Author: astriastri
Date: Apr 27, 2008 16:42
On Sun, 27 Apr 2008, the valerians wrote:
> all this time in tpy, feels like all i've really learned is how to
> talk to tpists. still can't do rl relationships.
sigh
(seems we can really only do rl relationships if they start here)
(anything else is really limited)
> almost got into a bad one, where it's all about how bad inferior
> defective i am. all the worse because of rlgs overtones. just sent
> the person an email saying i can't be friends. left out all the big
> reasons why bc i don't want to be vulnerable in that way & don't want
> to give any fodder for arguments (e.g., "well, if that's the reason,
> then we can do this or that..."). i just gave one basic irrefutable
> reason. haven't heard back yet and am scared to read the response
> when it arrives bc i know it's going to contain something about how i
> need xyz and how sad sie is that i am not willing to pursue it (more
> rlgs stuff).
blech
can hope sie won't respond at all?
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