Don't have to scroll through dozens of lines of agonizing dialogue to know
what the problem is: You're spending too much time on a girl who's, at best,
a flake and, at worst, not interested in anything but an ego boost.
Find other women who will be more receptive to pursue.
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singleguy1980@
gmail.com at singleguy1980@
gmail.com wrote on 3/27/08 1:47 AM:
> Good Morning Fellas,
>
> Could I please have your input on the below dialog? I met this girl
> in a shopping mall while she was working and my mind is all fogged up
> as to the next step....
>
> I called her like I said I would in the dialog, she answered but was
> on her way to class, so she asked me to call back at 10.30 but she
> didn't answer....
>
> Me
> 7:49am Mar 13th
> Hey B, you get my e-mail I sent you?
>
> Her
> 11:49am Mar 13th
> Heya, what email are you talking about?
> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
> Me
> 1:26pm Mar 13th
> Hi B,
>
> I'm having trouble sending you a message on facebook, hence my e-
> mail :-)
>
> On Sunday I was walking with my friend when I saw you, I walked passed
> but I had to turn back because I think you're absolutely breathe
> taking and I had to find out if you have anything else going for you
> than just looks. Have you ever been told that you're a shining example
> of genetic perfection? Allow me to be the first then :-)
>
> It would be great to chat or maybe go for cheesecake when you're free
> and find out if there's anything else we like about each other.
>
> Have a fantastic day!
>
> Me
>
> Me
> 9:14am Mar 22nd
> Hey B, how's your weekend been thus far?
>
> Her
> 9:20am Mar 22nd
> Heya, my weekend has been a total disaster but hey, there is no use in
> complaining is there? How has yours been? Hope you enjoy every minute,
> Happy Easter by the way... :)
> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
> Me
> 9:49am Mar 22nd
> Total disaster, why's that? Sometimes complaining helps if you do it
> well and to the right people :-D Mine has been really really good!
> I've been wined and dined by suppliers and in that discovered how
> great a good bottle of red wine tastes rather than the cheap wine I'm
> used too, lol... I take it from my first e-mail you're not a fan of
> cheesecake?
>
> Her
> 10:05am Mar 22nd
> I came to visit my family in jhb for the weekend, and let's just say
> that my father ruined it - as usual...
>
> Lol, there is nothing wrong with being wined and dined on the odd
> occasion, everyone deserves a little pampering. As far as the red wine
> goes, enjoyment stems to you alone, i cant really stomach it. :)
>
> I do enjoy cheesecake, cant actually remember when last i ate it
> though... The cheesecake was not the reason i did not reply, it was
> your statement of 'genetic perfection ' that did. The cynic in me
> found it a tad difficult to swallow...
> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
> Me
> 10:33am Mar 22nd
> JHB, you're right, what a disaster, lol...
>
> See that's what I said as well, the cheap red wine I cant stomach but
> the really expensive ones I can't resist...This bottle was like R600!!
> I can still taste it...An explosion of different fruits in your
> mouth...
>
> Really, well I was being honest and I still think you're beautiful and
> I'd still like to find out more.... So if I were to say to you that we
> should meet up for some cheesecake, would you get scared and runaway
> or would you smile and see us having a laugh over some cheesecake?
>
> Her
> 2:37pm Mar 22nd
> JHB, unfortunately, is not the problem, my family is... There are
> times i feel that my brother and i are adopted. Im looking forward to
> moving here, however living in this household will have anyone
> running, lol!
>
> R600 for a bottle of wine? I cant digest paying that much for a single
> bottle of anything, let alone red wine. Becareful though, by the looks
> of things, this is going to be an extremely expensive hobby...
>
> I have no problem with having a laugh over cheesecake. There is, after
> all, nothing wrong with harmless conversation
> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
> Me
> 9:28am Mar 23rd
> You're moving to JHB? Tell me your story then if your family's in JHB
> and you live in CT?
>
> Nah I wouldn't pay that much for a bottle of wine unless it's my
> birthday then perhaps I'd consider it or maybe to treat someone really
> special too.
>
> That's great, when do you get back to CT and is there a number I can
> reach you on that you feel comfortable giving me?
>
> Her
> 10:34am Mar 23rd
> Yeah, the plan is that i move up to jhb next year to finally finish up
> my BA. They moved to midrand about a month ago and i still live in
> cpt...
>
> i return home late tomorrow afternoon and you can reach me on 072
> ********.
> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
> Me
> 8:39pm Mar 23rd
> So they are originally from CT then...? I don't mind JHB really, I go
> up every month for work...
>
> So where abouts in CT do you live?
>
> Her
> 9:10pm Mar 23rd
> We are originally from KZN, but after living in cape town for 12years,
> you could say it is our home... I live in the northern suburbs, table
> view to be exact...
>
> What is it you do exactly? I apologise if i have asked this before...
> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
> Me
> 9:34pm Mar 23rd
> Well I'd normally say I'm a dolphin trainer simply because it's alot
> more interesting to say what I do :-) I'm a Genesys Engineer(Computer
> Telephony Intergration).
>
> I also work for the SA Memory Institute studying Social Dynamics and
> human behaviour which is where my passion really lies. I love learning
> about people and why they do what they do.... This I can talk about
> for an eternity, so I think I'll save these interesting stories for
> when we meet up.
>
> If you wish I could also analyse your handwriting and tell you secrets
> about yourself that not even your best friends know!!!
>
> What is your passion?
>
> Her
> 8:00pm Mar 24th
> Wow, talk about an interesting job... Would love to have atleast half
> of the passion you have. As far as the hand-writing analysis goes, im
> game... Would love for someone to indulge in my mind without me having
> to say a word...
>
> To be honest, im still waiting to find out what my passion is. Am
> studying psychology, but have not decided what to specialise in. Any
> ideas?
> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
> Me
> 10:01pm Mar 24th
> Ideas! Me, I have so so SO many ideas....My mind works overtime! I'm
> reading four books at the mo!(maybe I shouldn't have said that, geek).
> Specialise, I will first have to find out more about you but I do have
> an idea of what will really blow your mind! That's just an intuition I
> have about you and from that I can say that you will really like it...
> Writing it down here will not do it any justice so I'll have to show
> you....Just let me know when you're free...
>
> You happy to be back home?
>
> Her
> 9:59am Mar 25th
> Four books at once!?! My goodness, i take my hat off to you, how do
> you manage?
>
> So you say you know xgat would suit me? Im very interested in your
> thoughts on this...
> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
> Me
> 11:34am Mar 25th
> How I manage, i enjoy reading :-) So always make some reading time...
> you? do you like reading?
>
> I know what will suit you for sure... But like I said I have to show
> you at my house, so it will have to wait until you're comfortable with
> coming over to my place. That said please don't get the wrong idea
> about me saying you should come to my place.... Are you free tonight
> or tomorrow night?
>
> Her
> 8:13am Mar 26th
> I dont enjoy reading as much as you do, but because english is my
> second major i have to make time to read.
>
> Lol, it is a little difficult for a girl not to get the wrong
> impression, but i will take your word for it yeah? Uhm, lastnight i
> worked and tonight i dont think i have plans, may have to have dinner
> with my manager though...
> Sent via Facebook Mobile
>
> Me
> 8:38am Mar 26th
> Seems though we share the same interest... Mind, language, what about
> goals?
>
> Rest assured, I will treat you with the greatest respect and all I ask
> for in return is a little back :-)
>
> You have to have dinner with your manager? Sounds like you have no
> choice.... Will you let me know by 10am so I can plan accordingly...?
> Otherwise we'll reschedule...
>
> I'll call you in a bit
>
> Me
> 2:38pm Mar 26th
> Tried calling you but no answer... I'm going home now, we'll have to
> reschedule....
>
> Ciao