Hi everyone. Ive been lurking here and there, first time poster. I
have a dilemma of sorts.

About 5 years ago, I had a chance to totally nail a blonde 10. She
was at my house, ready to go, and I failed. It's plauged me ever
since... She even called me like a week later after this, wanting to
hang out again, and I blew her off for some friends and a tyson
fight. Needless to say we never hooked up.

Ok well a couple of years I ran into her at a bar. I told her that I
regretted never calling her back, and she warmed up to me a bit, but
said she had a bf... her and a friend actually ended up coming back
to my place later on to smoke some ganja, but nothing happened, as
her friend was totally cockblocking, I couldn't seperate. Whatever
she left , left me some poem on a piece of paper. Never heard from
her again, which was fine, I was cleary in the friend zone at that
moment and I wasnt gonna press things.. i knew id have my chance
eventually..

in article e1lMj.116$Wy4.6@fe53.usenetserver.com, themasterofspam@gmail.com
at Ninja wrote on 4/13/08 6:13 AM:

Everybody thinks their circumstances are special.

Everybody also thinks there's a way to jump immediately to an advanced
concept without learning the basics first.

http://www.fastseduction.com/youarenew

Ninja,
I hope I can add something positive to the situation you are
in.
I have been in you're situation, and still am, where all you see is
beauty.
Just go get the movie Shallow Hal, and watch carefully.

How would you treat this Gorgeous 10 out of 10 that you said you met,
if she was a 1 out of 10?

Shes is still a human, all that would change is just you're focus
wouldnt be on her beauty.

I made a desicion to make it clear to this chick, that after I broke
every dating rule, ( that made me look like a chump )
that I was going to move on,

And do you know what?

She contacts me, and makes it clear that she wants to keep her options
open, and she knows, I have value.

My mind is still set on moving on, because I realize, I have met hot
Chicks many times before, and I will continue to do it again.

The previous poster was plugging a commercial website whose primary purpose
is to use its free material to convince its users to purchase thousands of
dollars in expensive products and workshops.

On USENET, they call that SPAM.

Notice the user didn't give advice to the poster, only "advice" to visit a
commercial website.

The original poster also might want to check the posting history of the
previous poster to see how he treats people he knows won't be spending money
through the site he just promoted. It's all out there in the open.

Seems if one spends enough money they can avoid that type of bullying on
this group. That used to be called extortion, but the courts apply a
different standard to the internet.

--
Ray Gordon, The ORIGINAL Lifestyle Seduction Guru

Finding Your A-Game:
http://www.cybersheet.com/library.html
Includes 29 Reasons Not To Be A Nice Guy (FREE!)
The book Neil Strauss and VH-1 STOLE The Pivot From

cliff's note version please?!

whenever I see a huge as long post calling out for help as one of a
guy's first ever post.... a little bell in my head goes "ding" before
I have even read the thread, this little bell is telling me:

watch out for one-itis and go fuck ten other women

On Apr 13, 10:13 pm, Ninja (themasterofs...@gmail.com) wrote:

in article m-Gdnb7miPDsbp_VnZ2dnUVZ_r-vnZ2d@pghconnect.com, Ray Gordon,
creator of the "pivot" at ray@cybersheet.com wrote on 4/14/08 2:02 AM:

I presume you're referring to me-- hard to tell since you snip all
attributions.

I've never given anyone a hard time about not buying anything. In fact, I've
often said there's no need to buy anything. I've pointed out that the free
information is all anyone has ever needed.

MY posting history exists, in its entirety, in the Google archives. Anyone
who cares to can examine it.

If you're going to lie about me, you might want to pick something that isn't
so easily refutable, fr00t l00p.