Okay first time reader first time poster here.
I have been an AFC for most of my life, even though I didn't know the
accronym til about an hour ago. I'll just tell the whole story and
hopefully some of you experts can help me out.

Meet this girl on match.com. Not a paying member so all I could do was
wink. She winked back. I used the pics and info on match to track her
down on myspace. a couple emails later and we are on our first...