On May 30, 8:08 am, "Wouter Valentijn" wrote:
> TBerk wrote:
>> On May 26, 6:03 pm, "Wickeddoll®"
>>
yahoo.com> wrote:>>> "Thanatos"
>
>>>> "Wickeddoll®"
yahoo.com> wrote:>>
>
>>>>> Can someone be right down the middle? I find that hard to
>>>>> believe.
>
>>>> I find it hard to believe that two men can enjoy having sex with
>>>> each other. Yet it apparently happens all the time. I certainly
>>>> don't find it any more incredible that someone might be equally
>>>> attracted to members of either gender.
>
>>> I suppose so. But I think unlike homosexuality, bisexuality may be
>>> a choice to *some* individuals, rather than a truly defined
>>> sexuality. Of course most of the stuff you read about sexuality is
>>> only conjecture. We haven't really figured out how the human brain
>>> is wired.
>
>>> Having said that - do you share the fantasy my husband and lots of
>>> other guys have? The two women thing? I find that bizarre, frankly.
>
>>> Natalie
>
>> Sorry Wick'd, the old double standard applies to most men from what I
>> have seen. There seems to be some inborn 'hackles rise' reaction to
>> two men kissing but not so with the other gender doing same. This
>> seems to be outside of a reasoned thought but how much is nature vs
>> nurture I leave up to the future experts. I am naturally tolerant but
>> I find I get the willies sometimes myself. (You wouldn't believe the
>> open minded environment I was raised in.)
>
>> That said I think Bisexuality might be better understood if it was
>> thought of as a kind of Omni-sexuality if you will, there not being an
>> 'either this or that' approach, 'which do I like better' type aspect
>> but rather a I' loves em like they loves me' way of feeling. Beauty
>> being in the eye of the beholder and all that, who's to validate
>> somebody else's lustings?
>
>> (Read any Stranger in a Strange Land or other late Heinlein lately?)
Nope, but you got the omni part right.
I have a good friend, raised i the Church; he thinks that he is
against laws that provide 'extra' for gays, like the ability to marry.
"Why do we have to change the law to give them something extra?"
I try and resolve his query w/ 'what if somebody called you 'the-N-
word'? How would you deal w/ not being able to marry the gal you loved
because she was a different race? Its like that.
Either we are all Human, or we are not. Go from there.
TBerk
