This is my 2nd match dot com meeting for coffee where I have employed
fastseduction.com techniques.
I ran natural woman, played some games, got in lots of kino.
Where I went "wrong" on match girl #1, I got better here. With match girl #2,
I went for instant kino and dropped her a compliment on her positive energy
from her phone call and told her positive energy is something that I rarely
come across. So that obviously enabled me to get in a quick arm touch and a
light hug.
Convo went great -- although sometimes I was so into her eyes and mirroring
her, I wasn't focued on the convo. But it didn't seem to hurt anything.
I thought I had her warm, but not hot and glowing.
I did a great job of getting her to recall positive feelings and anchoring them
to me -- Unlike match girl #1, I get this chic on feelings 70%% of the time...
Getting her to talk about her travels was gold. Got her to talk about eating
ice cream. I dropped some subtle sexual innuendo...She liked that...
Anyway, I cut the meeting off at a peak moment and told her I was busy and had
to get back to clients.
Oh, one mistake, I bought her coffee -- But I told her when we were leaving
that it was only because of her positive energy and great vibe that I bought
her coffee -- and I am not the dude that is going to hit on you and offer you
dinners just to hang out.
We walked to the car and I did the yes close to kiss close
"Did you enjoy our great conversation?"
"Yes!"
"Did you enjoy your tasty latte?"
"Yes!"
"Would you like to kiss me?"
*cute, shy smiling*
"Ummmmmmmm..."
Like I learned in some David Dangelo joint somewhere -- I didn't go right for
the tongue like I did to the last match chick -- I slowly moved in for a short,
soft kiss -- Pulled back and looked at her in the eye for that anticipation and
kissed her again, a little more passionate than the first -- And kept it short
and sweet.
So as I was pretty much making that move like I was backing up to say goodbye
and turn and go to my car she said:
"So, can we see each other again?"
I said: "I don't kiss and run..."
She said: "How about Sunday? I am going away but will be back Sunday afternoon
-- I'm going to a bachelorette party. (Hmmmmm...I wonder how that comes in to
play??)
Me: "Well, I'm sure you will be tired from all that partying. I will mark you
in for a maybe on Sunday in case you don't have the energy."
She asks for a hug (Damn! She can't get enough of the physical contact) We kiss
again and I leave.
Anyway, I think that I made myself a little too easy for the next date. How
should I have handled her setting seeing me on Sunday? Now, if there was no
travel and no hardcore partying, fine.
Then again on second thought, maybe I played it right...Maybe she will be back
tired, but invite me over as she relaxes and forget about going to get a drink
or coffee 8)