to be that way forever.  Soon, Hmong will have senior
> homes that are tailored specifically to meet Hmong elderly needs.
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Author: Moobsib
Date: Sep 9, 2008 14:29

Born,

Zag nua ca kuv koom nrug koj lau, has txug equal rights naj.... Peb
Hmoob lub traditional social struture has turned up side down lawm
tag. Peb tsoom txivneej Hmoob feem coob yeej kawg tuag rua quaspuj ob
ceg ces txhaj zoo le ntawd hab los mas... hahahaha...

MS
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