"hardtoget" yahoo.com> wrote in
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I'd bet flake. I hope not... but it sounds like she will, given her party
girl mentality.

Why do either? If she flakes... don't even bother with her. MAYBE call
her a week or so later as a "Oh yeah.. I remember you" kind of call.

hardtoget wrote:

what a "party girl" is ? And how does she qualifies herself as a party girl
??
Just for curiosity, I've never met one before.

I agree with speeding suggestions.
Alternatively within 10 days you could try calling/writing her without
talking about the flake and saying that the next friday you'll go to a
certain party or jazz club and if she wants to come with you.

Met this girl online. Called her up and got the call me then response
but played it and got her to chase me.

She emailed me a couple days later basically saying she's a party girl
and wan't to know if we're on for X day.

Sooo we email back and forth a couple times and eventually I tell her
to meet me at my place so we can leave together instead of waiting for
each other at a crowded "place"

I give her directions to my house and the time. She read my message but
did not respond. Do you think she will cancel or flake??

Should I email or text her and canel if that is the case??

"hardtoget" yahoo.com> writes:

If you meet the girl online you should meet in a well lit public
place, this is common sense/respect. Have some respect for other
peoples safety please. This isn't a question of PU.

--

The guy who fails at the game is the one who
goes out looking for women to make him
feel good about himself.

The guy who succeeds at the game is the one
who goes out and makes other people feel good
about themselves. - Style

I read your other 2 posts.

Your biggest issue, as it comes across in your posts, is:

"Should I do X Y or Z??? What should I do? I don't know what to do!??
Please help me know exactly what to do! Does this mean 1 or 2 or 3?
What does ABC mean if XYZ = 12????"

You're overly worrying about the smallest of details and if you continue
to be that way then the biggest obstacle to your success will be you.

Chill out and look at the big picture.

hardtoget wrote:

So she basically told you she's up for a hook up and now all you need to
do it play it cool, but instead you...

Why, just reply to her with a "yes" and a time & place to meet and that
is ALL.

I agree with everything you said to him and yea thats rare, GJ

If you have never been face to face with them then you need to think
from there point of view and meet in a public setting.

Also I agree you are over thinking all this and also you are putting
too much weight on each encounter.

Here is my advice to you go some where there are lots of people and
woman and approach them.

I want you to make a log post on here and log the next 40 woman that
you approach. The good the bad etc...

what you said /she said

Now I want this done in the next two weeks. Not because I am
challenging you to do it but because you want to get this handled.

Approach 40 women I do not care what you said it could be hi for all I
care or asking for directions, but push it to see how far you can go.

You need to get interactive with women. I think if you rise to the
challenge I have set for you at the end looking back you will get it.

Right now you do not get IT, and no matter what advice we give you will
never get it, So step up and take action and once you get it, it all
snaps together.

On Jan 11, 12:06 pm, Formhandle fastseduction.com> wrote:

superfrk@gmail.com wrote:

You are an idiot...

superfrk@gmail.com wrote:

You make some interesting points and I am not usually like this, but
let me tell you why I have learned to do this. Lately I have been
taught to focus more on details because women notice details we never
think about. I think they are more important than you realize. Just as
Style stated that the BEST PUA spend hours agonizing over wether the
little metal clasp on their shoes matches their earings, I spend time
focusing on the details, including facial expression, inate body
language, etc.

I have started to pay extreme attention to my grooming and my dress and
women notice me and initiate with me now :-) Details are good.

I have also been taught to read situations before acting, hence the
reason I am trying to get input on what these little situations I have
recently encountered mean. I figured based on past experience ( I have
developed a sixth sense about these things now) that she would flake
and sure enough she did.

I didn't get depressed for one second because I've been there before
and made it at a convenient location for me (meet at my place to and
then leave in my car).

I'm not sure why you're posting if you're so confident you played it
correctly.

Personally I would never ask an internet date to meet me at my
apartment. It seems very try-hard and she will immediately be
suspicious of you. Just ask her to meet you at someplace cool.

hardtoget wrote: