Ignore the local newsloon.

Here is what I wrote today in response to somebody else who had just
arrived here and wondered if "The Game" would cause everything here to
stop working because everybody would be doing it:

You are not the first one to think of that, many many places a version
of your thoughts have been posted. They are all a variation of "chicken
little" and the sky is about to fall on our heads.

There are several reasons why this won't come about, here is just one
more of them:

It is bloody hard work getting good at seduction!

As an example, consider an Ironman (something I personally race every
year). It is 3.8km swim, 180km bike, 42.2km run (i.e. a marathon).

Impossible? Not at all, many people do it. Just like many people have
for centuries and centuries had sex with each other.

Can you do it? Absolutely! I believe everybody can do an Ironman if
they
set their mind to it, just like everybody can learn seduction. While
some people can relatively easily do an Ironman (such as myself, I put
in next to no training at all by Ironman standards, still do way more
than the average person...) others will have many years of hard work in
front of them before they can even get to the start line of an Ironman.

Same with seduction, a few people who are already demi-naturals will
pick this up without too much trouble, but for the "Average Joe" there
is a long hard grind in front of him before he will have mastered this.
Most people simply won't go through this.

And here is what Lori wrote:

If you really read "The Game" then you should know that one thing that
is necessary for the PUA wannabe is large amounts of practice AKA field
work.

You can't just go up to a girl and use a canned line. But, if you know
how it works and on what type of woman it works on then you can modify
it to fit your style.

Think of seduction like a suit. The times are rare when you get one off
the rack that totally fits. When it dosen't you have two choices, you
can take it to a tailor who will fix the problem, for a price, or you
can learn to fix it yourself. And once you learn how to fix it, you
have it for life.

So goes seduction. The suit is all these methods. You can come to
places like this to refine your methods and figure out what works, but
in the end the best thing you can do is learn all you can and make it
yours.

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Plus to this I should add that many many many many many people still
have not even heard of "The Game", let alone read the book (and those
who try and put it into practice are yet another even smaller group).

dman

On Dec 19, 6:31 am, "Ray Gordon, creator of the \"pivot\""
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