It's stupid generalisations like this that give the community a bad
name.
Seriously.

VSP

hey dude,

very good post - starting with the feet is definitely a good idea,
women know about shoes, and will definitely pick up on this subject, as
i have been in the past and have learnt my lesson.

very good point. but don't you just love them? a woman in a good pair
of high heels... bowls me over every time. the number of times i've
opened on a girl simply becuase she has nice shoes... also gives me the
opportunity to demonstrate value by being able to give an educated
opinion on them.

i know one exception to this. I met TovRa a short while ago and he told
me what he would be wearing (so i would recognise him) and he described
white trainers.

i instantly thought that this was definitely a faux pas and he'd
falling into the trap. but as it turned out, they looked good and
suited his style. he'd laced them with bright orange laces and they
looked good and drew the eye. i could also see the practicality side of
it too, cos he does break dancing, they gave him extra freedom, much
more than my slip-on smooth soled leather shoes.

also, my little brother wears the most garish Nike trainers you have
ever seen. proper old school with a multitude of colours, and he can
pull that look off. its also very much down to your overall style and
what you have the confidence to get away with. but he'd never get into
the clubs that i go to looking the way he does!

Um... is this a joke or something?

I'm not sure I got the punchline.

"Sir Benjamin Nunn" depro.co.uk> wrote in
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Following the recent discussions on what to wear (and what to avoid like a
Burberry cap) I've rationalised a few thoughts on the subject.

In this first part, we'll start from the ground up and talk about shoes.

If you've read any image-related pickup material at all, you'll be familiar
with the concept that shoes are a big deal to a lot of women, and no big
deal to a lot of guys, and this creates a huge understanding chasm, but one
that can be bridged with a little work.

There are exceptions, but to a lot of men, shoes are just things we put on
our feet, and our motivations are comfort and the ability to walk/run/jump
effectively, with the appearance of footwear as an aside.

Look at the shoes most women will pick out for themselves, and such
practical concerns will take second place to how they look. Seriously, some
of the strappy things with ridiculous heels that they wear... intended to be
looked at and coveted rather than worn on a daily basis. And they still want
83 pairs of them.

Anyway, as you'll know already, women also notice mens shoes, and are
particularly good at noticing the wrong shoes.

"Scruff" googlemail.com> wrote in message
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Heh. I'm a regular Ghey-FC.

My next post - if and when I feel like writing it - will be 'Denim:
Blessing, Curse or Both?'

BTN

"Scruff" googlemail.com> wrote in message
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This is it - all about having to work harder.

As I've said before, women spend many hours and lots of

dman@mytrashmail.com a

focus: what is the biggest obstacles you have had to get over on the
way to a lay, but that obstacle was there due to yourself not somebody
else (i.e. LMR, cockblocks etc... don't count, unless you intentionally
created it)

Off the top of me head right now, there was one time a girl was lying
down on my bed and my brother's copy of The Game was lying only inches
away from her face. She looks and asks about it etc...

As it turned out, was fucking easy (oops, no pun intended!) to get past
that. All I did was make an off hand comment about it being some guy's
autobiography and then distracted her, continued with kino, etc...

dman