>Okay, first things first. What kind of sites are you on? From your
>post, I am going to guess dating sites, but I have been known to be
>wrong before.

>This is nominally a seduction site, but most of the time it's just a
>place for us to shoot our favorite Jelly Fish in a Barrel, Ray
>Gordon. However, there are knowledgeable people here and a chance to
>help may raise them out of their Raytard stupor. Some fundamental
>things about seduction are common to hooking up online, if that's what
>you are trying to do. The first thing is to realize your in the
>business of sales and you're the product. I think that you can get a
>lot of good advice here along these lines, but we'll see. It's been
>awhile since we've actually discussed getting a woman and group rust
>may have set in.

>Since you seem to have a social life, then more of the information you
>can get here (and other places) can be put to use since it is geared
>to face to face situations.

>Second things second. If you are trying online dating, have you
>posted a picture? It's essential. The estimates by people who follow
>such things are that the response rate for profiles with pictures is
>about 8 to 1. Various sites have information on what makes for good
>online dating photos. More importantly, they will tell you what are
>NOT good pictures to put up. It is worth investing in having a
>professional shoot your pictures for you when you consider the value
>of what you are after. I don't know what they charge in the UK, but
>pros in the US who really understand what they are doing in this area,
>and it is a minor specialty, charge between $150.00 and $650.00 US for
>a total package. I'm in the middle at between $250.00 to $350.00 for
>between 3 to 5 images shot on location. If you do consider a
>professional, I wouldn't recommend a portrait photographer. This is
>advertising, pure and simple and that is not what portrait
>photographers know. The exception are photographers that do what we
>call environmental portraits.

>An alternative to a professional that can work well is find a local
>photography student with talent. You'll have to explain to them what
>you want and help them with constructive feedback if you aren't
>getting it, but it is much cheaper. If they are going to charge you,
>get a contract for your benefit and theirs.
>
>You asked about religion being a possible issue. Being a Born Again
>Christian can be a problem. A lot of women (and men, too) will tune
>out right there. If it is important to you that your Christianity be
>a part of whatever situation you want, then you would be best off
>going to a Christian Dating site. At least, we have them here.

>Well, that's to much for now. Good luck.

>
>Vance
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>On Jul 15, 11:16 am, Your Lordship life.com> wrote:

>> Hi Guys,
>> I would like to call upon the experience of the Guys and
>> Gals in this Newsgroup.
>>
>> I really don't get it?
>> There must be Women in here that would be willing to comment, and
>> maybe they are best qualified to respond.
>>
>> I have paid for quite a while on a site, and don't seem to be getting,
>> and results, as in not even 1 date.
>> Its not the only site I have been on.
>> I think I will post what I have put on the site.
>> At the end of the day, I need to do a total makeover of my life,
>> however painful, so if you are going to be brutal, then so be it.
>> If we are going to be honest, could it be an Ethnicity or Religion
>> issue?
>>
>> What is the answer?
>>
>> Thanks Guys.
>>
>> Me
>> I am passionate about music, it would be good to meet someone with a
>> similar musical taste. I have travelled and enjoy different cultures,
>> and what they have to offer. I love relaxing with friends, or just
>> simply playing the guitar.
>> Origin
>> I was born in Iran, and have been in the Uk for nearly 30 years. I
>> have travelled quite a bit, and lived in diffrerent parts of the Uk.
>>
>> My Religion
>>
>> Born again Christian
>>
>> Place to go
>>
>> It would be nice to be by the river Windsors my fav. A small fishing
>> village would lovely, thats still unspoilt, and traditional.
>> A bar with live music would be good, with a good friendly atmosphere,
>> so we could both feel relaxed and at ease.
>>
>> Favourite things
>>
>> I love colours, as my Fav colour changes regularly, Spice, and heat is
>> good, which pushes you're senses to the max. Anything from Hot
>> chilli's to the subtle flavour of fish. I like my big boys toys, as i
>> enjoy messing around around with.
>>
>> Literature
>>
>> I like to keep up to date with current affairs, whether it be online
>> or by simply, just reading the tabloids. I need to be up to date with
>> the latest technology. The only book I still love has to be The Lion
>> the Witch and the Wardrobe,

>