Ahh I agree you do not have to have eye contact to open, I said here is
how I do it.
The reason is that I am the prize and why the hell would I want to give
away my power by randomly approaching her. Who the hell is she to
deserve my attention. This is to not say I never do blind approaches
but you will find if you try the 3 eye contact rule your success rate
will go up. Now they do not have to be done at one sitting, you can
even space the eye contact out. Three just seems to be the magic #
that I have found that works. More than that and you start to give off
the creepy loser, or no balls vibe. Less and you have no connection or
vibe or attraction built up.
So by making eye contact with the girl first it is the same as teasing
or foreplay, its just social foreplay instead of sexual. I am creating
an interaction before I have even said a word to her.
On Jan 7, 6:59 am, "dman"
mytrashmail.com> wrote:>> On Jan 6, 7:45 pm, "Lori Koonce"
excite.com> wrote:>>> InItToWinIt120 wrote:
>>>> So I read "The Game", trying to ditch the AFC status, but I didn't get any
>>>> openers that are really practical. Seriously, "My neighbor got two dogs and
>>>> is looking for an 80's pop duo after which to name them?" Christ, that's
>>>> obvious and awful. If you have any workable ones, that'd be great. And if
>>>> you're worried about me using them on your turf, I live on the south side of
>>>> Chicago, so yeah.It's not so much what you say but how you say it. Style was a rock
>>> journalist, so it makes sense for him to use all his vast knowledge
>>> about music to open. Pick a topic you're familliar with and come up
>>> with some of your own. I'm female and love going up to a group of guys,
>>> and asking them to explain some esoteric sports term to me. The one who
>>> has the best explanation is usually the one who gets my attention.
>
>>>> Also, is it possible to go sarging by yourself? I just moved here; my
>>>> co-workers are all married or might as well be. Tips?I find I'm less afraid of both failure and being on the rotten end of a
>>> steal if I do it by myself, but the whole thing about having a person
>>> to sarge with is instant critique in my book. It helps to tear down a
>>> failure as soon as possible, that way it's fresh in your mind, and with
>>> another pair of eyes on your game, you can get information that you may
>>> not get otherwise.
>
>>> IMHO
>
>>> Lori
>
>> Anything that gets their attention and makes them think is an opener.
>> The reasons for canned material mainly is so that you have something to
>> use that gets there attention, and so that you do not sit and think too
>> long on what you want to say.
>> Let me walk you through how I typically would open a girl, If I spot
>> her I will make eye contact and hold it for 2-3 seconds, then break it
>> unless she breaks it first. Then I will make eye contact again, same
>> thing, now the third eye contact I approach. This way there is
>> something already happening between us on a subconscious level. Then I
>> will approach and either open her or someone in the set. (usually who
>> ever I think is the alpha male or female) Then I will proceed with an
>> opener.You do not need eye contact to open, though of course it is handy to
> have beforehand. Certainly in the split second before you start
> speaking just before you reach them.
>
>
>
>> Now if they are on the dance floor I might say something like,
>> Hey you know most people try to dance with the beat. (neg opener) Now
>> if they are off the dance floor I will use something like OMG, you suck
>> (a Mystery opener) then proceed to explain why he/ she sucks. (now if
>> they are a 10 make it a neg) (if they are a 7-8 make it a compliment)
>
>> Another way to go is an opinion opener. Look I can only stay for a few
>> seconds, but me and a friend were arguing and they said that the
>> people that claim to be the greatest lovers, really suck in bed what do
>> you think? Listen to the answer(s) then Intro your self , by the way
>> my name is Stephen and I am hung like a hamster, whats your name? If
>> delivered correctly she / they will be laughing and maybe even wanting
>> to find out.
>
>> Now that you have opened do the basic stuff find out a little about
>> them, once you hit on a connection deepen it by either validating what
>> she said with a little story of your own, or by busting on her (in a
>> playful way) for it.
>
>> then game on with routines or say it was nice talking to you but I
>> really should get back to my friends or go home or what ever. Take a
>> step or two to leave then turn around and say its too bad there is not
>> a way we could conntact each other later or something.(say with a
>> smile) Then hand her a piece of paper and a pin. Now do not take the #
>> and run give her a hug and then as you get ready to leave point to your
>> cheek. She will give you a little kiss on the cheek. (now if she does a
>> chicken peck turn and leave, If she lingers for a second take your hand
>> and place it on the back of her neck, move your fingers up into her
>> hair (unless it looks like a weave, heavly gellled or a freash perm)
>> close your hand and gently pull back a bit and give her a soft long
>> french kiss.
>> Then you can either make out a bit or say well I better get going, I
>> will call you tommarow.
>
>> You always want to leave them on a high and no matter what type of
>> close you get stick around for 30 secs or they will get a cheap used
>> feeling and that is not what you are after. Oviously if it is sex then
>> you may want to stick around a bit longer."Bit longer" you say.... 31 seconds perhaps for a full close? ;P lol
>
>> Now back to the topic though it does not matter if you are a party of
>> one or not as you are the party. The party is where ever you happen to
>> be remember that.
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