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> happyseducedg...@yahoo.com wrote:

>> Okay, so I met this guy I really am into on Saturday....we stayed up
>> all night and didn't have sex. I am learning to really work on my
>> inner game and lay down boundaries. He was going to come over tonight
>> and it was starting to just stress me out so I just called him and said
>> I was tired, etc, interview tomorrow blah blah.
>> I really WAS tired and just am happy (ha ha) to be really balancing
>> when it's time to hang out and when it's clearly time when you need
>> pull back. I don't know exactly what you guys do, but now, when I feel
>> like I'm thinking about a guy too much, I just back way the fuck off.
>> OR, on a more spiritual note...when I have little to GIVE and am only
>> thinking about what I will GET, then I don't hang out with them. It's
>> been pretty good that way and I never leave the house with any
>> expectations FROM anyone. Capiche?

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> I haven't had sex in a WHILE and it seems the longer I wait, the
> weirder it gets. Wondering though which way was better....having them
> lined up and having lots of sex, or doing this...being a little bit of
> a prude these days. I guess we have to try different lifestyles at
> different times.....:)
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