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Author: happyseducedgirlhappyseducedgirl Date: Jan 2, 2007 00:48
>> Okay, so I met this guy I really am into on Saturday....we stayed up
>> all night and didn't have sex. I am learning to really work on my
>> inner game and lay down boundaries. He was going to come over tonight
>> and it was starting to just stress me out so I just called him and said
>> I was tired, etc, interview tomorrow blah blah.
>> I really WAS tired and just am happy (ha ha) to be really balancing
>> when it's time to hang out and when it's clearly time when you need
>> pull back. I don't know exactly what you guys do, but now, when I feel
>> like I'm thinking about a guy too much, I just back way the fuck off.
>> OR, on a more spiritual note...when I have little to GIVE and am only
>> thinking about what I will GET, then I don't hang out with them. It's
>> been pretty good that way and I never leave the house with any
>> expectations FROM anyone. Capiche?
>
> I haven't had sex in a WHILE and it seems the longer I wait, the
> weirder it gets. Wondering though which way was better....having them
> lined up and having lots of sex, or doing this...being a little bit of
> a prude these days. I guess we have to try different lifestyles at
> different times.....:)
BUT, since this IS a seduction group, it's only fair that I tell you
how he COULD have seduced me into an entire night of wild passion:
Stats: he has an ex girlfriend that he lives with cause they have a kid
together etc etc...other people I know have vouched that they are not
an item, he's on the couch and saving to move out, she brings home her
boyfriend. Yes weird but whatever, that's the deal.
SO...he COULD have brought it up to me in a really kind way so that I
didn't have to pry whatsoever. He COULD have been really forthcoming
with information (lies or not) and laid it out on the line. He COULD
have said a few things about how much he digs me and hasn't met anyone
like me in forever....and well... that would have been enough. I
already really liked him...enough to bring him home so...
So...when it's a "weird" situation for her, don't make her ask you.
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