On May 16, 3:27Â pm, RedOrWhite
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> You have no idea what goes on backstage, and from what I have learned from the AI voice
> coaches themselves, Jeff wasnt a disruption backstage. You assume way too much here.
> What bullshit. Companies will be knocking at his door, with or without his father in the
> Picture (as soon as his AI exclusive contract restrictions expire)
> How ridiculous can you be. Recording companies cant exclude anyone from Davids supporting
> staff, whether it be his dad, mom, or lucifer. I fully expect Jeff will be his agent. Do
> you think agents are there to be the record companies friends? They're representing their
> client, and are negotiating everything contractually, including creative aspects, final
> approval of recording, etc etc. The tougher an agent is (especially when dealing with a Â
> monster talent like David), the better.
> If that is true, he has done a fabulous job so far, hasnt he? Why fuck it up now by cutting
> Jeff out? If it aint broke, dont fix it.
> David LOVES hid dad. He LOVES what his dad has done for him up to this point. David would
> be a pimply faced kid going to the prom in podunk Utah without his dads support, music
> experience, and determination. Jeff made David, and David knows it. David will keep, no,
> make that urge his father to represent him, take the 10%%, and support his remaining family.
>
> Thats what real dads and kids do for one another. Support and pay back.
> What on earth makes you think he resents his dad?
>
> His dad taught him how to sing, paid for voice lessons, and singing instructors, drove
> Davis all over Gods green earth to sing at various events to get him exposure, and
> essentially brought David to where he is today. Without his dad, David is just another kid.
> So, again I ask, why would you possibly think that David resents him?
> Support above and beyond is what Jeff has parovided, not meddling.
>
> Jeez, what an imagination you have.
>
> Didnt you daddy support your dreams to the fullest?
>
> Dude, feel sorry for someone that needs it. Starving kids, orphans, sick kids, etc.
>
> David is fine, loves his dad, and I konw I would have done the same thing as a father.
>
> Dont forget, David is a minor, and there are certain rights he has in that capacity, when
> it comes to Davids well being while in AI restrictive control. AI HAS to allow him there,
> and they HAVE to deal with him, both as a legal guardian, and as a consulting parent. That
> is his right and indeed, his obligation.
> How melancholy. Are you drunk?
>
> This is a HUGE success story, that you have decided is a tragedy, simply because his dad is
> acting like a dad should.
>
> David was taught family values, and Ill bet you that not only does David want Jeff to be a
> part of his music career, he will insist on it.
WOW RedorWhite, You sure have A LOT invested in this--probably too
much. I read your responses--numerous as they are--and started
wondering if your real name might be Jeff A. "Me thinks the Lady
protests too much." Even David A hasn't been as passionate in his
defense of his dad as you have.
You missed part of my post in your speed to dispute what I wrote. I
wrote that companies won't want to work with David based on his dad's
reputation. While, I think the bad reputation is accurate, it doesn't
really matter if it is correct or not. Doesn't matter if Jeff A is the
best dad ever or the worst, most music companies won't want to take
the risk--too many other talented singers out there. In other words,
they would see it as too much of a headache having to deal with Daddy
Jeff.
Yes, it is absolutely supposition on my part and no one will know
until whatever happens happens; but, after many years as a
psychologist working with batters, molesters, rapist, and many of
their victims, I feel comfortable projecting a life story based on the
things I have read.
I've seen it time and time again, those so called 'great' dads beat
down their kid to 'help' their child be the best they can be. It is
like that infamous line in the musical 'Carousel' The young girl has
just been slapped by her father (who loves her very much) she asks her
mother (who has been beaten by the same man) "Mother, can someone hit
you and it feel like a kiss?" The mother responds "Yes!"
So, yes, some people do destroy the thing they love. There are those
that would have their children down in Hell with them rather than let
them be in Heaven without them. Is Jeff like that? Is Jeff trying to
live his dreams through his son? Is Jeff a monster or an angel? Or
both? I don't know and I wouldn't guess---the truth is probably
somewhere in between. But I do ask, why would all these people with
nothing to gain or lose chose Jeff A to invent stories about? Why
didn't they do this to Jordan Sparks' parents? Why is it that we get
these stories only about jeff and no one else? Why do these stories
seem to follow Jeff? I don't know the answer. But I can make a
hypothesis about some of these things. Usually the simplest answer is
the correct answer.
IF the rumors are true and Jeff A is an overbearing stagedad, then
yeah, I can see David both loving and resenting his dad. Heck, a lot
of people go through this type of feeling towards their parents; it is
how we indiviguate from our parents. Why would David be any different
than the rest of the world?
So, RedorWhite, take a deep breath and relax. This was just my
hypothesis on what I see happening to David (not you) based on the
rumors and my own expertise in the area of abuse. According to you,
you are not even a parent and are only projecting what you think you
would do in Jeff's place...that is if you are not Jeff. ;-) So chill.
BTW, I don't drink so, no, I wasn't drunk.
