Your Lordship wrote:
> Hi Formhandle,
> Thanks for youre response.
> I liked it, it did make me laugh.
> No I'm not Gay either ..
>
> I think I need to totally re-do the profile, I mean, I am not an
> aggresive guy, but if the woman comes across more masculiune than me,
> then I guess i have problems..
>
> Thats prob why in the past, Fat women, and Gay men seem to approach
> me..
>
> As the years have gone on, I have mellowed out, I never used to be
> alone, and I used to compete in the Karate championships, in the south
> of England..
Put that kind of stuff in your profile.
Freshen up your pics, get a good head shot. If you've "gained a few
pounds", just start hitting the gym again and get some new pics up when
you're more confident to show your body.
> I dunno what changed me?
Time.
> The reason I chose to post here is because i am trying to learn where
> that point came when i became woosyish..
>
> The site is a site similar to
match.com.
>
> Its good to learn the basics, and once the basics are strong, then the
> rest can be worked on.
>
> Perhaps, I need to look at some of the male profiles, and there are
> also ways to see how many people viewed them, and ask what is it that
> makes them attractive to women?
That's a good thign to spend a little time on. Ignore the photos and
read what other guys write in their profiles, just try to intuitively
sense which guys will garner more initial interest from women and try to
learn from those.
> There is the basic looks and crap, but, i know, women are fickle, and
> one word said correctly, is sometimes all it takes..
And one word said IN-correctly is sometimes all it takes to lose their
interest.
You sound like you have a lot going for you and you just need to find a
better way to relay that to women, in an online profile, than you have been.
> I appreciate your honesty.
I couldn't believe I was helping if I wasn't. I'm sure you got all the
right points & some of the suggestions from others were also good.
>
>
>
>
>
> On Mon, 16 Jul 2007 16:35:55 -0400, Formhandle
>
fastseduction.com> wrote:
> >> First, work to meet girls in real-life first. Meeting women through
>> personals is only a secondary option.
>>
>> Your Lordship wrote:
>>
>>> Hi Guys,
>>> I would like to call upon the experience of the Guys and
>>> Gals in this Newsgroup.
>>>
>>> I really don't get it?
>>> There must be Women in here that would be willing to comment, and
>>> maybe they are best qualified to respond.
>>>
>>> I have paid for quite a while on a site,
>> A North American or Western site or something else?
>>
>>> and don't seem to be getting,
>>> and results, as in not even 1 date.
>>> Its not the only site I have been on.
>>> I think I will post what I have put on the site.
>>> At the end of the day, I need to do a total makeover of my life,
>>> however painful, so if you are going to be brutal, then so be it.
>>> If we are going to be honest, could it be an Ethnicity or Religion
>>> issue?
>>>
>>> What is the answer?
>>>
>>>
>>> Thanks Guys.
>>>
>>> Me
>>> I am passionate about music, it would be good to meet someone with a
>>> similar musical taste. I have travelled and enjoy different cultures,
>>> and what they have to offer. I love relaxing with friends, or just
>>> simply playing the guitar.
>> This doesn't really say much and sounds like just about any other
>> profile most guys will put up, except it has an effeminate tone. Your
>> profile should vibe some level of masculinity.
>>
>> Also, what is the topic line of your profile? The name you've chosen?
>> For all anyone knows you've chosen a name on the site of "VioletGayness"
>> and your topic line is "I'll bend over for truckers." Seriously, those
>> 2 things, along with your main profile picture, are what create an
>> initial impression and the body of text in the profile is somewhat
>> secondary.
>>
>>> Origin
>>> I was born in Iran,
>> If it's a orth American or Western site, you probably shouldn't state
>> that you were born in Iran. Political correctness aside, most women
>> will skip your profile once they read that. Let them find out about
>> your background when they first meet you.
>>
>>> and have been in the Uk for nearly 30 years. I
>>> have travelled quite a bit, and lived in diffrerent parts of the Uk.
>>>
>>> My Religion
>>>
>>> Born again Christian
>> Leave religion blank. The words "Born again Christian" will, by itself,
>> cause you to get filtered out by 90%% of the women who didn't already
>> skip your profile after reading "I was born in Iran".
>>
>> Also, you realize this newsgroup is for seduction and not mainstream
>> dating relationships, and that would mean the main methods involved
>> imply working towards sex as the goal, mostly. Is that even going to
>> jive with the "Born again Christian" thing?
>>
>>> Place to go
>>>
>>> It would be nice to be by the river Windsors my fav. A small fishing
>>> village would lovely, thats still unspoilt, and traditional.
>> You need to get the grammar right on that. Like "be by the river
>> Windsors, which is my favorite place." Or just say "My favorite place
>> is by the river Windsors."
>>
>>> A bar with live music would be good, with a good friendly atmosphere,
>>> so we could both feel relaxed and at ease.
>> OK but it's all still sounding a bit foofy and un-masculine. What makes
>> you different or better than any other guy on the dating site?
>>
>>> Favourite things
>>>
>>> I love colours,
>> What the fuck is this? "I love colors". Girls write that in their
>> profiles. You might as well say "I faint when I see a pretty rainbow."
>>
>>> as my Fav colour changes regularly, Spice, and heat is
>>> good, which pushes you're senses to the max.
>> What the fuck does that mean? I can't even make out the meaning of that
>> sentence. Just say "I love it when it's hot outside, my senses are
>> maxed out and I get a lot of energy from being out in the sun on a great
>> day, jogging, bicycling, or just a walk to my favorite places."
>> (presuming you actually jog or bike or whatever)
>>
>>> Anything from Hot
>>> chilli's to the subtle flavour of fish. I like my big boys toys, as i
>>> enjoy messing around around with.
>> Huh?
>>
>> Dude when you say "I like my big boys toys, as i enjoy messing around
>> around with." it SOUNDS like you're saying "I like playing with my
>> dick." Seriously, just spell out what you like. "I like taking my $WD
>> up a mountain. Working on a project in my shed. Fixing cars." be
>> specific. Don't say things that sound like like "I like boys big toy
>> dildos and messing with them. mmm"
>>
>>> Literature
>>>
>>> I like to keep up to date with current affairs,
>> "I like keeping up with current events". See the difference in tone?
>>
>>> whether it be online
>> Don't imply you surf online much, if at all.
>>
>>> or by simply, just reading the tabloids.
>> You might as well be gay if you say that in a profile.
>>
>>> I need to be up to date with
>>> the latest technology.
>> Don't say you NEED to be up-to-date with technology, it sounds like
>> you're a stay-at-home geek.
>>
>>> The only book I still love has to be The Lion
>>> the Witch and the Wardrobe,
>> Yeah, dude, you're gay or something. Either that or you can't tell the
>> difference between a dating profile geared towards a gay audience and
>> one geared to men meeting women.
>>
>> "The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe"?
>>
>> Maybe you could just say "I like putting on pink slippers when I'm at
>> home alone and dancing to an old Liza Minelli album while playing with
>> boy toys."
>>
>> ~Jay
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