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Author: PuddlePuddle Date: May 12, 2008 16:37
Was not so good session. T was running half hour late and we knew he
had to pick up his babies at 5pm. Lots of outside kids in waiting room
playing under the table. Made us have a small remembers so we left and
came back after half hour (our appt was at 4).
T wasn't done with session at 4:30 so we waited some more. When t came
out we asked about his babies and he said that he had to pick them up
from dance class but was going to be late.
I guess this was an invitation to have a full session but couldn't
seem to do that to t. We know we have this issue with making t more
important but he talked about some rental issues he was having with a
house too.
Figured t was trying to make it light conversation but he did ask us
bout c*ts and if we had done that anymore (we havn't). Tried to gently
drop hints that we need some help today including that we have to
leave a training very early today from being too anxious so took
bnezo, but t seemed distracted so we let him guide the session back to
light topics of work and such.
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Author: astriastri Date: May 12, 2008 16:43
On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
> Was not so good session. T was running half hour late and we knew he
> had to pick up his babies at 5pm. Lots of outside kids in waiting
> room playing under the table. Made us have a small remembers so we
> left and came back after half hour (our appt was at 4).
sigh
> T wasn't done with session at 4:30 so we waited some more. When t
> came out we asked about his babies and he said that he had to pick
> them up from dance class but was going to be late.
>
> I guess this was an invitation to have a full session but couldn't
> seem to do that to t. We know we have this issue with making t more
> important but he talked about some rental issues he was having with a
> house too.
:P
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Author: PuddlePuddle Date: May 12, 2008 16:52
On May 12, 7:43 pm, astri wrote:> On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
>> Was not so good session. T was running half hour late and we knew he
>> had to pick up his babies at 5pm. Lots of outside kids in waiting
>> room playing under the table. Made us have a small remembers so we
>> left and came back after half hour (our appt was at 4).
>
> sigh
>
>> T wasn't done with session at 4:30 so we waited some more. When t
>> came out we asked about his babies and he said that he had to pick
>> them up from dance class but was going to be late.
>
>> I guess this was an invitation to have a full session but couldn't
>> seem to do that to t. We know we have this issue with making t more
>> important but he talked about some rental issues he was having with a
>> house too.
>
> :P
> ...
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Author: astriastri Date: May 12, 2008 17:00
On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
> On May 12, 7:43 pm, astri wrote:>> On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
>>> Was not so good session. T was running half hour late and we knew
>>> he had to pick up his babies at 5pm. Lots of outside kids in
>>> waiting room playing under the table. Made us have a small
>>> remembers so we left and came back after half hour (our appt was at
>>> 4).
>>
>> sigh
>>
>>> T wasn't done with session at 4:30 so we waited some more. When t
>>> came out we asked about his babies and he said that he had to pick
>>> them up from dance class but was going to be late.
>>
>>> I guess this was an invitation to have a full session but couldn't
>>> seem to do that to t. We know we have this issue with making t more
>>> important but he talked about some rental issues he was having with
>>> a house too.
>> ...
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Author: PuddlePuddle Date: May 12, 2008 17:09
On May 12, 8:00 pm, astri wrote:> On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
>> On May 12, 7:43 pm, astri wrote:>>> On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
>>>> Was not so good session. T was running half hour late and we knew
>>>> he had to pick up his babies at 5pm. Lots of outside kids in
>>>> waiting room playing under the table. Made us have a small
>>>> remembers so we left and came back after half hour (our appt was at
>>>> 4).
>
>>> sigh
>
>>>> T wasn't done with session at 4:30 so we waited some more. When t
>>>> came out we asked about his babies and he said that he had to pick
>>>> them up from dance class but was going to be late.
>
>>>> I guess this was an invitation to have a full session but couldn't
>>>> seem to do that to t. We know we have this issue with making t more
>>>> important but he talked about some rental issues he was having with
>>>> a house too. ...
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Author: astriastri Date: May 12, 2008 17:35
On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
> On May 12, 8:00 pm, astri wrote:>> On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
>>
>>> astri I can't send him this in email. I just can't. Usually if e we
>>> have big issue we will or if we feel that he doesn't understand us
>>> then we will (once we printed out huge notebook of posts :) ) But
>>> feel like he knew or at least should of known we needed guidance
>>> today. Not to often we get *that* SI, Least don't think we do, you
>>> would prolly know better than us!
>>
>> is always or usually a mistake to expect t to mind-read. maybe you
>> can't send this or something like this right now, but from what you
>> wrote below then what happened today will need to be worked on with
>> him or it will get in the way of you being able to work with him.
>>
>>> Anyway, didn't think about taking *care* of rave till you said
>>> something about it. Think is maybe important. What can I do for
>>> her? She is so hurt and so angry. Making me c*y right now thinking
>>> about it. ...
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Author: PuddlePuddle Date: May 12, 2008 18:13
On May 12, 8:35 pm, astri wrote:> On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
>> On May 12, 8:00 pm, astri wrote:>>> On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
>
>>>> astri I can't send him this in email. I just can't. Usually if e we
>>>> have big issue we will or if we feel that he doesn't understand us
>>>> then we will (once we printed out huge notebook of posts :) ) But
>>>> feel like he knew or at least should of known we needed guidance
>>>> today. Not to often we get *that* SI, Least don't think we do, you
>>>> would prolly know better than us!
>
>>> is always or usually a mistake to expect t to mind-read. maybe you
>>> can't send this or something like this right now, but from what you
>>> wrote below then what happened today will need to be worked on with
>>> him or it will get in the way of you being able to work with him.
>
>>>> Anyway, didn't think about taking *care* of rave till you said
>>>> something about it. Think is maybe important. What can I do for
>>>> her? She is so hurt and so angry. Making me c*y right now thinking ...
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Author: astriastri Date: May 12, 2008 18:24
On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
> On May 12, 8:35 pm, astri wrote:>> On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
>>
>>> Will try to work with rave, maybe let her color it out. Will draft
>>> an email but not sure what to say.
>>
>> start with what you wrote initially in this post and then edit it.
>> add your actual feelings about it -- how you understand he was
>> distracted and had needs and you ended up taking care of him but
>> that it doesn't totally sit well with you that you did that.
>>
>>> Long sigh. Think you really understand me. Pretending and mind
>>> reading and all that. I keep working on it.
>>
>> heh
>>
>> btdt
>>
>>> I had sent t an email the other day explaining that therapy was the ...
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Author: PuddlesPuddles Date: May 12, 2008 18:33
On May 12, 9:24 pm, astri wrote:> On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
>> On May 12, 8:35 pm, astri wrote:>>> On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
>
>>>> Will try to work with rave, maybe let her color it out. Will draft
>>>> an email but not sure what to say.
>
>>> start with what you wrote initially in this post and then edit it.
>>> add your actual feelings about it -- how you understand he was
>>> distracted and had needs and you ended up taking care of him but
>>> that it doesn't totally sit well with you that you did that.
>
>>>> Long sigh. Think you really understand me. Pretending and mind
>>>> reading and all that. I keep working on it.
>
>>> heh
>
>>> btdt
> ...
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Author: astriastri Date: May 12, 2008 18:41
On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddles wrote:
> On May 12, 9:24 pm, astri wrote:>> On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
>>> On May 12, 8:35 pm, astri wrote:>>>> On Mon, 12 May 2008, Puddle wrote:
>>
>>>>> Will try to work with rave, maybe let her color it out. Will
>>>>> draft an email but not sure what to say.
>>
>>>> start with what you wrote initially in this post and then edit it.
>>>> add your actual feelings about it -- how you understand he was
>>>> distracted and had needs and you ended up taking care of him but
>>>> that it doesn't totally sit well with you that you did that.
>>
>>>>> Long sigh. Think you really understand me. Pretending and mind
>>>>> reading and all that. I keep working on it.
>>
>>>> heh
>>
>>>> btdt ...
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