dman
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> On Mar 11, 7:39 am, Now Im Confused wrote:
>> So I was hanging out with a male friend today in the park, when
>> this HB friend of his ran into us. She seems kinda flirty in
>> general, but she gave me enough IOIs (bringing up the my
>> "girlfriend," asking age, touching, etc) that I felt that I was in
>> the running.
>>
>> My friend goes home and I am walking the same direction as HB to
>> her apartment. So I walk her home. I elicit some values, get her
>> to talk about her first love and then the love that stole her from
>> him. Nice energy was built up, she seemed to be into me.
>>
>> So at her door, she goes for a hug, I make her work for it a tiny
>> bit (maybe I bumbled this I don't know) at any rate as we are
>> walking
>
> how/why would you make her "work" for a what is simply a hug?!
>
Because the teasing was fun and made her touch me more.
> though an hour back I was talking to this russian girl on the bus in
> and she told me about a previous kiwi boyfriend who didn't let her
> hug him for three months!! wtf
>
Thats what you get for talking to Russian women on a bus.
>
>> away, maybe 3 meters apart I say in an admittedly AFC voice,
>> something to the effect "if you want you can give me your email."
>> To which we HB says we will hang together me and my friend
>> together soon. She sounded rather like she was looking forward to
>> this, and said a few more goodbyes, flirty kind of stuff.
>>
>> So what do you think?
>>
>> - She may have wanted me to hange out with her more right then
>> and come up to her room? Small but non-negative probablity.
>>
>
> yes, she wants your pants and what is in them
>
Ya, probably.
>> - I shouldn't have asked for her email, because she was obviously
>> into me so she was going to make sure my friend gets us all
>> together again?
>>
>
> yeah, you should have got her number
>
I am more of an email guy myself.
--
Tell him honestly, simply, kindly, but firmly
Don't make a big production
Don't make up an elaborate story
This will help you avoid a big tear jerking scene
If you wanna date other people say so
Be prepared for the boy to feel hurt and rejected
Even if you've gone together for only a short time,
And haven't been too serious,
There's still a feeling of rejection
When someone says she prefers the company of others
To your exclusive company,
But if you're honest, and direct,
And avoid making a flowery emotional speech when you brake the news,
The boy will respect you for your frankness,
And honestly he'll appreciate the kind of straight forward manner
In which you told him your decision
Unless he's a real jerk or a cry baby you will remain friends
