blu wrote:
>
> HoofPrints
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> news:4651A2E5.DBAFAAB3@hotmail.com:
> >>
>>
>> blu wrote:
>>>
>>> HoofPrints
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>>> news:46507483.1CD2705C@hotmail.com:
>>>>>>>> Lemme ask you a question:
>>>>>
>>>>> Do YOU believe in coincidence?
>>>>
>>>> Yes, I know it sounds circumstantial, however, sometimes
>>>> circumstantial can be a way of deluding someone into a false sense
>>>> of security or other emotions. Coincidences can be added up many
>>>> times.
>>>
>>> Personally, I do not believe in any coincidences. Nothing is random
>>> and chaos is only an excuse people come up with to explain away their
>>> bad Karma.
>>
>> I am a firm believer in Kharma too, but, if the Kharmic forces at work
>> are being sent via persons who are acting out against someone who they
>> think 'hurt' them, then Kharma gets turned around in most cases and
>> hits them harder then I am hit. It may take some time for that to
>> turn around, but I have seen it turned around against those sending
>> negative thoughts in my direction so many times, it is mind boggling.
>> I don't like to speak to people who are sending evil thoughts about me
>> or too me or too people who like me. It gets too weird when their own
>> evil thoughts come back at 'em and I am apt to state: "I told you so".
>
> Karma, in my humble opinion, is a fer real bitch.
>
> She does things in her own time. You cannot hurry Karma along, nor can
> you stop Karma once she's set to doing something.
>
> Nor, do I believe for a minute that Karma is any type of thinking
> entity. Karma is like a pool with a rock thrown into it. You just ride
> the waves..
>
> And the only Karma you can even come close to controlling is your own.
> No need to worry about the "evil thought" people.. theirs is coming. And
> usually at a time when it'll slap 'em upside the head best, too.
Life happens, shit happens and I spell Kharma with an H in it for a
reason.
It is Harm, which opposes the Do No Harm principle.
One reason to walk away from something is when you find yourself not
upholding your own belief system and are thinking harmful thoughts
because 'you' are hurting about something, so it is best to just leave
and let the hurt dissipate into nothing.
>
>>>>>> I just got a couple of good books in the mail when I got back
>>>>>> from Woodlake.
>>>>>> I am reading one now. The introduction sounds great. The title
>>>>>> is Straight Wives: Shattered Lives.
>>>>>> At last..help..
>>>>>
>>>>> So your husband turned out to be gay? After all the cheating and
>>>>> stalking and insanity, he was gay?? Geez..
>>>>
>>>> He told me from the start. He wasn't lying about it.
>>>
>>> That was good of him. Why did he marry you at all then?
>>
>> We lived together. And his friends on the Internet used to insist
>> years ago he was my husband.
>> Then when we were together, he would tell them this is the so and so
>> place, and tell them I was his wife.
>
> Ah.. ok. I sort of get it. Thanks.
>
>>>>> If you'd like my opinion, I'll give it to you. But you'll have to
>>>>> request it. I won't bother unless you want to hear it.
>>>>
>>>> I have already had a response from the woman who wrote the book I
>>>> am reading. I am reading several excerpts from her newsletter.
>>>> There is a pervasion overlapping of behaviors which she is
>>>> addressing to woman who live in fear that their husbands are gay.
>>>
>>> Yes, I can imagine that would be quite a bit of paranoia to live
>>> with, if you weren't sure.
>>
>> It is interesting, she is hooking me up with another woman who is
>> going through the same thing with her BF of 3 years. She wants me to
>> talk to her and says that our stories are about the same.
>> I don't know what age group the other woman is in, I don't know her
>> circumstances, but if she is asking for help, then something bugs her
>> about her BF's bi-sexuality and I am going to tell the woman to run to
>> the nearest exit.
>
> Well, you'd know, huh? Good luck with that.
> My main problem wouldn't be the bisexuality, it would be the lack of
> monogomy.
THat was my thing too, but the bi-sexuality got in the way of the
monogamy and let's face it nature is what it is, and it is hard to
overcome those intense feelings after trying something else and liking
it to the point that it interferes in relationships. I am upfront about
my feelings on the subject because I am not going to 'lie' and say well
Maybe, when it will never really be a maybe. It is better to get these
issues out before making major steps that change your life or to dupe
someone into thinking you might, when in fact you won't, and they will
end up getting pushy and feelings get hurt.
He knows I don't care about his past life, if he doesn't oh well.
>
>>>> She and I do have a difference in opinion on the Gay Gene. She
>>>> believes there is one, I don't. But I am not going to allow that
>>>> to stand in the way of my Gay Husband Recovery Process.
>>>> And I am not seeking out current medical reports about the subject,
>>>> because if their isn't a Gay Gene, it will change the whole scope
>>>> of her own recovery. I don't care one way or the other, if their
>>>> is a Gay Gene it's ok by me.
>>>> One thing is clear. She is into women leaving their husbands.
>>>> Most of her clients are not in the same situation as I am, as they
>>>> have been married to these men for years, have children with them
>>>> so they have more to deal with then I do. One thing we both agree
>>>> on is there is a difference between sex with a straight man and sex
>>>> with a bi-sexual man. hell, I had sex every night of my married
>>>> life with the deceased during our marriage. We slept together
>>>> every night, and the sex was great.
>>>> She also focus's on what many of these bi-sexual or homosexual men
>>>> tell each other about their marriages.
>>>> I call it a myth, and her thoughts on the subject support my own
>>>> feelings and knowledge about what a good marriage is all about.
>>>
>>> It's not exactly my field of expertise, but I'd think the more open
>>> one's mind is, the more they would be willing to experiment with
>>> "different" sexual things. An open mind? Well, I don't think there's
>>> a specific gene for that.. but who knows? Could be. Anyway, if one
>>> experiments and *likes* what they find, then ~abracadabra~ they're
>>> "gay" or "bisexual" ... Hopefully, that open mind carries over into
>>> other parts of their lives.
>>
>> Yes, but at what point are you allowed to say NO? You can have an open
>> mind, try it, and then change your mind and decide it isn't your cup
>> of tea. Just because you make up your mind about something years
>> before you meet someone else, doesn't mean you are a close minded
>> bigot, yet that gets overlooked in their spiel to turn you to their
>> way of thinking.
>
> I'd think you could or rather, *SHOULD* say no when you're wanting to
> say no. Enough? Hell ya, you can have had enough of something and come
> to the point of "no more. period." And why not? That's *also* part of
> being open minded.
I am not a big should person, although I do say should a lot. Should
implies that you are giving advice from your perspective and that
perspective may or may not be the right choice for the other person to
follow.
>
>>>>> I finished "The Dark Tower" last night. Seven books in all. The
>>>>> ending was.. unsettling. But, if you'd paid attention throughout
>>>>> the series, it was no surprise. I'll say this for it, and not
>>>>> another word. The last 300 pages brought out a *lot* of emotion.
>>>>
>>>> The Dark Tower?? Was that written by Tolkein?
>>>
>>> You're thinking of "The Two Towers" (2nd in the rings trilogy)
>>
>>
>>
>> I am not a Steven King fan, he gets too weird.
>
> That's what I love about him.
>
>> I've read Cujo, Misery and one other of his books but I can't get into
>> his other books like It.
>> One of my old freinds is a huge fan of his and reads all his books.
>
> Welp.. I've got work to do and can't be enjoying myself on usenet all
> day today. Have a good one. < waves >
see you, I have things to do to. Like beat minesweeper expert screen. I
am really addicted to beating that game. I finished beginners level in
27 seconds time, and intermediate level in 127 but I haven't been able
to complete the expert level. I got to the last two mines twice and
then hit the mine. I haven't gotten close to completing the expert
screen to even get a time on my game.
>
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blackhelicopter.databasix.com>The REVOLTING;
REPULSIVE; REPUGNANT _* Kimberly Barnard*_ aka *Kymberly Barnard* aka
*Kali* 'responded to Jade' who was trolled into SPP by the Moderator of
SPPM _ kali_:
: Does that gibbering k00k Lynn "goofprints" Lyons still post there?
Let me consult my crystal ball for activities of the
Galactically Kill Filed net.deceased:
Yes, and now she is ranting against homosexuality.
: Jade
:
Kali
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