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  Re: thoughts and more info.         


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Date: Dec 27, 2007 16:36

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Hi!

emerging butterfly hotmail.com> wrote:
>On Dec 11, 9:37 pm, cometz verizon.net> wrote:
>> Emerging Butterfly wrote:
>>> On Dec 11, 8:30 pm, cometz verizon.net> wrote:
>>>>Emerging Butterfly wrote:
>> did a snip so the post won't get cut off.
>>>>>Anyway....those are thoughts. I know I didn't do this all very wisely.
>>>>>But...I did the best I could. Next time, I think I'll know better than
>>>>>to trust a supervisor who claims to feel like a friend. I now know
>>>>>that doesn't work. It makes the kids way too vulnerable, and they
>>>>>don't know the boundaries.
>>>>i don't know what to say. well, of course, i am really sorry the job
>>>>ended up this way. i have been fired once ever and even tho i hated the
>>>>job and thought the ppl were awful i still felt like i'd been kicked
>>>>really hard. it's a terrible feeling. it doesn't sound like it really
>>>>had anything to do with your abilities.
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  Re: thoughts and more info.         


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Date: Dec 27, 2007 16:22

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Hi!

Emerging Butterfly hotmail.com> wrote:
>Then, I thought. I thought, Okay. Maybe I'm still disabled. I do see
>how I get blocked with remembering details sometimes, and I do
>sometimes space out.

Can happen. But wonder what... Sometimes a friend of ours seemed to
forget much more than us. And that without dissociative dx. And he gets
through well still. Seems to be something different which determines why
he gets through well and we not so well.
>I thought, maybe I space out far more than I notice.
>I thought, Maybe data entry and organizing office date just aren't my
>thing --

But then, first they gave you relatively good feedback even on data
entry. Even *if* it might not be your *most* favourite job.
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  Here I go.         


Author: slunky
Date: Dec 27, 2007 10:49

I'm off to my thrpst to spill my guts about what I'm going through right
now. I may or may not be around for a while depending on what we decide
I need to do. Hope everyone is doing well.

--
-slunky
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  Re: Check-in -- doing okay. Got fired. work meeting.         


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Date: Dec 27, 2007 09:37

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Hi!

Jill tuells.org> wrote:
>[...]
>Fwiw, this sort of thing happens to 'normal' people too. My SO is
>totally 'normal' *grin*. He is a computer guru and gets paid to
>break computers and then fix them better then before. He worked for...
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  Re: Check-in -- doing okay. Got fired. work meeting.         


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Date: Dec 27, 2007 09:32

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Hi!

Emerging Butterfly hotmail.com> wrote:
>Here's what was said. It was all said by the supervisor over my boss,
>not my boss herself. She was present for the meeting and simply sat
>quietly.
>"This meeting is to talk about the work performance. I do know of the
>dissociation, but that is not the main issue; your performance is.
>Dissociation may be an explanation for the performance issues...
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  slightly depressed...no biggie         


Author: jtdgreat
Date: Dec 27, 2007 06:12

i've been hurting some lately. lots of different causes, some of
which i'm thinking i might need a T to help me with. been doing ok
without one, mind you. but i think i could be doing better if i could
get some stuff worked out.

i dunno...

been fighting the depression for awhile, but yesterday i was half an
hour late to work, and today i worked really hard at being on time,
and managed to be only 7 minutes late.

the guy was cussing at us to get us to be on time this morning. we
asked him not to cuss because it upsets the kiddos - this is something
we've been working on. not cussing, that is. asked him, as we often
do, why he needs to cuss. he answered for a change, instead of
grumbling himself into oblivion.

he vented for a bit about how much he hates it when we're late because
then someone (it wasn't clear whether it was him or someone he
protects)(or both) feels so guilty about coming in late, and needing
to apologize - or worse, not apologizing because we'd rather not call
attention to it, but then worrying that the boss might be more angry
about that than about us coming in late.
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