How do you react when a girl makes plans and then breaks them without
notice or an apology later?

To set up the scenario a little, I don't know her very well. Our first
and only interaction thus far was a drunken hook up. She contacts me
to let you know she'll be in town in the evening, and wants to hang
out at my place. She texts me again around 10pm to let me know she's
in town and she's having drinks with some girlfriends. She says she'll
call when she's ready to come over to my place.

But she never calls. I end up sending a lame text "soo.. what's up?"
to which she never responds.

If I hear from her again, I'm wondering how (or if) I should address
this?

Normally, I'd just ask her "So what happened with you the other
night?" but she'll be out of town for a few weeks and it may be weird
bringing it up at that point. So do I just let her off the hook and
ignore it? I feel like I'd be letting her walk all over me. On the
other hand, she doesn't have much emotional investment in me and I
don't see much incentive for her to spend time with an angry guy
holding a grudge.

If you're smart, you ignore the chick.

If not, you "game" her, fail, then buy a $5,000 workshop that supposedly
will fix your problem.

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On Aug 27, 7:20�am, "Ray Gordon, creator of the \"pivot\""
cybersheet.com> wrote:

Whattsamatta Ray Ray, just a tad bitter that nobody wants to pay you
for your advice?

On Aug 27, 4:08 am, philo...@gmail.com wrote:

Thanks for the reply Vance.

I think you're pretty much spot on. I'd like to clarify one thing my
original post.

The "hookup" was the first and only face-to-face interaction we had
_since she's been single_. I previously knew her because she dated an
acquaintance of mine, and we hung out a few times in that context. So
she's not a complete stranger, but as you say, alcohol was involved in
the hookup and it doesn't constitute a real IOI. I did receive some
other texts from her after the hookup though, one of which seemed like
a clear IOI (e.g. I received "i've been thinking a lot about what we
did and I want to do it again" one random morning). All in all, I
perceived some level of interest but very little emotional investment.

As it turns out, she met up with her ex the other night when she was
in town, who she's still really into. I'm sure I was her safety net,
in case he was busy or didn't want to see her.

My initial frustration over the incident has waned. You're right that
I've spent too much time on her already. If she's interested on some
level at this point, she'll let me know. I could be more proactive,
but I think my time and effort would be better spent elsewhere.

On Aug 27, 10:49 am, Vance gmail.com> wrote:

On Aug 27, 11:08 pm, philo...@gmail.com wrote:

On Aug 28, 8:37 am, philo...@gmail.com wrote:

On 8/27/08 7:20 AM, in article
QaWdnSfERIs7pSjVnZ2dnUVZ_qrinZ2d@pghconnect.com, "Ray Gordon, creator of
absolutely nothing" cybersheet.com> wrote:

Even a blind squirrel occasionally finds a nut.

But then he returns to just being nuts.

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On Aug 27, 1:37 pm, philo...@gmail.com wrote: