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Can I win her back?         


Author: ronarld.chan
Date: Jul 28, 2008 12:59

Hey guys,

I had a date with a gal a couple weeks ago. I am so sure whether it
went well or not (possible not because I was just too nice and got no
sexual vibe at all). Afterwards I asked her out again, she rejected me
in very nice way. I got a bit frustrated. Everytime I happen to see
her ( we both stay in a same buliding) , she says hi and smiles to me
but doesn't say any words at all. I don't know what I should do. I
hate the date when I took her out was being some sort of Mr Sociable
or Comfort and didn't know how to escalate up to another seducing
level. Anyway, I think it is too late to moarn about it. Guys, just
one quick question. Do I still have a chance anyway?

Ronarld
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Re: Can I win her back?         


Author: Ray Gordon, creator of the pivot
Date: Jul 29, 2008 06:55

You never had her. There's nothing to win back.

If they aren't attracted "before" they date you, a date likely won't change
that, unless they get new information during the date.

--
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Re: Can I win her back?         


Author: Ray Gordon, creator of the pivot
Date: Jul 29, 2008 06:56

> Forget your oneitus,

This from those who talk about finding that "one special woman" eventually
to settle down with.

That would be "oneitis" too.

His problem isn't oneitis, but rather not knowing how to attract her.

--
--
Ray Gordon, The ORIGINAL Lifestyle Seduction Guru

Finding Your A-Game:
http://www.cybersheet.com/library.html
Includes 29 Reasons Not To Be A Nice Guy (FREE!)
The book Neil Strauss and VH-1 STOLE The Pivot From

Click HERE: for the ORIGINAL pivot chapter:
http://www.cybersheet.com/pivot.pdf

Here's my Myspace Page: And Pickup Blog (FREE advice)
http://www.myspace.com/snodgrasspublishing

Don't rely on overexposed, mass-marketed commercial seduction methods which
no longer work. Learn the methods the gurus USE with the money they make
from what they teach.
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Re: Can I win her back?         


Author: HC
Date: Jul 29, 2008 07:16

On Jul 28, 3:59�pm, "ronarld.c...@googlemail.com"
googlemail.com> wrote:
> Hey guys,
>
> I had a date with a gal a couple weeks ago. I am so sure whether it
> went well or not (possible not because I was just too nice and got no
> sexual vibe at all). Afterwards I asked her out again, she rejected me
> in very nice way. I got a bit frustrated. Everytime I happen to see
> her ( we both stay in a same buliding) , she says hi and smiles to me
> but doesn't say any words at all. I don't know what I should do. I
> hate the date when I took her out �was being some sort of Mr Sociable
> or Comfort and didn't know how to escalate up to another seducing
> level. Anyway, I think it is too late to moarn about it. Guys, just
> one quick question. Do I still have a chance anyway?
>
> Rona...
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Re: Can I win her back?         


Author: HC
Date: Jul 29, 2008 07:21

On Jul 29, 9:56�am, "Ray Gordon, creator of the \"pivot\""
cybersheet.com> wrote:
>> Forget your oneitus,
>
> This from those who talk about finding that "one special woman" eventually
> to settle down with.
>

This from the guy that can't even get a chick to take a picture of
with him.
> That would be "oneitis" too.

No it wouldn't you imbecile, oneitis is when you're stuck on a woman
that rejected you. What is "oneitis" about being in a healthy
monogamous relationship that both parties want to be in and are happy
together? Nothing.

Only YOU would purposely take a positive and turn it into a
negative.

I asked you this a few days ago, are you SURE you know backard from
forward?
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Re: Can I win her back?         


Author: HC
Date: Jul 29, 2008 07:29

On Jul 29, 9:55�am, "Ray Gordon, creator of the \"pivot\""
cybersheet.com> wrote:
> You never had her.

She agreed to and went out with him. He had his chance.
> There's nothing to win back.

Wrong again, idiot.

The point is, and as usual you're missing it, is that he shouldn't
want to or feel like he has to get her to go out with him again. there
are too many other women out there.

I think you have a problem seeing this clearly, because if you were
ever able to get even a single woman to go out with you once, and then
she rejected you it would be the end of your world because you likely
know that you'd never find anybody as stupid as the first one to go
out with. So in my opinion, you'd go into "stalker mode" and first
try and force her to be with you and then when that didn't work, you'd
decide to punish her, and the next thing we know, there's another
k00ks00t clogging up the system that you're about to be sanctioned out
of.
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Re: Can I win her back?         


Author: Vance
Date: Jul 29, 2008 08:37

On Jul 28, 12:59 pm, "ronarld.c...@googlemail.com"
googlemail.com> wrote:
> Hey guys,
>
> I had a date with a gal a couple weeks ago. I am so sure whether it
> went well or not (possible not because I was just too nice and got no
> sexual vibe at all). Afterwards I asked her out again, she rejected me
> in very nice way. I got a bit frustrated. Everytime I happen to see
> her ( we both stay in a same buliding) , she says hi and smiles to me
> but doesn't say any words at all. I don't know what I should do. I
> hate the date when I took her out  was being some sort of Mr Sociable
> or Comfort and didn't know how to escalate up to another seducing
> level. Anyway, I think it is too late to moarn about it. Guys, just
> one quick question. Do I still have a chance anyway?
>
> Ron...
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Re: Can I win her back?         


Author: Vance
Date: Jul 29, 2008 08:51

On Jul 29, 7:29 am, HC aol.com> wrote:
> On Jul 29, 9:55�am, "Ray Gordon, creator of the \"pivot\""
>
> cybersheet.com> wrote:
>> You never had her.
>
> She agreed to and went out with him. He had his chance.
>
>> There's nothing to win back.
>
> Wrong again, idiot.
>
> The point is, and as usual you're missing it, is that he shouldn't
> want to or feel like he has to get her to go out with him again. there
> are too many other women out there.
>
> I think  you have a problem seeing this clearly, because if you were
> ever able to get even a single woman to go out with you once, and then
> she rejected you it would be the end of your world because you likely
> know that you'd never find anybody as stupid as the first one to go ...
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Re: Can I win her back?         


Author: HC
Date: Jul 29, 2008 09:04

On Jul 29, 11:37�am, Vance gmail.com> wrote:
> On Jul 28, 12:59�pm, "ronarld.c...@googlemail.com"
>
> googlemail.com> wrote:
>> Hey guys,
>
>> I had a date with a gal a couple weeks ago. I am so sure whether it
>> went well or not (possible not because I was just too nice and got no
>> sexual vibe at all). Afterwards I asked her out again, she rejected me
>> in very nice way. I got a bit frustrated. Everytime I happen to see
>> her ( we both stay in a same buliding) , she says hi and smiles to me
>> but doesn't say any words at all. I don't know what I should do. I
>> hate the date when I took her out �was being some sort of Mr Sociable
>> or Comfort and didn't know how to escalate up to another seducing
>> level. Anyway, I think it is too late to moarn about it. Guys, just
>> one quick question. Do I still have a chance anyway?
>
>> Ronarld
>
> I really hate to say this, but Ray pretty well sums things up in his ...
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Re: Can I win her back?         


Author: HC
Date: Jul 29, 2008 09:18

On Jul 29, 11:51 am, Vance gmail.com> wrote:
> On Jul 29, 7:29 am, HC aol.com> wrote:
>
>
>
>
>
>> On Jul 29, 9:55�am, "Ray Gordon, creator of the \"pivot\""
>
>> cybersheet.com> wrote:
>>> You never had her.
>
>> She agreed to and went out with him. He had his chance.
>
>>> There's nothing to win back.
>
>> Wrong again, idiot.
>
>> The point is, and as usual you're missing it, is that he shouldn't
>> want to or feel like he has to get her to go out with him again. there ...
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