D. Bosola wrote:
> She seemed receptive to it so after another few minutes I just leaned
> over and said "Get your coat, we're getting out of here." We both
> got up and said our goodbyes and bounced. It was about 1:30 AM at this
> point and very difficult to find a cab, so we ended up walking about 4
> blocks in the rain. She was drunk and wearing heels and kept
> complaining that she was cold and I was walking too fast. Finally it
> occurred to me that we could be walking around for the next hour
> without finding a cab, but that if I maintained a strong frame, I could
> probably get her home on the subway. So we went down into the subway
> and fortunately the train didn't take long to come. After we got to
> my stop it was only a few more blocks to my apt. We went upstairs, got
> a drink of water and then got down to business. I wasn't really
> impressed with her body, as she had fairly small tits and was too thin.
> With all the tats and the piercings she actually grossed me out a bit,
> but I decided I'd go ahead and fuck her anyway just for the
> experience.
Well done on getting her back with all the walking in the rain, I used
to be living right in the city. But my place was away up at the top of
the hill at the complete opposite end of town from the waterfront where
I'd normally prefer to go, which often meant a rather long walk from
the bar to my place for me and the girl to go on.
> And that is the story of my first ONS. Surprisingly, the morning
> conversation over breakfast was not too awkward. I got her Myspace info
> and sent her a message afterwards, thanking her for the good time and
> making sure I didn't have to worry about any STDs.
>
> Jan 1:
> As soon as Hipster was gone, I felt incredibly dirty. So I stripped my
> bed and washed the sheets with twice the amount of laundry detergent I
> usually use. Then I got in the shower and scrubbed down my entire body
> like I'd just been exposed to toxic waste.
Hmm... you seem to have a rather bad reaction to having had your first
one night stand, strict religious up bringing? Or maybe it was really
due to not the ONS but to not being into the girl that much?
Either way it at least can't have affected you too much because you
then went onto quickly lay two more girls. Which I'll now carry on to
read about....
> I'd made tentative plans to for a Day3 with HB Banker tonight. HB
> Banker is a very cute Asian girl with a tight, curvy body - she is a
> former dancer. We'd had a Day2 a few days earlier where I took her to
> the local Japanese restaurant, then brought her home and made out with
> her for a few hours. I did not push for sex and built deep
> rapport/trust instead. (for the Day1 story, see my earlier FR:
> Bosola's Holiday Adventure." I texted her Jan 1 and she invited me
> over to her place around 6 PM. I headed up to her place and on the way
> there I stopped at a liquor store and bought a nice $40 bottle of
> champagne so we could celebrate the new year together. We ended up
> having Chinese food and watching a movie together, then making out on
> her bed. She wanted to take things slow but was obviously very turned
> on and ended up giving me a blowjob and letting me finger her. Then we
> just relaxed in bed and talked until almost 5 in the morning. I feel a
> very deep connection with this girl and may pursue a LTR with her if we
> continue to click like this.
Good you don't count a blowjob as a lay, I find it very strange those
people who do.
> Jan 2:
> HB Kazakh (cute blonde Columbia student) texted me at work and asked
> where we were going to meet up. We had made tentative plans for a Day3
> of dinner/drinks. Day2 was a very intense hookup in her dorm room where
> we got naked and basically did everything except have sex. At the time
> I told her this was due to the unavailability of condoms, but in
> reality I've found that if a girl's buying temperature is high but
> she's still putting up LMR, the best move may be to act as if you
> don't want sex. Then she will drop the LMR completely on the next
> encounter because she is afraid you may next her otherwise. She will
> also be a lot more generous and compliant in bed once you've been
> aloof about sex with her. The thinking in her mind is "What?
> Doesn't he want me? Guys are usually begging me to fuck them!! Well,
> next time I'll make sure to show him how good I am..."
What LMR was she showing?
> First this text exchange occurred:
>
> Bosola: Hey, come to *bar location* around 6. I'll come out from the
> office and meet you.
> Kazakh: Cool.
> Kazakh: (shortly before 6) I'm going to be late. Should be there
> around 7.
> Bosola: OK, I am leaving the office and going home. Just meet me at my
> apartment at *apartment location* and we'll head to the bar from
> there.
> Kazakh: Can we just meet at a certain street intersection instead?
> Bosola: No, it's easier if you just come here, then we'll take a
> cab to the place. You can hang out in the lobby if you want, my doorman
> is very nice.
>
> This sets the frame that she needs to play by my rules and do what I
> say. The implication is that if she acts suspicious of me, I'll just
> next her rather than waste my time. I'm a professional and I refuse
> to jump through hoops to build trust with a college student. Eventually
> she ended up coming most of the way to my apartment and out of
> impatience I came out to meet her and pulled her into a cab. We went to
> the restaurant where we had a few drinks and appetizers and did some
> deep rapport interaction. Then we left the restaurant and I told her I
> wanted to see if she was any good at Jeopardy (we'd discussed game
> shows earlier and I mentioned I had some Jeopardy episodes on my TiVo).
>
> We got back to my place and I poured her a glass of wine. My phone rang
> and I talked to my grandmother for a bit while making funny faces at
> Kazakh and getting her to laugh. Then I shut off the TV and asked her
> if she wanted to see some pictures. I led her to the bedroom and sat
> her down on the bed, then pulled out the old photos of me as a kid. She
> enjoyed looking at these and then we started making out. But when I
> went for the shirt, I suddenly ran into MAJOR LMR. So I worked through
> it with this routine:
>
> Kazakh: I shouldn't be doing this.
> Bosola: Doing what?
> Kazakh: I never sleep with a guy on the second date. I mean, the first
> time wasn't even a date. And now you probably expect sex.
> Bosola: Huh? I don't expect you to have sex with me.
> Kazakh: Oh, come on, yes you do. You invited me back here to watch
> Jeopardy?
> Bosola: Hey, I happen to like Jeopardy very much (sly smile).
> Kazakh: Look, I have fun with you and everything. But this is moving
> really fast for me. I just never have sex until the 5th or 6th date.
> That is my rule.
> Bosola: Do you live your whole life according to arbitrary rules?
> Kazakh: It's not arbitrary, it's practical, and it keeps me from
> getting hurt. I just don't have sex with a guy the second time we go
> out, especially if I really like him.
> Bosola: Wait, so you'll sleep with a guy on the second date if you
> don't like him?
> Kazakh: No, that's not what I meant...
> Bosola: Hey, that's not fair. Why should I be punished for treating
> you like you deserve to be treated? (I am still smiling in a very
> playful way and she is slowly breaking down)
Is good to be always smiling (when appropriate), helps keeps the
situation defused and takes the harsh edge of what you are saying. Plus
when you see a person smiling you are natural inclined to smile back
yourself! I need to be conscious about my smiling, even though I'm
normal feeling like I am broadly smiling my actual face often doesn't
show it as much. (love the Hagar the Horrible cartoon when he says "I
AM SMILING!")
> Kazakh: You're not being punished, it's just that...
> Bosola: Look, I totally understand where you're coming from, you want
> sex just as much as I do, but you're worried that if you sleep with
> me too soon, I'll lose interest in you and won't call you again.
> And that is a totally normal thing for a girl to worry about. On the
> other hand... if you look at it from my perspective, you'll see how
> silly it seems. I mean, why would I have sex with you and then never
> call you again? Unless you're really bad in bed, there just
> wouldn't be any upside in not calling you. I mean, if I did that,
> then I would never be able to have sex with you again, right? That
> would be idiotic on my part.
> Kazakh: Yeah, I guess so.
> Bosola: Geez Kazakhstan, you should just relax. (playful smile) Don't
> worry so much. We have a good time together, don't we? Stop taking
> this so seriously!
>
> She laughed and we started making out again. When I went for the shirt
> and the bra, there was no resistance. I used a normal progression,
> rubbing her through the pants before taking them off, then rubbing her
> through the panties before taking them off too.
Ever whip of the panties together with the pants at the same time? Is
easy to grab both and remove in one motion the same as if you were just
taking of her pants, and it skips the possible obstacle of removing her
panties by combining them into the same one of the obstacle of removing
her pants which you have just done.
>I encountered no
> resistance whatsoever. Then I went down on her before fucking her. (I
> normally do this as it gets the girl very aroused and I have never had
> a girl refuse sex after she has received oral).
You said earlier "The one thing that really bothered me was that she
asked me to go down
on her and I did it, but in hindsight this was incredibly stupid as I
didn't know the girl at all and she could have been diseased." and now
you say you normally do this, bit of paradox to me how you can normally
do this and at the same time be worried about getting "diseases" from
giving oral?
> The sex was really
> intense, lasting about half an hour and leaving us both drenched in
> sweat. We went to sleep, then woke up at about 6 am and went at it
> again. This time she jumped on top of me and wore the bowler hat while
> she rode me cowgirl-style. Hot!!! I loved getting fucked by a naked
> girl wearing a hat. =)
damn, got a new fantasy to do. A completely naked with a hat, wonder
why I've never had that happen before. Oh, because hats are so easy to
remove if they are worn they are taken off waay before anything gets
started proper.
>
> Jan 3:
> We got up early and I put Kazakh on the subway before heading to work.
> I ended up staying late at work (until 9:30), so nothing interesting
> happened in the evening.
>
> Jan 4:
> I had arranged for a Day4 with HB Banker and as she absolutely worships
> me at this point, I felt that the f-close was in the bag. Because I am
> leaving for vacation on the 5th, I told her I had to stay home and do
> laundry and pack for my trip, but that she was welcome to come chill
> with me at my place for a little while and watch a movie. She said
> she'd meet up with me at 8, so I headed home around 6 and threw all
> my laundry and my sheets in the wash. I ran into her in the elevator on
> the way up from throwing everything in the dryer, and we sat around in
> my apartment for a while, joking around, making out, and enjoying each
> other's company. The two of us already have very extraordinary
> attraction. We get along great and I am certain that she will be my
> next girlfriend. When it was time to get the laundry out of the dryer,
> she accompanied me down to the laundry room, helped me bring the
> laundry up, then helped me make my bed and fold the laundry!
sweet, does she cook too? lol
No wonder you are thinking she could be your next girlfriend...
What will happen to the other girls if and when she becomes your
"girlfriend"?
> Once the laundry was done, we ordered in sushi and sat down to watch
> The 40-Year-Old Virgin. This is a very funny movie and great for
> getting a girl in state. However, before watching it you should be sure
> the girl will be receptive to a sex comedy (I first asked her if she
> liked Something About Mary, which she did). During the movie she was
> alternately laughing hysterically and turning around (away from the
> TV!) to tongue me down. Every time she did this I would make out with
> her for about 10 seconds and then freeze her out by saying "Please
> behave. You're not watching the movie." Essentially the entire
> watching of the movie is a pre-emptive freezeout because I know she
> wants to make out with me and possibly have sex, but I'm acting more
> interested in watching the movie. As soon as the movie ended, I shut
> off the TV, looked deeply into her eyes, took her hand, stood her up
> and lead her directly to the bedroom, saying absolutely nothing. This
> time I started making out with her immediately and saved the pictures
> for later, because this girl is very conservative and I was expecting
> massive last-minute resistance.
Yup, I too have got a girl due to freeze outs during a movie (was at
her place, while on holiday down south). Plus they feel so easy and
natural to do, I really did want to watch the movie!
> I got what I was expecting: we made out for a little while and even
> before I tried to undress her, she got squeamish. So I stopped
> everything, turned on the light and pulled out the picture album. She
> looked at the pictures of little Bosola and was ecstatic. We started
> making out again, and again I ran into LMR. I ran the same routine that
> I'd run on Kazakh two nights earlier, and again it worked like a
> charm. After hearing me essentially promise that I was not in this for
> a one-night stand, she relaxed considerably. She was wearing a
> beautiful little dress that tied together at the waist, and when I went
> for the sash and untied it, the whole dress came off with no resistance
> whatsoever.
>
> We tongued each other down for a little while and I rubbed her through
> her panties until I felt moisture soaking through them and she started
> bucking and moaning. Suddenly she exclaimed "No one has ever made me
> come like that, without even touching me!"
lol, is funny how that can be thought off as "not touching".
> She returned the favor by
> going down on me, but I stopped her before I could come. After this, I
> took the panties off and tried to go down on her, but she warned me
> that she was on her period. So I continued to make out with her and rub
> her clit. I could tell she was pretty conflicted because she kept
> blurting out stuff like "Oh my god, I want you so bad" and "I
> know I shouldn't be doing this, but you are so intoxicating." When
> she said "I want you so bad" for the third time, I finally took a
> hint and went for the condoms. She was afraid that I might be too big
> for her (she's a tiny little 5'2" Asian girl and I'm just under
> 7") but I eased into her very gently and she was able to handle it.
whoa, you are even taller than me. Why difficulties with girls do you
have at being this height and how do you overcome them? If I was with a
5'2" asian chick I'd find the gap in height annoying, though I'd get
over it eventually.
> Over the course of the next hour I had sex with her twice and she had 5
> more orgasms, after which she gave me DDB and said "You are amazing.
> That was the best sex I have ever had in my entire life." Although I
> know this is very AFC, I decided I wanted to make this girl my
> girlfriend, and didn't see any point in waiting, so I said I wanted
> to date her exclusively and she agreed.
I see.... so that is what will happen to the other girls. Hmm... I
personally wouldn't have decided to date her exclusively, seems a bit
wrong too. What about the others, such as specifically the second one
with what you said to her when you encountered LMR. Now she will miss
out on having sex with you again, you will probably not even call her
again? Unless it is to say you can't see each other again, which would
be rather hurtful.
> Thus ends this epic lay report. After fucking three different girls in
> less than a week I feel completely slutty and have decided to drop out
> of the game until further notice while I spend some time with my new
> (hot) Asian girlfriend, who worships me like a god.
Slutty? With your comments on "slutty" and other related points I
wonder if deep down you regard at some level having sex with girls as
bad?
> As always, feedback is welcome. Hope you all enjoyed the report.
>
Yup, enjoyed it a lot. Was very interesting. And I've made my comments
already of my views on a few things, take it as you wish.
> Happy New Year!!!!!
>
> Bosola.
