Ok, this guy is me. First, I'm in really good shape. I've run about
10 marathons in my life. I do Muay Thai and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu
regularly. However, my face is so-so. Ok, kind of ugly. There is a
scare between my eyes from a fight in high school that lasers can't
ger rid of. A few pock marks from acne. Not to mention a big nose
and big ears. I sort of look like a messed up mouse or rat.

I'm in this bar and there are very few women to meet. It is a dick
party for the most part. After a few beers and a couple of hours I
think about going somewhere else or probably just go home. Just as I
am about to leave this really great looking woman comes up to me and
wants to know if I was ever going to go over and talk to her or not.

She's got big tits, great legs, and big blonde hair.

Seriously, I never saw her in the place at all. She was sitting in a
dark corner with her friends.

I'm speechless and trying to think of something to say that won't blow
it. Within minutes she is kissing me and says she likes smart looking
men. I have no idea what it was about me that made her think I was
smart looking.

Happened to me a few times and i am just an average looking guy like
you. I think as long as you work out and feel healthy women will come.
And Yes I am also an athlete that does swimming and Triathlon.

Good to hear your confident is up. Maybe it should of been up there
all along.

DC

On Feb 25, 10:33 am, seduceher...@aol.com wrote:

On Sun, 25 Feb 2007 10:33:51 -0800, seduceherusa wrote:

Go to agree with the first responder. Women will tell you they get turned
on by all sorts of small things men would never notice on a woman. We need
legs, tits, ass and faces. They can get turned on by a wrist. Go figure.

The fact that you're a martial artist probably means that you're in
excellent shape and you walk well. Women notice stuff like that.

Look at how many women go for tough-guy Mafia types and bikers.

Maybe you look like somebody she once was in love with.

Who knows? Ask her, maybe, once the relationship is solid enough.

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On 26 Feb, 09:01, "Zarky Zork" bonkaloo.net> wrote:

I don't think you have to be overly manly. "Average" build is often
enough for most chicks. Having huge oversized muscles is a turn off
for some women. It often boils down to her personal preference. If it
bothers you, why not join a gym and start lifting heavy weights, short
reps (8 to 12) sets of 2 or 3. If you're really dedicated, there is no
reason why you shouldn't be able to put on some decent muscle in 2
months time. Helps if you like meat and protein though.

Dman wrote....

I do have a couple of smaller scars that are inbetween my eyes but you
are hardly notice it thanks to the far more obvious scar getting all
the attention instead... :p

I'm guessing that it's your sense of humour that gets the girls
Dman...:)

Peanut