I have a suggestion for those that want to understand how a woman thinks
and how she would classify a guy as one of her girlfriends as opposed to
someone she would be interested in as a lover. A woman has posted a
video weblog (VBLOG) about herself and this very issue.
It is extremely interesting to watch as she tries to understand why she
thinks the way she does and doesn't understand why it bothers her. (Of
course, I do, thanks to the comments from people here over the years.)
Basically, a guy she knew for (I think she said) several years (and had
essentially classified as a 'girlfriend') hit on her. He said something
to her (that she can't quite remember) and then he asked her to take him
home with her.
If you have ten minutes (and a broadband connection), check out a video
entry on You Tube by a young lady who goes by the handle of
MelissaJenna, which is at this address:
http://www.youtube.com/user/MelissaJenna
The video I am referring to is her Video Blog #14, "Take me Home With
You" (in case that is not the one that comes up on her home page on You
Tube) it is also directly accessible at the link below:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rzgaVk-V4TI