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Date: Dec 9, 2007 13:41
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Hi!
luthe asarian-host.net> wrote:>Hannah(s) wrote:
>Hi, Hannah(s) :)
>> emerging butterfly hotmail.com> wrote:>>>> [...]
>>>> This would be a perfect gateway to discussing pet-peeves with
>>>> incorrect wording and grammar. Anyone game?
>Off topic: Luthe thinks because multiples share writing peculiarities
>that dissociation isn't real. Like he and I both misspell "their". I
>don't have an answer for that.
Being multiple doesn't necessarily imply being *completely* separate.
There can be some remains of connection, especially in more co-conscious
kinds of multiplicity.
>> People writing "it's" for "of it". *rolls eyes*
>I do that :)
*rolls eyes*
>> Kind regards,
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Author: confusedconfused
Date: Dec 9, 2007 11:10
> On Dec 9, 2:31 am, "confused" gmail.com>
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>>> On Dec 9, 2:15 am, Emerging Butterfly hotmail.com>
>>> wrote:>>>> On Dec 9, 1:04 am, "confused" gmail.com>
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>>>>> "dorrie9" gmail.com> wrote in message>> ...
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Author: Nom dePlumeNom dePlume
Date: Dec 9, 2007 11:09
I agree that what your housemates did was cruel and inconsiderate. I also
suspect they didn't see it as being nearly as important as you do. People
generally project their own characteristics onto other people, and if
something isn't a big deal to them, they think it isn't a big deal to others
as well. Also, to many, making fun of others is a normal style of
interaction, because they grew up with it, and practice it without thinking.
They will continue to do this until they either experience enough blowback
to change their minds, or somehow develop empathy. From what I have seen,
the second is not likely without the first having preceded it.
Having said all that, I've noticed that there are some people who truly
bring out the worst in others. I don't want to say that they invite abuse,
because they don't intend anything of the sort, but there is something about
them that greatly encourages it. I sometimes describe this as saying that
someone is wearing a "Kick Me" sign on his back. I've never been able to pin
down just what these people do that inspires this response in others, but
I've definitely felt it. I don't give in to that urge, but I do feel it, and
I always wonder why.
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Author: astriastri
Date: Dec 9, 2007 10:47
On Sun, 9 Dec 2007, confused wrote:
>> Yeah, the thing about numbing is true....it feels like it will help
>> to be numb, but then you lose out on some of the coping skills
>> inherent in being "with it." But I numb myself cuz I don't think
>> I'll be "with it" right anyway. Hard things to deal with.
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> very
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> maybe though, the only way we will learn to be with it, is by giving
> ourselves the chance which means not numbing?
but maybe can do this a little at a time?
-- astri
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Author: astriastri
Date: Dec 9, 2007 10:46
On Sun, 9 Dec 2007, confused wrote:
> "astri" example.com> wrote in message
> news:Pine.BSI.4.64.0712081510550.6353@malasada.lava.net...>> On Sat, 8 Dec 2007, confused wrote:
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>>> I've been taking care of chores today. stuff I didn't deal with
>>> because I was sick or just couldn't cope. messed up my internet, had
>>> to spend a fair amount of time to get it working again. dealt with
>>> bills too. kept melting down.
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>> :(
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>> regrets
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>> having an anxious day here, too.
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> wish things weren't so hard for you
ty
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Author: astriastri
Date: Dec 9, 2007 10:43
On Sun, 9 Dec 2007, multiplyopinionated@ gmail.com wrote:
> with the 12th around the corner; things are starting to fall apart
> for many reasons: 1.) grrrand negative infection (bl**d infection) is
> getting worse. Antibiotics are just suppressing it not getting rid
> of it. its a cat and mouse game......
:(
2.) SO...... several issues have
> popped thier ikki head out and said hi...... SO was upped on his meds
> and he is acting resentful about finances blaming us, cruel verbal
> comments and cruel behavior (very much NOT like him), loosing memory
> when taking new meds (have tried to help him tapper up slowly, no
> luck).......... at nite time he wanders around intoxicated with meds;
> making it dangerous for him....so..... we have to babysit
> him...........sleeping lots during lite time....
can you call his doc and tell this?
> SO wus sposd to bring us to the h*sp*t*l fer s*rg*ry......a long long
> ride...... an now wer fraid dat hes no safe to du dat fer
> us.......bcus it rit round cornir, alternative rids not
> avalabl....
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