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Author: VickieVickie
Date: Jun 8, 2010 03:12
On Jun 7, 4:16 pm, CodeBot gmail.com> wrote:> Heyo. The wife and I met about 3 years ago. We lived together almost
> since we met. We got married last year and are encroaching on our
> first anniversary. Everything is wonderful. However, our sex life is
> in the gutter. To give you some background, our tastes on sex have
> always been on different ends of the spectrum. She is into kink, I'm
> not. She likes to be dominated and I don't have the personality for it
> and if we try (and we do), it's apparent that it's forced. Sufficed to
> say, ever since we met and up until marriage, our sex life was
> mediocre, but still enjoyable.
>
> However, after we got married her libido dropped off the map. There is
> no way to kick start it. I must say though, when we do get into the
> grove, we do enjoy it. The motivation is lacking. We had many heart-to-
> heart talks about this and my stance on it has not changed since we
> met. She says that she just does not have the drive for it. She tells
> me that she does not masturbate or get the urge to have sex in the
> middle of the day. As she put it, "she has flatlined."
>
> I honestly don't know what to do. More so with our incompatibility ...
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Author: CodeBotCodeBot
Date: Jun 8, 2010 01:16
Heyo. The wife and I met about 3 years ago. We lived together almost
since we met. We got married last year and are encroaching on our
first anniversary. Everything is wonderful. However, our sex life is
in the gutter. To give you some background, our tastes on sex have
always been on different ends of the spectrum. She is into kink, I'm
not. She likes to be dominated and I don't have the personality for it
and if we try (and we do), it's apparent that it's forced. Sufficed to
say, ever since we met and up until marriage, our sex life was
mediocre, but still enjoyable.
However, after we got married her libido dropped off the map. There is
no way to kick start it. I must say though, when we do get into the
grove, we do enjoy it. The motivation is lacking. We had many heart-to-
heart talks about this and my stance on it has not changed since we
met. She says that she just does not have the drive for it. She tells
me that she does not masturbate or get the urge to have sex in the
middle of the day. As she put it, "she has flatlined."
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Author: Dr Nancy's SweetieDr Nancy's Sweetie
Date: May 13, 2010 20:02
"Remy McSwain gmail.com>" wrote:> Well, having very much experience as a legislator, I would see your
> assessment as delusionally cynical and pessimistic, especially given
> that to accept your view, we'd have to believe that our highly
> functional and thriving society evolved to its present state desite
> the law instead of with its help.
Okay, maybe I am delusionally pessimistic. Please explain to me any
rational process by which laws were passed that required people with
dark skin to sit at the back of the bus.
I believe that such laws were the result of irrational prejudice and
hatred. Further, I observe from the historical record that such laws
were invalidated by courts, not by any legislative process. Had it been
left to the legislatures, Mississippi might still make dark-skinned
people sit at the back of the bus.
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Author: Doug FreyburgerDoug Freyburger
Date: May 13, 2010 18:06
Dr Nancy's Sweetie wrote:
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> ...
> The legislator in question wouldn't even look at a word of it. He
> said, and I quote as best I can "I don't care. I will never let this
> come to a vote. All I can think about is how bad I would feel if we
> approved this and somebody died. And I'll never change my mind." Then
> he pushed the button on his intercom and asked his secretary to send in
> the next people, and looked up and said "You can go now; we're done
> here."
> ...
> Human beings are irrational, unreasonable, emotional basket cases.
> Most of the time they decide based on what feels right, regardless of
> what facts (if any) are available. This particular guy is notable
> because he admitted it up front, but I truly and honestly doubt that
> most votes in most legislatures are any more rational than he is.
> ...
> I don't assume that *all* legislators do their jobs irrationally, but
> one would have to be actively ignoring the present situation in the USA
> to assume that rational thought and scientific evidence played any ...
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Author: Doug FreyburgerDoug Freyburger
Date: May 13, 2010 17:56
Doug Anderson wrote:
> Doug Freyburger yahoo.com> writes:
>>> To the extent that any one law is based on the data not on matters of
>> feel good, that one law is based on science. Such laws are sometimes
>> very unpopular or non-obvious - When I worked at the Rand Corporation
>> one of the studies published showed the numbers that better funding does
>> not equate to better education. Fortunately the study did also
>> correlate other factors that do correlate to better education.
>
> My non-scientific metastudy suggests that the single variable that
> correlates best to a good education is the income level of the
> parents.
My suggestion is income of the families and quality of the education are
both effects of a common cause. I think that cause is "involvement" or
"empowerment" however that might be measured. Involvement...
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Author: Doug FreyburgerDoug Freyburger
Date: May 13, 2010 17:45
Doug Anderson wrote:
>
> I know that there are currently 3 Dougs posting here ...
Woo who! Must go out and recruit more Dougs!
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Author: Doug AndersonDoug Anderson
Date: May 13, 2010 15:12
"Remy McSwain" gmail.com> writes:
> In news:rgbpckskg4.fsf@ethel.the.log,
> Doug Anderson gmail.com> wrote:>> Dr Nancy's Sweetie elvis.rowan.edu> writes:
>>
>> (snip)
>>>>> In the state where she lives...
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Author: CaitCait
Date: Jan 29, 2010 03:56
On Jan 27, 4:36 am, "Tai" gmail.com.invalid> wrote:> Cait wrote:
>> On Jan 24, 3:04 pm, "Tai" gmail.com.invalid> wrote:>>> Cait! It's good to see you pop up. :)
>
>>> Speaking of new beginnings, how are you? Is the new baby out yet?
>
>> I miscarried at the end of June. Went through a bit of turmoil over
>> that, but my sweetie was great through it all. Who knows. If God
>> wants there to be another, there will be. But if there is, I hope
>> it's soon. I just turned 44. LOL
>
>> Cait
>
> I'm sorry to hear that, Cait. Best wishes for whatever happens in that
> direction in your future!
>
> It sounds like you are doing well with your sweetie, that's lovely news.
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Author: CaitCait
Date: Jan 29, 2010 03:55
On Jan 27, 12:13 am, Vickie gmail.com> wrote:> On Jan 26, 7:43 pm, Cait gmail.com> wrote:
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>>> On Jan 26, 1:14 pm, Vickie gmail.com> wrote:>
>>> On Jan 25, 6:03 pm, Cait gmail.com> wrote:>
>>>> On Jan 24, 3:04 pm, "Tai" gmail.com.invalid> wrote:>
>>>>> Cait! It's good to see you pop up. :)
>
>>>>> Speaking of new beginnings, how are you? Is the new baby out yet?
>
>>>> I miscarried at the end of June. Went through a bit of turmoil over
>>>> that, but my sweetie was great through it all. Who knows. If God
>>>> wants there to be another, there will be. But if there is, I hope ...
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