On Mar 28, 9:30 am, Alex
nyc.NOSPAM.rr.com> wrote:> Don't have to scroll through dozens of lines of agonizing dialogue to know
> what the problem is: You're spending too much time on a girl who's, at best,
> a flake and, at worst, not interested in anything but an ego boost.
>
> Find other women who will be more receptive to pursue.
>
> in article
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> singleguy1...@
gmail.com at singleguy1...@
gmail.com wrote on 3/27/08 1:47 AM:
>
>> Good Morning Fellas,
>
>> Could I please have your input on the below dialog? I met this girl
>> in a shopping mall while she was working and my mind is all fogged up
>> as to the next step....
>
>> I called her like I said I would in the dialog, she answered but was
>> on her way to class, so she asked me to call back at 10.30 but she
>> didn't answer....
>
>> Me
>> 7:49am Mar 13th
>> Hey B, you get my e-mail I sent you?
>
>> Her
>> 11:49am Mar 13th
>> Heya, what email are you talking about?
>> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
>> Me
>> 1:26pm Mar 13th
>> Hi B,
>
>> I'm having trouble sending you a message on facebook, hence my e-
>> mail :-)
>
>> On Sunday I was walking with my friend when I saw you, I walked passed
>> but I had to turn back because I think you're absolutely breathe
>> taking and I had to find out if you have anything else going for you
>> than just looks. Have you ever been told that you're a shining example
>> of genetic perfection? Allow me to be the first then :-)
>
>> It would be great to chat or maybe go for cheesecake when you're free
>> and find out if there's anything else we like about each other.
>
>> Have a fantastic day!
>
>> Me
>
>> Me
>> 9:14am Mar 22nd
>> Hey B, how's your weekend been thus far?
>
>> Her
>> 9:20am Mar 22nd
>> Heya, my weekend has been a total disaster but hey, there is no use in
>> complaining is there? How has yours been? Hope you enjoy every minute,
>> Happy Easter by the way... :)
>> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
>> Me
>> 9:49am Mar 22nd
>> Total disaster, why's that? Sometimes complaining helps if you do it
>> well and to the right people :-D Mine has been really really good!
>> I've been wined and dined by suppliers and in that discovered how
>> great a good bottle of red wine tastes rather than the cheap wine I'm
>> used too, lol... I take it from my first e-mail you're not a fan of
>> cheesecake?
>
>> Her
>> 10:05am Mar 22nd
>> I came to visit my family in jhb for the weekend, and let's just say
>> that my father ruined it - as usual...
>
>> Lol, there is nothing wrong with being wined and dined on the odd
>> occasion, everyone deserves a little pampering. As far as the red wine
>> goes, enjoyment stems to you alone, i cant really stomach it. :)
>
>> I do enjoy cheesecake, cant actually remember when last i ate it
>> though... The cheesecake was not the reason i did not reply, it was
>> your statement of 'genetic perfection ' that did. The cynic in me
>> found it a tad difficult to swallow...
>> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
>> Me
>> 10:33am Mar 22nd
>> JHB, you're right, what a disaster, lol...
>
>> See that's what I said as well, the cheap red wine I cant stomach but
>> the really expensive ones I can't resist...This bottle was like R600!!
>> I can still taste it...An explosion of different fruits in your
>> mouth...
>
>> Really, well I was being honest and I still think you're beautiful and
>> I'd still like to find out more.... So if I were to say to you that we
>> should meet up for some cheesecake, would you get scared and runaway
>> or would you smile and see us having a laugh over some cheesecake?
>
>> Her
>> 2:37pm Mar 22nd
>> JHB, unfortunately, is not the problem, my family is... There are
>> times i feel that my brother and i are adopted. Im looking forward to
>> moving here, however living in this household will have anyone
>> running, lol!
>
>> R600 for a bottle of wine? I cant digest paying that much for a single
>> bottle of anything, let alone red wine. Becareful though, by the looks
>> of things, this is going to be an extremely expensive hobby...
>
>> I have no problem with having a laugh over cheesecake. There is, after
>> all, nothing wrong with harmless conversation
>> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
>> Me
>> 9:28am Mar 23rd
>> You're moving to JHB? Tell me your story then if your family's in JHB
>> and you live in CT?
>
>> Nah I wouldn't pay that much for a bottle of wine unless it's my
>> birthday then perhaps I'd consider it or maybe to treat someone really
>> special too.
>
>> That's great, when do you get back to CT and is there a number I can
>> reach you on that you feel comfortable giving me?
>
>> Her
>> 10:34am Mar 23rd
>> Yeah, the plan is that i move up to jhb next year to finally finish up
>> my BA. They moved to midrand about a month ago and i still live in
>> cpt...
>
>> i return home late tomorrow afternoon and you can reach me on 072
>> ********.
>> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
>> Me
>> 8:39pm Mar 23rd
>> So they are originally from CT then...? I don't mind JHB really, I go
>> up every month for work...
>
>> So where abouts in CT do you live?
>
>> Her
>> 9:10pm Mar 23rd
>> We are originally from KZN, but after living in cape town for 12years,
>> you could say it is our home... I live in the northern suburbs, table
>> view to be exact...
>
>> What is it you do exactly? I apologise if i have asked this before...
>> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
>> Me
>> 9:34pm Mar 23rd
>> Well I'd normally say I'm a dolphin trainer simply because it's alot
>> more interesting to say what I do :-) I'm a Genesys Engineer(Computer
>> Telephony Intergration).
>
>> I also work for the SA Memory Institute studying Social Dynamics and
>> human behaviour which is where my passion really lies. I love learning
>> about people and why they do what they do.... This I can talk about
>> for an eternity, so I think I'll save these interesting stories for
>> when we meet up.
>
>> If you wish I could also analyse your handwriting and tell you secrets
>> about yourself that not even your best friends know!!!
>
>> What is your passion?
>
>> Her
>> 8:00pm Mar 24th
>> Wow, talk about an interesting job... Would love to have atleast half
>> of the passion you have. As far as the hand-writing analysis goes, im
>> game... Would love for someone to indulge in my mind without me having
>> to say a word...
>
>> To be honest, im still waiting to find out what my passion is. Am
>> studying psychology, but have not decided what to specialise in. Any
>> ideas?
>> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
>> Me
>> 10:01pm Mar 24th
>> Ideas! Me, I have so so SO many ideas....My mind works overtime! I'm
>> reading four books at the mo!(maybe I shouldn't have said that, geek).
>> Specialise, I will first have to find out more about you but I do have
>> an idea of what will really blow your mind! That's just an intuition I
>> have about you and from that I can say that you will really like it...
>> Writing it down here will not do it any justice so I'll have to show
>> you....Just let me know when you're free...
>
>> You happy to be back home?
>
>> Her
>> 9:59am Mar 25th
>> Four books at once!?! My goodness, i take my hat off to you, how do
>> you manage?
>
>> So you say you know xgat would suit me? Im very interested in your
>> thoughts on this...
>> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
>> Me
>> 11:34am Mar 25th
>> How I manage, i enjoy reading :-) So always make some reading time...
>> you? do you like reading?
>
>> I know what will suit you for sure... But like I said I have to show
>> you at my house, so it will have to wait until you're comfortable with
>> coming over to my place. That said please don't get the wrong idea
>> about me saying you should come to my place.... Are you free tonight
>> or tomorrow night?
>
>> Her
>> 8:13am Mar 26th
>> I dont enjoy reading as much as you do, but because english is my
>> second major i have to make time to read.
>
>> Lol, it is a little difficult for a girl not to get the wrong
>> impression, but i will take your word for it yeah? Uhm, lastnight i
>> worked and tonight i dont think i have plans, may have to have dinner
>> with my manager though...
>> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
>> Me
>> 8:38am Mar 26th
>> Seems though we share the same interest... Mind, language, what about
>> goals?
>
>> Rest assured, I will treat you with the greatest respect and all I ask
>> for in return is a little back :-)
>
>> You have to have dinner with your manager? Sounds like you have no
>> choice.... Will you let me know by 10am so I can plan accordingly...?
>> Otherwise we'll reschedule...
>
>> I'll call you in a bit
>
>> Me
>> 2:38pm Mar 26th
>> Tried calling you but no answer... I'm going home now, we'll have to
>> reschedule....
>
>> Ciao
ah yeah, what-he-said
if you could at least write down the gist of it all in one or two
paragraphs then perhaps I could help
or even more likely you will see the answer yourself once you get down
to the bare bones of it
