Hi!

Just remember following situation:
You are an (r)AFC. You´ve seen a beautiful girl (oh no, more than one)
in the same bar/disco. All of the interesting girls do the same.
Standing around, looking around, talking a few words with other girls,
sometimes with guys, laughing with them, talking to the barkeeper, to
the security at the entrance, and "she" stays allone, during 5 in the
morning. And goes home allone... and she (in example one girl of more
doing this) never ever look at you.
I think, the first way, to get in contact with a girl, is to have
eyecontact. Without, feel doubtful. The girls I want to know, never look
at me. (Okay, sometimes it is the other way,... I´m not unkissed, an I
has sex. I had more than one girl-friend for a longer time,...)
What will happen, if suddenly another "me" comes to this bar... go to
this girl (i.e. one of them) talking to her... She´s seen me all the
time, haning around with some friends, "checking" the offering, hanging
around most times allone till 5 in the morning...
They must think something awful about me. Or they are wating for me
talking to her.
One time I tried it, but she didn´t like it. The other girl (everytime
SHE´s flirting with me) run away, when I talked to her.
I can get the phonenumber of many girls, but they are not beautiful (for
me). There I´m professional.
I think, I´m "cool" enough when a girls is not beautyful enough. There i
can be so charmfull. I do all the things I´ve read until now, PUAs do.
And it works great. I´m not a lier, girls sometimes get crazy about not
getting me. Really!

BUT!

When ther is an 8 or a 9 (i never see 10th), I turn into the frustrated
little boy... The friendly guy, all the time blinking and smiling. The
"Oh you are a so good friend"-guy. And the man around me are more
interesting for her...

I know, the anser is included in the question... But when i see this
beautyfull girls, i fell little, and dishonourable. Such a woman cannot
want something from a guy like me. I know, that this women must want
something from me. Because I her this all the time. Only it is not
manifested in my heard... How can I do this?

greetings

jakob