This is true for the approach. Right now I'd say I'm an 7.5. When I'm in
shape, I am without a doubt a 10. Women DEFINITELY treat me better when I'm
in better shape. Its easier to return stuff past due to Wal Mart, score free
food at a restaurant, etc.

But here's the kicker bro, this should definitely help you with your
confidence.

When I was a 10, I still didn't do well with women. Also understand this...I
never....NEVER heard no when I asked a chick out. I can honestly say I can't
remember a time. So is this contradictory? No. My game sucked! That is
exactly why I'm here! It's better now, but STILL not close to a true PUA. I
had confidence and looks but blew it at certain steps.

I realized this one night through one of those lifetime, eye-opening events.
Way back before I knew any of this shit, I saw my own sister, acting like a
fucking IDIOT over some guy who, to me and almost any non-PUA or PUA
student, looked like a complete doucebag. He wore a blazer with a tshirt to
bar! WTF?! (I'm doing that tonight BTW). His face was pock marked. He was
about a foot shorter than me. He had some lame job. I told my sister, who
was vying for his attention when he had 2 chicks under each arm, "What are
you doing fawning over this guy? He's a douchbag!"

Then a few years later I went out with said sister and a girl I was dating
but didn't want to get close to because I had been hurt in a previous
relationship. We also had a lot of my sisters friends out with us. Anyway,
all the girls saw me saying "We're not dating" to this chick with me and her
fawning on me, then one asked my sister if I was available, to which she
said "No". But that, of course, only made her more excited. Anyway, it was
one of the most amazing nights in my life in terms of chicks coming on to me
hard. I didn't understand what was different then...I acted EXACTLY the same
as I always had.

Think about that. A guy who's a 10 remembers a night where he did well with
women? Shouldn't that just blur in? No. Because I didn't understand the
game.

I would do direct approaches pretty easily (still hard though...some
confidence issues) and can talk easily so I did well. Like I said, I
constantly number closed. But that kind of thinking ends one up in the
'friend' zone or no sex zone. I still saw D-bags that were not close as
good looking as me grabbing chicks and scoring fast and it didn't make
sense. I was a nice guy. I would take my time and never kiss them, heavy
petting, etc unless they made the move. I couldn't read IOIs for SHIT! I
still suck at this. I didn't know about not complimenting, I STILL fail
shit tests (badly). If you're a 10, women REALLY throw out the shit tests
because they are very insecure. In many ways it's harder, especially for me
cuz I DON'T take shit and my responses are way too harsh. This is an area
I'm working on. Guys AMOG you hard. I'm good at this because I'm very
friendly and, if friendly doesn't work, I'm witty and can put them in their
place.

So here are some basic things you can do to help your game immediately;

1) Dress differently and WELL. Stand out. I stood out cuz I'm a 10 (not any
more) but had confidence issues when I approached and dressed like every guy
there. I had no game and shady confidence when initially talking so that
would knock down my status. I started to look more like every other chump
there. I look GQ now. Not so peacocky, just very stylish.

2) These guys I noticed HAD CHICKS WITH THEM. I'm going out tonight with
some chicks...no guys. This lowers desperation on your part and makes you
seem like a 'pharoah' (saw that in some book). This is of course easier said
than done, but if some chick wants you in 'the friend zone' then that is a
GREAT THING! Use her to help you pick up chicks! Plus, trust me on this, she
will get jealous and want to move you out of the friend zone.

3) Lie about your job. Money matters. I like what that dude said before
about being 'head of information security for a large company'. That way,
it's not exactly lying. Some of my more successful nights when I was unknown
to this shit was when I lied about what I did. Broke ass college student or
broke ass Army private don't sound too good. Even though I was a bad ass in
the Army, so what. I'm a broke bad ass and chicks would rather fuck a rich,
pussy with muscles than a guy eating roman noodles. Luckily I have money
now. They did a study and showed a bunch of faces to women and asked them to
rate their attractiveness. It was about what you'd expect. Then they told
these women the salaries. It adjusted about how'd you'd expect. The more
money the more attractive...well...not so fast. They found that once they
got to 'middle class' it didn't go up much. Women do really want a guy that
can take care of them, but don't necessarily want the millionare above him
(based on his looks of course). But extrapolate that to the next level. Say
your at least middle class if pushed and then your on an even playing field.
Looks matter after that but confidence is more important. I blow it because
I fumble for what to say many times when I'm nervous. There ya go, even
playing field. Work on some routines (I have none) and your beating out the
more attractive, wealthier ones.

4) Here's a related secret. KNOW HOW TO FUCK. Cuz if you fuck her REALLY
well and she has a bunch of super hard orgasms, she won't care after that
what you do....but you have to get that first night of amazing sex out of
the way. This is something chicks don't want you to know; They fall in love
with the guy who gives them that amazing sex. Once you get that, the balance
of power COMPLETELY turns in your favor. Then you can use this chick for
step 2 along with the 'friends'. How do you learn to fuck? Find one LTR and
fuck a lot. Practice and talk a lot! Ask her what she likes and doesn't
like.

5) Work out. I am so bad at this. I'm not fat but I am not in shape anymore
and it sucks. I wanna get back to a 10 cuz it makes it much harder on the
approach.

LOOKS ONLY MATTER ON THE APPROACH! Even then, mostly only for the direct
approach which they say you shouldn't do anyway. It's all you after that.
I'm a direct approach chump. Need to work on that.

Going out tonight to midtown Atlanta! Ask for Bob Smith! Tall, light eyes,
dark hair wearing a dark suit and fender T-shirt. C U out!

Bob Smith

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