On Dec 9, 10:42 am, happyseducedg...@yahoo.com wrote:

I take it very far, probably further than anybody else here. To me it
covers any other related aspect of spending money to get a girl. Then
again, I'm also a poor starving student.... so I'm following these
beliefs of mine for practical reasons as well! ;p

If she gets to the stage at which we are official gf/bf then I'll not
be counting the pennies quite so carefully, still is no reason to
behave extravagantly. Or for that matter, even in any significantly
different way from how she is spending money on you. Common sense
really.

dman

How far do you take the not paying for her drink thing?

I don't get the theory behind this. Is it used only for right when you
meet her?

It's used if the guy is not a FINANCIAL SLUT.

Let the other guy provide for a chick he isn't fucking.

So after you're fucking her, you pay though, right?

Ray Gordon, creator of the pivot wrote:

happyseducedgirl@yahoo.com wrote in news:1165614161.186463.215900
@j72g2000cwa.googlegroups.com:

The theory is simple, really. You don't pay for anything with the thought
that you must, like it's your duty... or that paying for something means
you might get lucky... or the thought that she's going to be somehow
impressed with you.

AFCs tend to buy things as a way of showing women they like them. Buy
them flowers. Buy them gold. Buy them dinner. The old cliche... "Can I
buy you a drink?" The implication is clear. -I buy drink. You let me
talk to you.- I pay for your attention/affection. And it's total BS. So,
if the normal and almost expected idea is that you have to pay for a
drink to talk to a woman... to be different than 99.9%% of other men...
you don't buy her anything.

Yeah pretty much agree there. The way you gotta look at it, she is lucky to
be talking to you and the least she can do is buy you a drink lol :D

A few weeks back i'd been kissing a girl for a bit, then we went to the bar
and she said are we gonna get some drinks? So I said "yeah if you're
buying". She was totally cool with it. Then I said "are you sure you can
afford it?". She replied "not really". So i said "fuck it get me one
anyway". ;)

You just gotta have some self respect

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"mathias" psychoskank.karoo.co.uk> wrote:

Yo...Mad respect...This is who I should be and wasn't!

This my n*ggaz is the mindframe you gotta be in 8)

Now that I think about it, I did use to fuck hot poor (or not) guys who
did exactly that. I guess the attitude did provide more
alpha/protector potential than the actual money.
I think I would pay for their stuff about 5 times/events and then ditch
them if I remember correctly.

mathias wrote:

most guys would fuck an 8 for money, but due to financial sluts, 8s don't
have to turn tricks. They only have to strip or work in offices, at least
in this country.

The general theory is that money is for women you're fucking, IF you're the
type of guy to spend it. A guy doesn't have to spend all the time, but it's
the most reliable way to get laid, and a lot of guys who think they have
"game" are giving it a financial push without admitting it (kind of like the
sexual slut who has a boyfriend because she puts out even if she doesn't
admit it to the world).

Use 'em and dump 'em. Ah, the hookup culture.