blu wrote:
>
> HoofPrints
hotmail.com> wrote in
> news:46507483.1CD2705C@hotmail.com:
> >>> Lemme ask you a question:
>>>
>>> Do YOU believe in coincidence?
>>
>> Yes, I know it sounds circumstantial, however, sometimes
>> circumstantial can be a way of deluding someone into a false sense of
>> security or other emotions. Coincidences can be added up many times.
>
> Personally, I do not believe in any coincidences. Nothing is random and
> chaos is only an excuse people come up with to explain away their bad
> Karma.
I am a firm believer in Kharma too, but, if the Kharmic forces at work
are being sent via persons who are acting out against someone who they
think 'hurt' them, then Kharma gets turned around in most cases and hits
them harder then I am hit. It may take some time for that to turn
around, but I have seen it turned around against those sending negative
thoughts in my direction so many times, it is mind boggling.
I don't like to speak to people who are sending evil thoughts about me
or too me or too people who like me. It gets too weird when their own
evil thoughts come back at 'em and I am apt to state: "I told you so".
>
>>>> I just got a couple of good books in the mail when I got back from
>>>> Woodlake.
>>>> I am reading one now. The introduction sounds great. The title is
>>>> Straight Wives: Shattered Lives.
>>>> At last..help..
>>>
>>> So your husband turned out to be gay? After all the cheating and
>>> stalking and insanity, he was gay?? Geez..
>>
>> He told me from the start. He wasn't lying about it.
>
> That was good of him. Why did he marry you at all then?
We lived together. And his friends on the Internet used to insist years
ago he was my husband.
Then when we were together, he would tell them this is the so and so
place, and tell them I was his wife.
>
>>>
>>> If you'd like my opinion, I'll give it to you. But you'll have to
>>> request it. I won't bother unless you want to hear it.
>>
>> I have already had a response from the woman who wrote the book I am
>> reading. I am reading several excerpts from her newsletter.
>> There is a pervasion overlapping of behaviors which she is addressing
>> to woman who live in fear that their husbands are gay.
>
> Yes, I can imagine that would be quite a bit of paranoia to live with,
> if you weren't sure.
It is interesting, she is hooking me up with another woman who is going
through the same thing with her BF of 3 years. She wants me to talk to
her and says that our stories are about the same.
I don't know what age group the other woman is in, I don't know her
circumstances, but if she is asking for help, then something bugs her
about her BF's bi-sexuality and I am going to tell the woman to run to
the nearest exit.
>
>> She and I do have a difference in opinion on the Gay Gene. She
>> believes there is one, I don't. But I am not going to allow that to
>> stand in the way of my Gay Husband Recovery Process.
>> And I am not seeking out current medical reports about the subject,
>> because if their isn't a Gay Gene, it will change the whole scope of
>> her own recovery. I don't care one way or the other, if their is a
>> Gay Gene it's ok by me.
>> One thing is clear. She is into women leaving their husbands. Most
>> of her clients are not in the same situation as I am, as they have
>> been married to these men for years, have children with them so they
>> have more to deal with then I do. One thing we both agree on is there
>> is a difference between sex with a straight man and sex with a
>> bi-sexual man. hell, I had sex every night of my married life with
>> the deceased during our marriage. We slept together every night, and
>> the sex was great.
>> She also focus's on what many of these bi-sexual or homosexual men
>> tell each other about their marriages.
>> I call it a myth, and her thoughts on the subject support my own
>> feelings and knowledge about what a good marriage is all about.
>
> It's not exactly my field of expertise, but I'd think the more open
> one's mind is, the more they would be willing to experiment with
> "different" sexual things. An open mind? Well, I don't think there's a
> specific gene for that.. but who knows? Could be. Anyway, if one
> experiments and *likes* what they find, then ~abracadabra~ they're "gay"
> or "bisexual" ... Hopefully, that open mind carries over into other
> parts of their lives.
Yes, but at what point are you allowed to say NO? You can have an open
mind, try it, and then change your mind and decide it isn't your cup of
tea. Just because you make up your mind about something years before
you meet someone else, doesn't mean you are a close minded bigot, yet
that gets overlooked in their spiel to turn you to their way of
thinking.
>
>>> I finished "The Dark Tower" last night. Seven books in all. The
>>> ending was.. unsettling. But, if you'd paid attention throughout the
>>> series, it was no surprise. I'll say this for it, and not another
>>> word. The last 300 pages brought out a *lot* of emotion.
>>
>> The Dark Tower?? Was that written by Tolkein?
>
> You're thinking of "The Two Towers" (2nd in the rings trilogy)
I am not a Steven King fan, he gets too weird.
I've read Cujo, Misery and one other of his books but I can't get into
his other books like It.
One of my old freinds is a huge fan of his and reads all his books.
>
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blackhelicopter.databasix.com>The REVOLTING;
REPULSIVE; REPUGNANT _* Kimberly Barnard*_ aka *Kymberly Barnard* aka
*Kali* 'responded to Jade' who was trolled into SPP by the Moderator of
SPPM _ kali_:
: Does that gibbering k00k Lynn "goofprints" Lyons still post there?
Let me consult my crystal ball for activities of the
Galactically Kill Filed net.deceased:
Yes, and now she is ranting against homosexuality.
: Jade
:
Kali
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