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> My story is very upsetting but, as a feminist, I must tell it. There was a
> boy around campus that always seemed kind of shy and nerdy. He usually
> dressed in Star Trek or Star Wars t-shirts and was somewhat awkward.
> Still,
> I was happy to just be friends with him and he helped me with my math.
> Sometimes he would buy sodas for me and my friends and we always told him
> he
> was so nice - like a little brother. He would tell us how cute we were and
> sometimes we let him sit with us at lunch. We loved to laugh at him when
> he
> did his impression of Captain Picard speaking in Klingon. Suddenly,
> everyone
> noticed a slow but steady change in him. He stopped being so friendly and
> stopped buying us stuff. He was not even dressing like himself. His new
> shirts, pants and shoes made him look like some kind of poser from a GQ.
> Some of the girls said he was kind of cute, now. That made me mad. I
> started
> calling him the TREKKIE JERK. I even slapped him when he was laughing at
> my
> new, emo look. One night, when I was alone in the library, I saw the JERK
> and asked him why he was not my friend, anymore. I told him that we missed
> his old self. He took my hand and led me to a dark corner of the library.
> He
> looked deeply into my eyes and said "Don't you get it? I'm not that person
> anymore. Just because I was a dork doesn't mean that I have to be a dork
> for
> the rest of my life. This is the real me. Can't you accept that I am a
> grown
> man?" Then he kissed me. I was so shocked to hear this from the boy that
> was
> like my little brother just a few weeks before. I ended up sleeping with
> him
> that night. It felt good. But I was sad that I had lost my virginity. I
> also
> missed my old, nice friend that was so much like a little brother. But
> somehow, I felt that I had gained something new. It was both wonderful and
> confusing.
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>
>
> Later that week, I went to his dorm room. He was out, but the door was
> unlocked. I went in to hide and surprise him, but I made a disturbing
> discovery. On his computer, was a seduction website. I read a little and
> was
> revolted! On this site were lists of techniques and ways to seduce women.
> Almost everything was aimed at female attraction to "alpha males" and
> subconscious suggestions. Also on his desk was "The Game: Penetrating the
> Secret Society of Pickup Artists". Some pages had passages that were
> highlighted. This book teaches and glorifies the con artistry of these
> pickup tactics. All that crap he said in the library were just lies to
> sleep
> with me. I just knew that something was wrong with his sudden
> transformation. I had been date raped by a con artist.
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>
> When I went off to college, I was well aware of the date rape issue. I was
> aware of the use of drugs by various perverts and frat boys to have their
> way with women. My parents taught me to be conservative and save myself
> for
> just the right man. So, I kept my eyes open and stayed away from dangerous
> situations. Little did I know that boys are learning subtle forms of rape
> and coercion taught freely on the internet and in books. Women need
> choices.
> Yes means yes and no means no. "The Game" teaches methods around NO just
> as
> effective as date rape drugs or alcohol. The methods are designed to
> seduce
> women at a biological level, thus depriving us of choice. Men are using
> our
> natural female sex drive to rape us. It stole my virginity and my friend.
> Bookstores and internets are partially responsible for distributing these
> rape manuals. I read-up on these in order to better protect my body and my
> choices. Women don't have to read books or internet sites to become more
> attractive. We are honest with each other and the opposite sex. Men should
> treat us with respect and dignity. Women still like nice guys. Here are
> some
> telltale signs that a man is trying to use unfair techniques to rape you.
>
>
>
> 1.. A man that is normally introverted is suddenly becomes more
> inquisitive and expressive with you. Most of his approaches will seem
> friendly and interesting. Stuff like ESP, palm reading and magic tricks
> are
> popular.
> 2.. Trying to act more dominant("alpha male") and behaving with a new
> confidence. Trying to suddenly be the center of attention or making all
> the
> decisions.
> 3.. Negative hitting("negging") to lower your self-esteem. This comes in
> the form of subtle, humorous insults and backhanded compliments. Be on the
> lookout for men trying to break you. He may be trying to use tactics to
> lower your defenses and rape you.
> 4.. He is suddenly acting cocky and funny. This teasing behavior is known
> among pick up artists to attract the attention of women.
> 5.. He speaks more in terms of feelings and emotions. He is trying to
> subconsciously arouse your desires. He is trying to establishing an
> emotional connection.
> 6.. He wears colorful or flamboyant articles of clothing. This is called
> peacocking.
> 7.. He seems to mirror your every body movement. This is a classic method
> to brainwash women into viewing men as mates.
>
>
> Powerful seduction techniques in the hands of innocent boys is like
> handing
> a loaded gun to a baby. You don't want your son to contract aids by
> seducing
> random women. Parents should watch for warning signs in their teen sons.
> These signs may include:
>
> 1. A sudden increase in confidence or a brash attitude.
>
> 2. Suddenly has multiple girlfriends over a short period of time.
>
> 3. When he breaks up with a girl, he shows no signs of remorse or sadness.
> This means he is becoming a hardened con.
>
> 4. You may find seduction manuals in his room. Examples would be "The
> Game"
> by Neil Strauss, "Seduction" by Robert Greene, "How to Win Friends and
> Influence People" by Dale Carnegie, "Virus of the Mind" by Richard Brodie
> and anything from Anthony Robbins or concerning NLP.
>
> 5. He may be on the web more often than usual. www.fastseduction.com and
> the
> newsgroup alt.seduction.fast teach boys how to seduce women and break our
> natural defenses against unwanted male attention.
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