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Author: astriastri Date: Mar 5, 2008 21:03
On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, wolfie of confused wrote:
> astri wrote:
>> On Sun, 2 Mar 2008, jill wrote:
>>
>>> Two, we aren't in a situation that is dangerous. We took the body
>>> away from the unsafe place and unsafe people and we are in a
>>> situation now where we don't have to worry about that stuff.
>
> I missed this because it was still in the oscar thread and ...err...
> guess I've been avoiding that thread
mmmm
>> we were recently in a situation that was dangerous. the aa made it
>> dangerous to be home. and her danger was too similar to danger from
>> before. that messed us all up again.
>
> yes it would. seems like that would have been very hard to deal with.
yes. we got broken again.
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Author: confusedconfused Date: Mar 5, 2008 21:14
astri wrote:
> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, wolfie of confused wrote:
>> astri wrote:
>>> On Sun, 2 Mar 2008, jill wrote:
>>> we were recently in a situation that was dangerous. the aa made it
>>> dangerous to be home. and her danger was too similar to danger from
>>> before. that messed us all up again.
>>
>> yes it would. seems like that would have been very hard to deal with.
>
> yes. we got broken again.
>
understand
regrets
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Author: astriastri Date: Mar 5, 2008 21:26
On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
> astri wrote:
>> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, wolfie of confused wrote:
>>> astri wrote:
>
>>>> we were recently in a situation that was dangerous. the aa made
>>>> it dangerous to be home. and her danger was too similar to danger
>>>> from before. that messed us all up again.
>>>
>>> yes it would. seems like that would have been very hard to deal
>>> with.
>>
>> yes. we got broken again.
>>
> understand
>
> regrets
ty
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Author: confusedconfused Date: Mar 5, 2008 21:54
astri wrote:
> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
>> astri wrote:
>>> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, wolfie of confused wrote:
>>>> astri wrote:
>>
>>>>> we were recently in a situation that was dangerous. the aa made
>>>>> it dangerous to be home. and her danger was too similar to danger
>>>>> from before. that messed us all up again.
>>>>
>>>> yes it would. seems like that would have been very hard to deal
>>>> with.
>>>
>>> yes. we got broken again.
>>>
>> understand
>>
>> regrets
>
> ty ...
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Author: astriastri Date: Mar 5, 2008 23:01
On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
> astri wrote:
>> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
>>> astri wrote:
>>>> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, wolfie of confused wrote:
>>>>> astri wrote:
>>>
>>>>>> but the dangerous-at-home was a year and a half ago. and the
>>>>>> dangerous interactions haven't been really for almost half a
>>>>>> year. and the unpleasant interactions have really gotten much
>>>>>> much less frequent. and she really does appear to have made some
>>>>>> changes, enough changes that we are working toward having her
>>>>>> transition back to living her.
>>>>>>
>>>>> but that's a really big step and it doesn't erase what happened
>>>>> before
>>>>
>>>> but we have to allow her to have grown some
>>>>
>>> yes. ...
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Author: confusedconfused Date: Mar 6, 2008 21:05
astri wrote:
> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
>> astri wrote:
>>> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
>>>> astri wrote:
>>>>> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, wolfie of confused wrote:
>>>>>> astri wrote:
>>>>
>>>>>>> but the dangerous-at-home was a year and a half ago. and the
>>>>>>> dangerous interactions haven't been really for almost half a
>>>>>>> year. and the unpleasant interactions have really gotten much
>>>>>>> much less frequent. and she really does appear to have made some
>>>>>>> changes, enough changes that we are working toward having her
>>>>>>> transition back to living her.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>> but that's a really big step and it doesn't erase what happened
>>>>>> before
>>>>>
>>>>> but we have to allow her to have grown some
>>>>> ...
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Author: astriastri Date: Mar 6, 2008 22:05
On Thu, 6 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
> astri wrote:
>> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
>>> astri wrote:
>>>> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
>>>
>>> little things matter though. especially when you are already
>>> feeling broken
>>
>> yes
>>
>> (not supposed to be)
>
> not supposed to be broken?
yes
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Author: confusedconfused Date: Mar 7, 2008 09:13
astri wrote:
> On Thu, 6 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
>> astri wrote:
>>> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
>>>> astri wrote:
>>>>> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
>>>>
>>>> little things matter though. especially when you are already
>>>> feeling broken
>>>
>>> yes
>>>
>>> (not supposed to be)
>>
>> not supposed to be broken?
>
> yes
understand that feeling
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Author: astriastri Date: Mar 7, 2008 22:02
On Fri, 7 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
> astri wrote:
>> On Thu, 6 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
>>> astri wrote:
>>>> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
>>>>> astri wrote:
>>>>>> On Wed, 5 Mar 2008, confused wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>> little things matter though. especially when you are already
>>>>> feeling broken
>>>>
>>>> yes
>>>>
>>>> (not supposed to be)
>>>
>>> not supposed to be broken?
>>
>> yes
>
> understand that feeling ...
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Author: Baba YagaBaba Yaga Date: Mar 8, 2008 05:23
astri example.com> wrote, in alt.support.dissociation:
>ended up talking to tpist today about not being allowed to be damaged.
>spent whole session on that. she tried to translate damaged into
>vulnerable. not allowed to be that, either.
no!
(vunerable is doubleplusungood.)
Baba Yaga (& screaming monkeys)
--
Never, ever do something /for/ them if they want to do something
themselves, like handing you a cup of tea; however awkward and
terrible, you don't do it for them.
- Helen Bamber
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